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is it stupid or common for ace people with male genitalia too want a vasectomy?
Iām a cis ace male and the idea of being part of the reproductive process (even if Iām not having and donāt plan on having sex even though iām not fully oppose to it as long as sheās the dominant factor) makes me feel sick so i really want a vasectomy. the idea of me having one makes me feel whole. also, iām dead set on adopting in the future. so i guess what iām asking is, is it contradictory for me too want one or is it common amongst ace people with male genitalia.
sorry if this is a stupid question.
https://redd.it/1uwvi9t
@asexualityonreddit
| 2 | Longing for something
I don't usually post like this on here, but I just told a friend this and I thought I'd share it here too.
I wish I could have someone in my life who doesn't want a relationship and just wants to hold each other at night. It's not like I don't crave that sort of intimacy, I just don't want the relationship part.
I identify as aroace and I value friendship a lot, I just wish I had someone like me who understands this sort of thing.
Can anyone relate???
https://redd.it/1uwueew
@asexualityonreddit | 8 |
| 3 | why do people kiss strangers
ok so i dont mean to offend anyone but i have a genuine question. whats with people kissing randos at bars?? like it CANNOT be that fun to risk getting mono. but like i need to know if this is just me being too judgy or if other asexuals have also wondered about this??
EDIT: guys i understand that people have different interests. i know i shouldnāt have gone on that little rant but i was just curious if this was something asexual people did as well, or if it was just allos. this post is not a debate about mono šš
https://redd.it/1uwdadb
@asexualityonreddit | 11 |
| 4 |  W
https://redd.it/1uwlqim
@asexualityonreddit | 9 |
| 5 | ĀæAlguien dudo de su orientacion por un trauma?
Soy callada y me cuesta bastante hablar sobre estas cosas.
Pase por un abuso sexual cuando tenia 16 aƱos,no quiero etiquetarme mal o confundirme sobre si soy asexual por que no siento atraccion o por que me da miedo..solo quiero saber si alguien paso por esto y como lo soluciono.
Me ayudaria mucho leerlos.
https://redd.it/1uwi9bl
@asexualityonreddit | 10 |
| 6 |  Writing an ace character as an asexual.
https://redd.it/1uwdopi
@asexualityonreddit | 14 |
| 7 |  Topology
https://redd.it/1uwf64f
@asexualityonreddit | 17 |
| 8 | getting called gay as an asexual
to the asexual guys. how do u cope with getting called gay(if that happens) whenever u decide to tell ppl abt ur sexuality.
like i swear bro i just dont fw girls like that. THAT DOESNT AUTOMATICALLY MEAN I LIKE DIH. hello?
https://redd.it/1uwak2l
@asexualityonreddit | 18 |
| 9 | When I told my friend, I was a pansexual and asexual
My friend said
Your pansexual left brain: Oh no, why is everyone so hot?
Your asexual right brain: Global warming, obviously.
(just joking, hahaha)
https://redd.it/1uw9qm6
@asexualityonreddit | 20 |
| 10 |  A comment i left on a post on the gen z subreddit about how OOP felt like they'd never find a partner. I think this might be useful advice for people who struggle with relationships or feel like everything is against their favor
https://redd.it/1uvyr2k
@asexualityonreddit | 20 |
| 11 | A comment i left on a post on the gen z subreddit about how OOP felt like they'd never find a partner. I think this might be useful advice for people who struggle with relationships or feel like everything is against their favor
https://redd.it/1uvw0gl
@asexualityonreddit | 20 |
| 12 |  Big mood:
https://redd.it/1uvonjq
@asexualityonreddit | 21 |
| 13 |  my sibling just got employed at:
https://redd.it/1uvwdo6
@asexualityonreddit | 19 |
| 14 |  I turn in some type of horny werewolf that should be put down
https://redd.it/1uw0jtt
@asexualityonreddit | 22 |
| 15 |  This is literally peak:
https://redd.it/1uvrgbz
@asexualityonreddit | 23 |
| 16 | My favorite metaphor for sex
People don't ever understand what asexuality means for me, so I came up with a comparison that I think explains how I feel.
