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ሠናይ ሰንበት :)

I hope you learn how to.🖤

ሰው መታዘብ ግን ሲጨንቅ... እኔንም እንዲሁ ይሆን የሚታዘቡኝ?

Any Bahirdar’ians here? Don’t miss this :)

ዘመን ይሁን our deepest desire to be loved, ምንም prerequisite check ሳናደረግ...ዝልል relationship ውስጥ:: Before having relationships with people, form one with yourself. Be aware of what you have and things you lack. ለራሳችን ብቻ አይደለም btw, for the other person as well. ውዝግብ ያለ ማንነት...የተረጋጋን ልብ ስለሚረብሽ:: Do you accept yourself? Who do you want to be tomorrow? Do you have goals you’re sweating to get to? People have to be figured out አላልኩም...ግን ከሞላ ጎደል ደግሞ it’s important to try and figure yourself out. Being in a relationship and taking the risk of holding the heart of someone in your hands እቃቃ ጨዋታ አይደለም:: Ofc እቃቃ ጨዋታ የሆኑ ነገሮችም አሉ... friends with benefits ነው የምትሉት?😅 ጉድ ነው ዘንድሮማ:: Where was I going with this? I’ll continue tomorrow. ለዛሬ ደህና እደሩ :)

ደግሞ ዛሬ :) About cheating, cheaters? Cheat እንዳደረገም እንደተደረገበትም (I don’t like the Amharic word) do share your stories. @DebbieTesfaye

ኑሮውም ተወዶ...የሰው ነፍሱም ረክሶ...ህሊና እንደ ሰማይ ርቆን እንዴት እንደምንዘልቅ ግን እንጃልን::

ኮረሪማውም ቡናውም ስኳሩም

ፈንዲሻ ተወዷል ደግሞ

ሀሙስ ገበያ :)

The things we used to loathe have a way of growing on us ልበል? I used to hate going out shopping with mom to መርካቶ because she knows that ትንሽዬ ኢትዮጽያ like the back of her hand and runs through it like there are no people crowding it. ከስር ከስሯ መሯሯጥ ያበሳጨኝ ነበር:: አሁን ፈገግ እያልኩ ሆኗል ገበያ የምሄደው...ትንንሽ ነገሮች catch my attention እና እንዲሁ ደስ ይለኛል:: እናቶች ቅመም ለመግዛት ሲያሸቱ...ግማሹ እዛ ጋር "ውይ ቀንስ እንጂ" እያለ የነጋዴው እንጥል ላይ ሲቆም የማይገዛው አመለኛ ደግሞ "ይህቺ ስንት ናት?" እያለ ሲያገላብጥ...ተዉት ብቻ:: እንደ ሀገር ብዙ ብናጣም these minor things still hold us together.

I almost always have this conversation with my friend in the middle of every ሀሜት. It often starts like "we are not gossiping right?" We see it like exchanging information. And the one big excuse we give to ourselves is that we don't ''judge''. I'm gonna be honest with you most of the time we do not judge. We don't see part of ourselves in the people we talk about. We just talk about them make some stupid jokes and we move on. This is not the only reason that we think we might be the exception to the rule. We see how other people do ሀሜት, yeah, አሁንም እያማው ይሆናል but they are on another level the amount of insults they use while describing the person they're talking about is insane and don't get me started on how disgusted they look. The other point that makes us think that we're not actual gossipers is that we see a lot of people talking shit about others but deep inside we both know that they'd do the same thing if given the chance. More than once we've seen people do the things they said they hated or the things they criticized others for doing. But we don't do that. You don't find us doing the things we said is awful. But hey, who am I to judge? Don't get me wrong ሀሜት is ሀሜት!

One of the responses I loved👇🏾

እኔ የምለው :) What do we think about gossiping? ሀሜት ላይ እንዴት ናችሁ?😅 Open as per usual @DebbieTesfaye

ሌላ ሰሞኑን :)

Casually remembering songs out of nowhere? Yes.

The rain isn’t just gloomy clouds and water droplets. But ትዝታ...የድሮ ሳቆች and all the people we miss so terribly. I love it but I hate how it threatens my emotional resilience. The moment I hear thunder nearing, እልም ያለ ነፋስ stressing out the trees and leaves flying everywhere, my heart wavers. ዝምብሎ እንደ ሞኝ ይከፋኛል...ቢለመን የደረቀ እንባዬ ሳይጠሩት ይወርደዋል:: The rain makes me wish I could go back in time and be a better person, a better ሴት ልጅ to my mother, I wish that I made more mistakes so I could have learnt the things I know sooner. It takes me back to the time I thought rain is God pouring water በጣሳ ከጣራችን በላይ and how I stare up በረንዳችን ላይ ቆሜ Incase I catch him doing it. እህ...ልጅነት! All these emotions and time traveling በ አንድ ዝናብ ብቻ::

አሉ ያልተረጋጉ ልቦች... ውጪ ውጪውን የሚያዩ፣ በጊዜ የተቆለፈባቸው፣ ያለ እረፍት የሚቁነጠነጡ፣ በተገኘው ቀዳዳ ሁሉ የሚያጮልቁ ግን የማይወጡ፣ ታማኝነት ግዴታ የሆነባቸው ነገር ግን በምኞት የሚቃጠሉ፣ በሙዚቃ እያሳበቡ በፊልም እያሳበቡ በአንዳንድ ጽሁፍ እያማኸኙ... አጓጉል የሀሳብ ሰፈር የሚገኙ፣ እህቶች የሚያበዙ ባሎች፣ ንፁህ የወንድ ጓደኛ የሚያካብቱ ሚስቶች፣ ታይተው ያልተጠገቡ እኚህ ምስኪን ሰዎች፣ ቤት የተቀመጡ ነገር ግን ያላረፉ፣ ዘወትር ፍለጋ ላይ ያሉ፣ የሚፈልጉትን የማያውቁ፣ ለክስ የሚያበቃ ክህደት ያልፈፀሙ እኚህ ሰዎች፣ ያልተረጋጉ ታማኝ ልቦች... 20|09|15