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When someone says what everyone is thinking.
https://redd.it/1u94myq
@asexualityonreddit
| 2 |  One sentence. Unlimited emotional damage.
https://redd.it/1u94g55
@asexualityonreddit | 8 |
| 3 | What makes kissing so appealing when you're basically exchanging saliva?
Honest question. Just the idea of someone else's spit fluids going into my mouth sounds horrid.
https://redd.it/1u8srtr
@asexualityonreddit | 15 |
| 4 | Anyone else feel stuck when they’re horny?
I’ve been feeling extremely horny lately but have absolutely no one I want to have sex with…
I’ve tried dating apps to see if I’ll just magically get turned on by someone’s body but it never works… I have tried convincing myself that certain body types (big butts, boobs, penises, etc) were in fact sexy and will get me going but nope… didn’t work. I even tried imagining what the genitalia of past friends and/or partners looked like to see if it would do anything (I’m demisexual) but nope still did not work.
The thought of being sexually attracted/impulsed by any of my close people and especially people idk just feels severely uncomfortable to me and it’s driving me insane because I’ve been horny for the past week and just mentally can’t stand the idea of someone’s body turning me on or get myself to feel comfortable with the idea of having sex with someone whether I’m close to them or not…
Do any asexuals relate?
https://redd.it/1u8wqz5
@asexualityonreddit | 15 |
| 5 | Why do I become physically aroused when having romantic fantasies? (tw mentions of sexual stuff)
/r/asexuality/comments/1u8jyhl/why_do_i_become_physically_aroused_when_having/
https://redd.it/1u8xuah
@asexualityonreddit | 16 |
| 6 |  ✧ Made some special Pride Animal enamel pins~ ✧
https://redd.it/1u8x1ry
@asexualityonreddit | 18 |
| 7 |  +1Немає тексту... | 15 |
| 8 | Happy Pride!
https://redd.it/1u8tpra
@asexualityonreddit | 10 |
| 9 | unconsciously
https://redd.it/1u8u5vv
@asexualityonreddit | 9 |
| 10 | on how they would feel. But i deep down, don’t feel anything. It just feels like I am disassociating myself from it and it is weird ( i even tried changing the stories thinking i am just not into specific acts. But they all feel the same)
I also would feel strangely sick, and would feel completely nauseous and weirdly paled by the thought. Could be because i am not super into sex. I am sex-repusled. But i don’t think it’s normal at all
Not only that, i don’t think i even liked these fantasies either. They just made me tired, nauseous and just boring in general. I didn’t want these thoughts at all because it isn’t my cup of tea. They made me uncomfortable and almost felted like my brain was trying to disrespect my boundaries.
I would even beg it to stop but it just never did. It just comes back again and again, especially when i am stressed or just overwhelmed. It comes back more vivid and it just makes me upset because i genuinely want them to stop
Worse is that it usually comes when i go to sleep. It makes it so uncomfortable and just uneasy for me to sleep because I WANT TO SLEEP. I want to wake up in a good mood but instead i keep walking up feeling uneasy and just very grumpy after it because i genuinely did not want these thoughts.
And when i express how i feel about these unwanted thoughts. I get more thoughts in my head telling me ‘’you are just saying that to unconsciously shame your sexual desires and to force yourself into purity culture’’ or that ‘’if you really didn’t like it, then the thoughts would not physically arouse you or never have continued in the first place. You are just saying that to prevent yourself from feeling normal sexual desires’’
Which isn’t true. I genuinely would never prevent myself from having feelings.
I even ask myself these same tiring questions everyday due to the fear of somehow developping sexual repressing and it is always the same
‘’ You know it’s okay to have sexual attraction?’’
Yes
‘’You know it’s okay to have sexual urges and or desires, right?’’
Yes
‘’Do you think having sexual fantasies and enjoying them are shameful?’’
No
‘’So you know it’s okay to have them?’’
Yes
‘’And you know you are allowed to feel them, experience them and enjoy them right?’’
Absolutely
‘’So do you?’’
I don’t know
‘’What if you are sexually repressed???’’
Like….it is always the same questions in my head
I would never repress or prevent myself to feel sexual attraction because I KNOW I AM ALLOWED. There is nothing that will stop me. Even though i don’t know how it feels, i know it is because i was taught that it is normal
But anytime i say that, i keep getting more thoughts telling me that i am lying and pretending to not know how it feels to be some sort of pure virgin………
This is genuinely the worst thing that has ever happened to me for years and months
I am genuinely so scared right now, because what if i am just trying to convince myself that i don’t like it to some how unconsciously repress sexual attractions or desires??? I don’t want to do that, it is against my morals.
The worst part is that it feels so real, especially when my body reacts to the thoughts even though i thought the opposite. And it makes me feel like i am lying even thought i am telling the truth and i am NOW scared of somehow trying to convince myself that i not doing it do deny some sort of hiddem désire Even more EVEN THOUGH i showed genuinely repulsion from these thoughts.