For me, sex is like Badminton. Or Scrabble. Take your pick, whichever one you feel more apathetic towards.
If my partner really, really wants to play Scrabble, then sure, I'll play Scrabble. I'll give it a good shot, and I'll do my best to have a good time! I'll do group Scrabble! I'll play in teams! Heck, I've been to a few Scrabble conventions, just for the hell of going.
However, I don't want to play for 5 hours, I don't want to wake up in the middle of the night to play it, and I certainly don't want it first thing in the morning before I've had coffee.
I don't like relationships that are based around us playing Scrabble. It makes me feel dejected if someone says I can't have a relationship with them if we're not playing Scrabble after every date. To me I feel like... we did your thing (Scrabble), now can we do my thing? Can't this be more of a tit for tat?
https://redd.it/1uvtgu8
@asexualityonreddit | 24 |
| 17 |  This seems so excessive and unnecessary
https://redd.it/1uvphd9
@asexualityonreddit | 26 |
| 18 | relationship, so why be sad about something that can't happen ? I feel like I can just drop people if they don't like me because it's okay I don't expect people to like me. My friend cries about it and talks so much about crushes but I don't get it because isn't it easy to just reject it and move on ? I'm just so lost are people too open or am I too closed? Am I rejecting love or can I just not tell how it feels ? Am I an asexual in denial or is something just fundamentally wrong with me ??? Do I just need more experience and everything will change ?
In summary, I'm probably greysexual but label doesn't feel right, and I don't know how feelings work and need someone to relate to and also sos signal
https://redd.it/1uvjslr
@asexualityonreddit | 30 |
| 19 | Feeling conflicted š§āāļø
I feel like all the words describe me as asexual (greysexual specifically), but I don't feel asexual, if that makes sense. Like the word isn't a thing a feel I am.
I'm a college student and I desire a relationship heavily, but I don't really get a spark or anything often. Like I want someone I can cuddle and kiss and have sex with and buy stuff for/take care of, but I feel like I don't have a foundation like others. I'm not sure what butterflies feel like or having casual crushes. I don't know if I've ever looked at someone and thought, "man I wanna have sex with them or whatever"
Since I was like in 4th grade, I've known as attracted to girls (I watched Titanic and Kate Winslet changed my life) and I guess I just assumed I was attracted to guys too because society, but I didn't really know it was strange until it was middle school. In middle school, I had what I assume was a crush on a girl and a guy, which is why I thought I was bisexual though I can't say I've ever wanted a relationship with a man, but I later found out he was trans so I call myself a lesbian because maybe only non-cis people ?? I can't bring myself to care anymore I just say I'm a lesbian because I don't like the idea of men interested in me and I feel scared or nervous when I get that vibe from men I'm friends with it makes me uncomfortable
In high school I think I had a crush on two girls but then I found out one was like three years younger than me and got an ick so crazy from myself I had to take a day to contemplate myself and all "feelings" I had dissipated
Now in college I've been on a date with one girl and though she was beautiful, I didn't really feel anything because our convos were boring and the vibe just wasn't there. I made bracelets for people for 3 bucks and I met one girl who was so beautiful, like all my brain could think was wow danggg dang dang aw shucks what and at the end I just gave her the bracelet and didn't even ask for payment I probably broke a moral violation of special privilege in the business world even though my bracelet business was not really legitimate or anything. There was a few guys that liked me but it kinda scared me for like normal definition but more like made me squirmy and I couldn't talk to them until I told them I wasn't interested in men, so I've come to terms I'm lesbian/whatever else comes my way
Now all these situations you'd say "are you sure you're not allosexual or something ??" But I say this because I'm not really sure of these feelings. They don't feel like butterflies or like this innate pull any different from an intense friendship (I tend to make deep friendships and struggle to embrace new people like organically I guess I only really consider people friends friends after I few years), but I still have like an interest I guess I can only compute years from now when I think about it. All these girls (and rep the one boy I guess shoutout him) are after years of ruminating on my friendships and situations and coming to the conclusion that I probably liked them because they made me feel good in a way I can't describe and I think I wanted more even if I'm not sure if I should want that because they probably weren't interested in me that way, and it makes it easier if I consider that no one can be interested in me.
