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ace flag made of cushions in the new minecraft snapshot!
https://redd.it/1ur1odo
@asexualityonreddit
| 2 | Are You Aro (Advice)?
**Hi everyone!**
Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.
**Do any of these resonate with you?**
\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.
\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.
\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.
\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.
These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.
\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!
* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)
* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)
* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)
https://redd.it/1ukxxnx
@asexualityonreddit | 7 |
| 3 |  Me
https://redd.it/1uqxe39
@asexualityonreddit | 10 |
| 4 | Sooooo tired of Allo's
Specifically in this space asking the same questions over and over and over. Looking for answers only the Ace in their lives can give. Or wanting absolution for things we do not have the power to absolve.
It's exhausting
https://redd.it/1uqt366
@asexualityonreddit | 14 |
| 5 |  +4没有文字... | 15 |
| 6 | A few pridesopods I made this year 😊
https://redd.it/1uqsgxu
@asexualityonreddit | 13 |
| 7 | There are hardly any asexual female characters
There is very little representation of asexuality in the media, but when it is portrayed, it is almost always through male characters; asexual female characters are virtually non-existent, and I don't even know of any who are non-binary. I would like to see more representation of asexual women and non-binary people :(
https://redd.it/1uqompn
@asexualityonreddit | 18 |
| 8 | with a partner, I had to basically calculate in my head what gifts to give, when the best time to kiss them was, and overanalyze the situation in general without simply just "being in the moment".
\- I've googled the following before millions of times :
"How to kiss without thinking about it"
"How to interact with your partner"
"How to not be grossed out when my partner shows they like me"
"Why do I keep getting the ick from my partner?"
\- I thought I was just a "acts of service, or gift giver" type of person in relationships because I was incapable of doing the other types of affection. Turns out I just really like being helpful and gift-giving in general.
\- I've never wished to find "the one" or have someone to marry and be with romantically for the rest of my life. When I would tell my friends such, they would be sad for me because "I'm going to be sad and lonely for the rest of my life".
There are more situations, but these are the ones I can think of for now lol.
https://redd.it/1uqjy4y
@asexualityonreddit | 18 |
| 9 | (Sharing thoughts) Asexual things I did growing up that I didn't realize were Asexual
Ever since I came out as part of the asexual/aromantic spectrum, I've slowly realized that there were many things I did or believed that probably should have given me signs sooner.
(fyi, Ik everyone's experiences as asexuals are different and unique, so don't let my experiences define yours if they don't apply to what you've lived through. Also, I know not every point will be strictly behaviors that are asexual/aromantic or prove to be; I just find them to be experiences that made ME realize I was ace/aro.)
\- Romance songs never clicked in my mind to be romantic when I was a child. I paid more attention to the music itself than to the lyrics. And whenever I found out it was romantic, I would feel embarrassed.
\- As a child, I would pick in my classes who to have a crush on, and whoever I chose, I forced myself to think about them but would always forget about them outside of school. I genuinely thought that was how crushes worked.
\- The first time I discovered what being LGBTQ+ was, this girl in my 5th grade class asked me if I liked boys AND girls, which I didn't think she meant in a romantic sense, so I said "yeah, I guess". She then turned away from me and exclaimed, "What, you're bisexual ?!" Not knowing what that meant, I was left confused from our conversation.
\- In middle school, I hated romantic movie nights with my friends because overly romantic and intimate scenes made me gag. I always looked down at my phone whenever a scene like that was about to happen while my friends' eyes were tied to the screen. I still do the same to this day.
\- Speaking of movie nights, my friends would always ask me who I liked, and my answer was always, "Oh, I don't know, I'm still deciding." When in reality I didn't gaf about anyone.
\- I was always the "relationship advice person" in my friend group, not because I'm the "expert" at it, but I was always overly truthful about how I thought of my friends' relationships if they ever asked for advice. If they were dating a shitty partner, I was always so confused why they couldn't just dump them, as it just made sense in my head to simply break up than suffer in a relationship.
\- Every relationship I've ever been in, the other person always instigates and ends up confessing their feelings towards me. I never really had the same feelings back, but felt pressured to date them, or I thought that being "chosen" was how romance worked.
\- Ex-partners would always dump me, yet I never rlly cared because I finally had fewer things to worry about.
\-I find confusion when someone confesses their love to me and assumes that I feel the same, as I thought every interaction we've had so far was platonic. Turns out I'm way too overly "nice" and accidentally flirt with some people without knowing.
\- I never knew the term "Do you come here often?" was flirtatous... and I've said that as a joke to a lot of people who were not friends, once to a professor... I just thought it would be funny to say to people who I would always commonly see in the same location bc I thought that was the butt of the joke... T_T
\- I can never tell when someone is hitting on me. Ever. Even at the GAY CLUB, where people are literally there to do such.
\- I never really had movie/show crushes; if anything, I wanted to BE like the character I fixated on. Basically "I want to be them and be with them" but just, "I want to be them".
\- My first kiss with this guy I thought I really liked, but I had no "spark" within me and forgot about it until he asked if I liked it the next week of school. I think he could tell I forgot about it, and accidentally lowered his ego.
\- Second other guy I was with who I really liked, he and I were kissing, but the sensation and sounds kept making me way too aware of what we were doing. Just imagine that one scene from "But, I'm A Cheerleader", when Megan is kissing her boyfriend and is not enjoying it. That was basically the situation I was in, but ace.
