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explaining asexuality to my friend So i was out with my friend the other day and we were having a pretty deep conversation about sexuality and stuff, I told her I'm greysexual (a micro-lable under the asexual umbrella) and she asked me how i can enjoy books and fanfiction with that kinda stuff in it and I explained to her that it's kinda like how people can enjoy fantasy novels, like I don't share the experience of having a magical sword and fighting a dragon, but it's cool to read about that stuff. and it's the same with asexuality, for me personally I can enjoy certain aspects of reading about it, but still not want to do it lol. I know this is definitely not everyone's experience with it, I am speaking from a personal perspective. https://redd.it/1wz35j4 @asexualityonreddit

2	I dunno what title to give this https://redd.it/1wz6x35 @asexualityonreddit	6
3	Was buying flowers for my birthday tomorrow and these caught my eye :) https://redd.it/1wz6can @asexualityonreddit	24
4	Que les parece peor? Yo me considero asexual desde hace un par de años, estuve bastante tiempo con la duda pero ese no es el punto, el tema es que yo le masturbaba mucho(nunca me gustó era más porque ya tenía la costumbre), ya no lo hago con tanta frecuencia, pero las redes sociales siguen sobre estimulando me, me da asco pero cuesta modificar el algoritmo aveces. Mi dilema es el siguiente, que es preferible, tener un sueño húmedo(que se que va a pasar por todo lo que desgraciadamente he visto en la semana), que para mí también son incómodos, o solo masturbarme y exponerme más a la hupersexualizacion del mundo y luego solo dormir https://redd.it/1wyuyz5 @asexualityonreddit	30
5	"let yourself consider the 1% chance you're wrong" someone actually said that to me that this week. because i told them i was asexual (and aromantic) when they clearly had a crush on me. so for context, i've (25F) been fairly open about at least being queer as long as i've identified as asexual (10-ish years now). it was a major struggle in high school to find a way to describe myself when i didn't have the word yet; i would try and force myself to have crushes on my classmates so when i finally found out about asexuality, i knew that was what i am! i usually wear a tiny rainbow pin on my jacket to subtly show off my pride because i feel it easier to describe myself as queer instead of asexual (blame our hyper-sexualized society not being familiar with asexuality, i guess), and that pin got the attention of a guy who i met a week ago. this guy was clearly VERY interested in me romantically from the moment we met (i've had to awkwardly shoot down many men before; i can tell lol) so once he asked about the pin and if i was gay (to which i answered no) i then added that i was asexual. that apparently broke his brain. over the next hour, i heard things like: "is this a permanent thing?" "have you heard of demisexual? do you think you're that?" "do you think you'd ever change your mind?" "you know, human sexuality is a construct, so i don't think asexuality is real." of course, i wasn't very talkative for the remainder of the day, because who wouldn't be if you were told that asexuality literally "wasn't real" to preserve the idea that you're actually interested in sex and romance?? so once i went home i received a few texts about what happened that day in which i was told to consider that after a decade of FINALLY having a word that describes me and my place in this world, that there's a 1% chance that one day i'll suddenly wake up ready to have sex with this guy. because i should consider that i'm wrong about a decision i made. about MYSELF. 10 years ago. i've now been asked if we could be in an "asexual relationship" (he also literally acknowledged i was aro in this same message: what?) and that "there's a person out there for everyone" and seemingly everything in the fake How To Fix An Asexual playbook allos love to pull from. at least the other men i've had to shoot down understood the assignment and backed off without questioning me. this is just... exhausting and super hurtful to hear someone say that asexuality isn't real because it's a barrier between them and me dating or whatever. i might just lie to every man i meet after this and say i have a fake canadian girlfriend so the conversations end there instead of escalating into horrible aphobia. https://redd.it/1wyoeqm @asexualityonreddit	28
6	How young is too young to identify with the label asexual? /r/asexuality/comments/1wyof0q/how_young_is_too_young_to_identify_with_the_label/ https://redd.it/1wyoh2g @asexualityonreddit	25
7	I Tried To Tell My Mother I Think I'm Asexual, She Doesn't Believe Me Context, I am a 22yr old female. So, my mother and older sister have been on my case about not having sex with my boyfriend despite being with him for almost 5 years. They talked about how patient he has been and how much he has been holding back. While I am appreciative of him being respectful with my boundaries, if he really is feeling this way, I'm perturbed that he himself isn't telling me this. Anyway, in this discussion I tell my mother that I've been considering that I may be asexual, because I can't ever recall being sexually attracted to anyone in my life. She tells me that she calls bullshit because when I was very young (something like 4 years old) I incidentally found out pleasuring myself with cups. Being young and unknowledgeable I was addicted to the feeling that my body was liking and my mother remembers it being a battle to get me to stop. I do masturbate, but if one day I was told I could never do it again, my response would be "oh well". I like the feeling of the stimulation, but the thought of engaging in sexual intimacy puts me on edge and I get this sense of "bitterness". My boyfriend is my boyfriend because I adore him and if he really wanted to do something with me, then I would be willing to put aside my reservations about it for him. Would I be right to consider myself at least a variant of asexual? I suppose I can also add for context that I am a virgin. https://redd.it/1wyv7vh @asexualityonreddit	26