I guess I'm trying to say I can't tell my own emotions and I don't know how other people tell theirs. I feel like I'm going through life without understanding any emotions and I'm looking for guidance or something fuck I don't know just help. I am never angry or sad but I am upset like the word upset and I am never happy and I'm rarely excited but I satisfied, and I just don't get why words other people use don't ever work with me? Do other experience this too ? And when I'm upset I get so upset I feel like I'm burning up and I need to purge it all or fear it gets me so badly I shake and throw up and shame turns my ears hot makes me numb but love and happiness has never done this to me ? How do people feel so sad about crushes? You've never had that | 23 |
| 20 | A Chinese girlās foolish story
I think I may accept sex but I truly hope someone to love me of my character my personality the mental in my mind the vibe of every single moment we spend togetherļ¼But Iāve never found that kind of connection. People only care about my looks and my body, especially guys. Itās put me through so many terrible things.
Iāve never had a crush on anyone my entire life. While all my peers had crushes and made sexual jokes, I was always confused. Kids back then didnāt want to hang out with me; they thought I was just pretending to be aloof. I keep wondering, if Iād known what asexuality was back then, would I have been able to say it proudly? There are so many people just like me, and Iām not some weird outcast.
I once had a romantic relationship, but I feel that I was foolish because I hurt my ex-girlfriend by misleading her feelings. At the time, I realized that I actually wasnāt attracted to men, so I wanted to try being with a girl. Another reason was that, in China at that time, lesbian culture was becoming quite popular, and I didnāt want to feel like an outsider anymore, so I chose to embrace it and rushed into a relationship with a girl.
However, I didnāt truly love her. I was mainly with her because I wanted to feel a sense of belonging in peer. I still tried my best to meet her needs. For example, we took some cosplay couple photos based on fictional characters, including using some BDSM-related props, but we never had any sexual relationship.
Sometimes she wanted to kiss me, but I really couldnāt accept it, especially in public places. Later, I realized that she had developed serious feelings for me. I also tried to ask my parents about their attitude toward me coming out. My mother completely refused to accept it, and I also knew that I didnāt love her deeply enough. I couldnāt give her the future she deserved.
It was my fault, and I truly feel sorry for hurting her. In the end, I decided to break up with her.
Some time ago, I played some text-based romance games on itch.io, and I genuinely found some characters that I really loved. While playing, I was often deeply moved by the romantic stories and the personalities of the characters. However, one thing I am certain about is that I have never imagined having sex with them.
That is why I became confused about whether I actually wanted to be in a romantic relationship with them, or whether I simply loved and admired them as characters. Also, if someone posts stickers of a characterās genitals under my videos online, I feel extremely uncomfortable and disturbed by it.
It was only recently that I realized I might truly love these characters, but perhaps I am simply asexual.
Actually, I feel that there are probably many asexual people in China as well. I have many female friends around me who are straight and do experience sexual attraction, but they still donāt want to date boys or engage in those kinds of relationships. Maybe the aegosexual
Thatās all of my stories.Thanks for reading paternity. I have only recently started learning about LGBTQ+ topics, so if I have any misunderstandings or say anything incorrect, please let me know and help me correct them. I am genuinely happy to learn more and to better understand myself.
Learning about these things has also helped me realize that there are many people who are just like me. I feel proud of and happy for everyone in our community!
https://redd.it/1uvdl3r
@asexualityonreddit | 24 |
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