\- Every time I was | 11 |
| 10 |  Jokes On You.
https://redd.it/1uqi3gi
@asexualityonreddit | 15 |
| 11 | Im not Ace but i have a crush on an Ace person and have questions
I have a thing for my long time friend who is Ace, She and me have been friends since i was a freshmen in high school 6 years ago tho we meant early as kids playing soccer and it just hit me the other day i had feelings for her when hearing her sing the other day
but the thing is idk if it will work between us since while i dont care about sex and such i do want other things like being able to kiss and make out with a person i love and have those sweet romantic and intimate movements where someone places there hands on the others hips as they pull the other in and such and idk if thats something that Ace people are ok with or not
like i know Ace people dont do sex but what about kissing, making out, placing hands on intimate parts of the body like the hips or small of the back, ect?
I wanna figure this all out since idk if i ever will ask her out since i also dont wanna ruin the friendship but also wanna know if where even compatible in the first place before deciding if i will try to ask her out since for me kissing, making out, and intimate not sexual touching like on the hips or small of the back are musts for me while sex is not and idk if that stuff is things Ace people dont do or are ok with doing
https://redd.it/1uqif1l
@asexualityonreddit | 20 |
| 12 | “Are you 100% sure you’re asexual and always have been?”
Had to see a doctor today. I’m on biologics so I get infections pretty easily, and I was just in the hospital a couple weeks ago for a surgery which happened to be in the area. With the title you can probably guess where I had symptoms. I made it very clear to the doctor that I’m not sexually active when asked. She asked again so I said again that I’m positive I’m not, I’m asexual, and NEVER have been sexually active. So she asked “are you 100% sure you’re asexual and always have been?”
I get that doctors need to cover all bases like ruling out STI’s. But before the third question was asked I made it very clear that I’m not even sexually active in the slightest. I don’t know why she would ask that :/
https://redd.it/1uqgdmc
@asexualityonreddit | 18 |
| 13 |  This community is a real find and saved my life.
https://redd.it/1uqbw4c
@asexualityonreddit | 18 |
| 14 |  I'll take platonic physical intimacy over sex any day of the week XD.
https://redd.it/1uq2vvs
@asexualityonreddit | 25 |
| 15 |  A-Gang
https://redd.it/1uq3s0c
@asexualityonreddit | 23 |
| 16 | I feel like sex is inevitable
Hello! This is my first post here and i'm 18F. So I feel like I have always been somewhere in the asexual spectrum because I've never really want to be put in a sexual situation all my life. I do have fantasies but in it I've always been the viewer not the actors. So my mom said that it's inevitable for me to have a husband and children because thats my duty as a woman. And I live in a very conservative society somewhere in southeast asia which views marriage as solely for procreating. I feel like if I tell my mom about this she'll try her hardest to "turn" me around or "fix" me considering how religious and conservative she is. I am still 18 and its not the time for me to marry someone yet, but what if the time already comes? Will I have to have sex? Will my partner even respect my wishes? I feel like I'm alone. That its impossible to find someone who wants to be with me or respect my wishes, especially in this society. My mom didn't allow me to be childfree either. I don't want to dissapoint her in the future. I don't want to dissapoint my family. I feel like I just have to do it. Whether I like it or not, because it's my "duty". I really want to get out from this country, from this society.
https://redd.it/1uppgd5
@asexualityonreddit | 28 |
| 17 | Removed by Reddit
Removed by Reddit on account of violating the [content policy. ]
https://redd.it/1upzqrq
@asexualityonreddit | 27 |
| 18 | L'Asessulità è diventato un crimine
avete visto che in Niger l'asessulità è condannabile con il carcere?
È il primo stato al mondo a dichiarare che l'asessulità è un crimine e io mi chiedo esattamente quale problema hanno con le persone che non vogliono scopare.
Onestamente sono rimasta scioccata a sapere che potrei essere arrestata solo per il fatto che non voglio fare sesso.
https://redd.it/1upwidx
@asexualityonreddit | 33 |
| 19 |  I am both.
https://redd.it/1upvv8u
@asexualityonreddit | 30 |
| 20 | Update: worked it out with my girl
For context
:) i couldn't reply to anybody last time, but you guys gave me alot of insight and they helped me put things into words my gf could understand, thank you.
I reassured her that i am very much attracted to her physically, even if not sexually.
She's honest to god the hottest thing in my eyes, i can see that. I have no sexual attraction not blind lol
She brought up being concerned about me not actually wanting sex when we do it, i told her sex for us is purely emotional for me. Its just like any other type of affection for me, just not my preferred way. It keeps us close and i am glad to do it for her and i wouldn't want her doing it from anybody else. Just because im not enthusiastically jumping up and down yelling "YESSS!!!" for it doesn't mean i dont.
I told her i may never initiate but that doesn't mean anything. Sex is never in my head, but she constantly is. When im busy i think id rather be with her, when we're away even for abit i miss her, when im shopping im thinking what she'd like, "i wanna have sex with her" is pretty much the only thing out of my head. So i very much desire her alot.
Im glad she understood me, ig i was just anxiety ridden & overthinking it too much during my last post.
We've also come to the solution that during it is all about her, and afterwards is all about me. That way the pleasure isn't one sided.
Head massages and chest rubs are very nice :) and that really helped me slowly stop viewing sex as a chore.(though i never mentioned this to her. That'd definitely worsen things... Some thoughts better stays inside.)
https://redd.it/1ups5x3
@asexualityonreddit | 30 |