8	From a friendly ally, here you go https://redd.it/1wyprod @asexualityonreddit	27
9	Favorite kind of cake as an asexual? https://redd.it/1wyto7p @asexualityonreddit	30
10	How compliments for sex stuff feel https://redd.it/1wyq10a @asexualityonreddit	30
11	How young is too young to identify with the label asexual? Hello! this is my first post on reddit. I do not share my age online, just because I personally do not feel comfortable to do so, but I have a question for all of my fellow aces. What age is it acceptable to identify with the label asexual? I am quite young, and I'm frequently told I'm even too young to identify with this label. please help!!! https://redd.it/1wyof0q @asexualityonreddit	33
12	Got the pride shirt! https://redd.it/1wyoyia @asexualityonreddit	26
13	tell me I'm not the only one that feels this way https://redd.it/1wynqdm @asexualityonreddit	20
14	try to pick up guys (and I have have deep conversations with the old people chainsmoking in the corner!), and it'll 'mellow out' on it's own? By the way, I've talked to both of them about this extensively and they're already spending way more time with each other and not inviting me, I think because of it. Like, they will spontaneously ask me to meet within 10 minutes and then tell me they've already been hanging out for 2 hours and are now spontaneously going my way and if I wanna meet them. The last time we went to a club, they met up beforehand and spend the day together and didn't ask me either; while we were already on the way Alex asked me verbatim "oh Marie is sleeping over, and I assume you don't want to because you live near here anyway, right?" I do live very close to the club, but. Seriously? My two best friends are acting like we're 15 again and it's normal to exclude the other and do all this weird stuff I thought everyone grew out of once they realized being nice is better than being rude! I'm not joking btw, we're all 22. I know this seems very teenager dramatic, I'm despairing over it already. Sorry for the long post, just.. have you guys gone through something similar and know what I should do? These are two of my closest friends, actually 2/3 of my only friends lmfao, and Marie has been my best friend since the FIRST day of elementary school, yk? I can't imagine a life where we're not friends. But jesus christ, they are so male and sex centered, it's unbearable. It actually is. Please give some advice 😭😭😭 Sorry I used i consistent pronouns btw, I wanted to stay mysterious but got lazy. We're all she/her. https://redd.it/1wym57c @asexualityonreddit	16
15	I feel like my friends are entirely focused on sex and relationships and don't like me anymore? Hello! I just had an epiphany that I'm probably asexual, because I don't... well, want to have sex ever. I don't want to go into detail, as I'm sure everyone here knows what it's like, but basically I've been realizing I was never really attracted to people's bodies at all? I used to date a girl and then later a guy, and both of them wanted more and I 1. Never even realized it for a good few months. I'd genuinely not even consider it. 2. Then be totally confused why they'd want to have sex 3. Then go out of my way to try to distance myself, then break up with them. This was all before I was 18! Now I'm 22 and even though I like being in love, I don't wanna deal with that anymore, especially because people expect it at my age. I don't even like kissing! Backstory finished. So, recently my 2 best friends, who are also my age, have been getting increasingly more and more focused on men. That's it's own thing, because I'm pretty sure I only like women, but regardless: they are so, so focused on it I feel like we never talk about anything else. And it's been getting almost entirely sexual as well recently. If not talking about men they want to date or fuck or idk do whatever with (my one friend, let's call them... Alex. Is way worse about this. Our other one, Marie, isn't as bad), it's like this: let's do the bdsm test for fun! Let's talk about our sexual experiences! Let's talk about all the hot men we've seen in our lives! Let's, uhhh.. I'm out of examples. It seems exaggerated, but it's actually legitimately mostly not. At least with Alex it is, Marie and I can still talk about everything, but they often initiate talking about romance or mostly sexual stuff as well. I've talked to them about this already, told them I'm really not interested in their current casual date of the week boy they're seeing if it's not serious, but I'll gladly listen. (It's never serious) I also told them I think it's self destructive behavior for Alex, because they have incredibly low self esteem, like so incredibly low they got an eating disorder and wore ill fitting clothing and never showed any skin to the point of people thinking they were a devout catholic (i have a hilarious story with my grandparents and her about this) until age 21 & they told Marie and I they love the attention they get from men to the point of addiction. We both told her this is very unhealthy and doesn't actually make her more confident because she changes her personality and appearance to what men she doesn't know want, and isn't actually gaining confidence from the attention beyond