And it is just a cycle of my brain just constantly telling me that if i don’twant these thoughts then i am repressed and that if i end up not liking it then i am in denial about liking it and it just is so tiring and scary because sexual repression, anything related to shaming your sexual desires, preventing from having sexual feelings and unconsciously denying them is SO AGAINST MY MORALS
so it is just terrifying and i am scared if i am somehow repressing some sort of desires | 11 |
| 11 | Is it just intrusive thoughts messing with me or am i genuinely preventing myself from liking sexual fantasies? (Warning:this might be a vent post, which i apologize, i really have no one to talk to. And i would really appreciate if someone leaves a comment pls)
Ok so, there was something that i have been doing for a while and i don’t think i can ignore it anymore because I am starting to get annoyed and concerned
So before I mention about it, I have another post that I have talked about before and it is kind of related to what I m going to talk about right now. Idk how to put the link on, but you can go in my account and you Will see the title called
‘’ Am I repressing sexual attraction or is it just SO-OCD/intrusive thoughts messing with me’’
So yeah, if you want o know more details, this is the post that you can choose to read to understand better
WARNING: this post might also be very tmi, and i apologise for it
anyways, let’s start
Ok so, i have been trying to sexually fantasize, but the issue is that i mentally don’t feel anything
Idk how to explain it exactly.
Like, when i make myself sexually fantasize, my body would physically react like it was aroused, but deep down, i don’t really feel anything, not to mention that i am not super into the thoughts and idea.
It all started at night, i kept having unwanted thoughts. I was supposed to sleep, I wanted to sleep, but i kept having those uncomfortable thoughts that kept me up at night and it didn’t stop
I tried pushing them away, ignoring them but it kept coming back worse.
I kept getting thoughts telling me that if I don’t want to think about sex, then i am trying to push my sexual desires and that i will end up like a sexually repressed incel if I don’t do it
So I did. I tried to kind of make myself enjoy it or try and react how most people would enjoy the thoughts or imagine how the characters in them would react and all of that. I tried imagining the characters enjoying them and tried to put myself in their shoes or something like that.
I thought that it worked and that i enjoyed it because i noticed that my body got physically aroused by the thought, so it technically means that I did, right?
But i don’t know, because i mentally didn’t felt the way that my body felt. I felted more like I was just playing the character, but not enjoying what the character felt.
Even for how my body reacted, I deep down didn’t have any sort of feeling
So I thought ‘’ok, it might have been just a waste of my time. I should stop doing it’’ because the more I tried, the more tired and strangely sick I felt and it was also just so boring
But then it happened again and again and it just didn’t stop. Each night, these same thoughts would pop up ( which these thoughts aren’t thought about intentionally, they just pop out of nowhere without any choise ) even though i didn’t want them. But then i get these voice in my head telling me
‘’ what if you are just saying that you don’t like it to deny your true sexual desires by repressing them? If you really didn’t like it, then your body wouldn’t get physically aroused by them in the first place’’
Or just thoughts telling me that if don’t then I am trying to resist my true urges and that i am trying to ‘’sexually shame myself’’
Which terrifies me because I am not and would never be the type of person that would repress and shame their feelings. Whether it’s emotional romantic or sexual. It is against my morals to repress my feelings and attractions for things and others
So when i got this thought i got terrified, because I don’t want to somehow do that to myself, and i never will.
So i would just make myself continue the thoughts. Doing the same thing and trying to be in the characters shoes, how they would react or feel in these sexual situation or how hot it is supposed to feel
But then again, it is still not it. It’s strange because i don’t feel like I genuinely enjoy this, it just feels like I am just playing the character and trying to get an idea | 8 |
| 12 | I need some advice about me (active) and my partner (asexual.
Hi everyone, first of all, Happy Pride! I have a question. I have a boyfriend, and I am very active with my sex life; I often initiate intimacy whenever we are available. We just celebrated our four-month anniversary this past Monday, but two days before that, he told me he is asexual. I wasn't sure how to respond at the time, so I simply acknowledged it.
After researching and understanding what asexuality is, I feel like he has been compromising himself just to provide me with pleasure. I previously thought the intimacy we shared was something he wanted, but it seems that hasn't been the case and that I have been the only one enjoying it. I am struggling with how to adjust given my high sex drive, and I am hoping for advice on how we can meet halfway. We have already discussed this twice, but we haven't been able to reach a solution.
https://redd.it/1u8t0nr
@asexualityonreddit | 13 |
| 13 |  +2Немає тексту... | 11 |
| 14 | Made an Ace Bracelet for Pride and I am Happy
https://redd.it/1u8qktu
@asexualityonreddit | 11 |
| 15 |  👍😃
https://redd.it/1u8h80s
@asexualityonreddit | 14 |
| 16 | Are You Aro (Advice)?
**Hi everyone!**
Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.
**Do any of these resonate with you?**
\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.
\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.
\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.
\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.
These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.
\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!
* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)
* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)
* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)
https://redd.it/1u8mgz1
@asexualityonreddit | 17 |
| 17 |  Aro ace butterfly
https://redd.it/1u8lsin
@asexualityonreddit | 13 |
| 18 | I don’t know what I am.
I’m not sure what’s going on but I’ve realized I only have sex maybe 2-5 times a month and that’s when I’m seriously in the mood. In my past relationships I’ve had sex but I felt disgusted during and after. Sometimes I have to just blank out in order to have sex because I want my partner to be happy. I’ve never been pressured or anything like that besides one particular relationship. I just don’t know what’s wrong with me. I wish I could want to have sex but I literally don’t feel it. I love non sexual forms of physical touch though so what the fuck lmao idk I’m so confused idk what to do or how to find a partner in the future. I don’t think I’m suitable for anyone because everyone around me wants sex, and there’s nothing wrong with that. I just wish I was also like that.
https://redd.it/1u8mj95
@asexualityonreddit | 19 |
| 19 |  Found this
https://redd.it/1u8jxuq
@asexualityonreddit | 18 |
| 20 |  When i will be old, i'll live in a big house with all my friends
https://redd.it/1u8g0ax
@asexualityonreddit | 21 |