momentary satisfaction. Alex kind of changed the subject, got defensive, acknowledged we were right but that they weren't gonna change because they wanted the typical 20s experience. I was like,, aight. Sorry for rambling! But yeah, basically I'm getting more and more frustrated because I feel like they don't understand me at all and I don't understand them anymore. Or, well, they don't 'understand' me loving women either from personal experiences, it's more like I feel like I have to suffer all the uncomfortable things I usually only feel with strangers, because I have to change who I am to talk to them. We've all been best friends since we've been 10 years old, Marie and I have been since we were 6! These aren't just casual friends, they have always been my most comfortable and favorite people because I didn't feel like I ever needed to perform, pretend to be more outgoing and have more sexual experience than I do, pretend to not like the nerd stuff I do, etc. I don't know if they're changing and just genuinely aren't as "nerdy" (it sounds so cringe when i say this, I mean like liking videogames, movies, anime, stuff you would get bullied for in middle school) anymore, and this is a part of growing up that I just don't want but will have to accept? OR do you guys think I just just stick it out for a few more months and go along with talking about it and going to bars with them while they	18
16	I find kissing awkward So me and my ex had been dating for 8 months and whenever he tried to kiss me i just ignored him, pulled away and kept talking, this continued for some time and we never had any conversations about it and I've never even thought about being asexual. That kept going until one night when I slept at his place and he started forcefully kissing me for 30 minutes and rubbing himself on me while i was pulling away and saying "stop". We broke up shortly after that but still never had a conversation about it. I just felt disgusted with myself and dirty. Now I'm dating a guy who is really obsessed with sex and that's really important for him in a relationship. I've told him before we got together I'm not really into that and he said "it doesn't matter to him", thinking he could change me or something. While dating he tried to talk me into it and force me to do things like that. We had a really long conversation about it and that's the moment I realised I may be asexual. He texted one of my friends that I INTRODUCED HIM TO if he should ghost me. That friend showed me but i decided to ignore it. For a few days he was really dry and mad at me. We kiss sometimes but I've never felt anything from it, I just do it because I know he likes it and i don't mind it that much. We're still together and our relationship is okay right now, I'm just still really worried if anyone is going to love me because of the way I am. I'm really scared. Anyways, thank for reading all this!! I just cant sleep and don't know what to do. Am I even asexual??? I DON'T KNOW https://redd.it/1wyf0d2 @asexualityonreddit	23
17	How do you actually date online I have recently decided to try out online dating and made a profile on Acespace. I have made a few posts, liked a few people, but I haven't really been messaging anyone who matched with me. Yesterday a girl, I matched with, messaged asking about my day. I have answered truthfully and we texted a bit more, but I am not really feeling it and my smalltalk capabilities have been running low. She seems nice enough, so I wouldn't wanna ghost her. Should I ask about hobbies, work, music? It all just feels so shallow. https://redd.it/1wyhnz1 @asexualityonreddit	33
18	any other neptunoromantic asexuals out there? https://redd.it/1wycykq @asexualityonreddit	29
19	Gods https://redd.it/1wyh3gt @asexualityonreddit	33
20	I’m dealing with an invalidating therapist Kinda feeling defeated. I’d been feeling extra down, lost, confused on processing my identity and direction in life, so I tried out therapy for the first time a couple months ago. I know I’ve never done it before, but I don’t think I’m feeling it with this therapist. I’ve laid out pretty specific feelings I’m having and situations I’m wanting to work through, and she just isn’t understanding or really listening to what I’m looking for help and support with. One example of several is the topic of sexuality. I told her over the past year or so I’ve realized I’m asexual and that has led to some challenges I’m trying to process and navigate. Her first response was very skeptical. Then proceeded to tell me about a client of hers who thought she was asexual but then came back to her to explain she met someone and that’s definitely not the case! Essentially telling me, “you just haven’t met the right person yet.” Something I’ve heard way too many times from others and from myself before I knew this was not the case and I’m so tired of that invalidation. I haven’t seen her since then because she basically just dropped the topic and moved on. I know I’m sure progress takes time but it just doesn’t feel like I’m getting closer to where I’d want to be, wherever that is. She doesn’t feel like an understanding guide and I want to find a better fit somehow, but feeling discouraged and unmotivated. Anyone have success stories with finding an awesome therapist and advice on how to find a good match? Also my insurance is not great with mental health coverage so that’s a fear of mine as well, the potential large out of pocket cost of good consistent support. TLDR: looking for advice on how to find an asexual affirming therapist and others’ experiences with this journey https://redd.it/1wycgff @asexualityonreddit	34

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