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I left my marriage about five years ago, I was married to a good man. He never cheated, never lied nor treat me bad in any way. He was there, anytime and every time - for me and for the kids. I enjoyed my marriage, I was a proud wife. Then I noticed he was talking to someone, he’s never done it so it was easy to notice. I spoke to him, I saw evidence, he apologized and changed but only for a short while.
Next thing I know, he did it again and this time when I found out, he had actually slept with the lady already. I should have taken some action, but I forgave him almost immediately because I told myself, “he’s not always like this”.
We moved on happily, two months later I started feeling sick. Itches and discharges down there, started to smell even though I used some antibiotics. I went to get tested and yes, I had syphilis but it was early and treatable. The man brain buster was that I was equally HIV positive. Many years of my life, devoted to one man, one happy marriage and a one time cheating got me syphilis and HIV.
Interestingly, he hadn’t shown any signs until after I tested positive, then he tested too and realized he had it, and the syphilis.
That probably isn’t the end of the world, there are many people walking around with these diseases and worse, but at that point, I couldn’t think straight. I was hurt and disappointed. I wished I left the first time he was flirting, but I let the trust I had for him win.
What did that get me? A deadly disease.
I read the woman’s story, she’s right - don’t leave a good man. I mean, I’ve not seen or experienced any love like what my husband and I shared before I left. But that’s it, he cheated once and got me where I am today.
Sometimes, tolerating some stuff is okay, other times - it brings you to your knees when you could have limped away from it.
The ice breaker is, he married the lady that gave him the disease, told me since I was leaving, he would rather be with someone he already knows. See how easy he forgave her for destroying us? That’s what I’m talking about!
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| 4 | I left my marriage last year after I tested positive for HIV. My husband brought it home, he was a cheat. That was what we always argued about because anytime you take his phone, you’ll see something that implies he was cheating. Why was I always checking to see if he’s cheating?
Because I was always treating infections, reinfections. You’ll treat and it comes back. Antibiotics became my daily meal. Even the pharmacy where I buy advised me to check my husband and encourage him to also treat, but he either refuses to treat or he treats and goes back to take the infection. At some point, antibiotics didn’t work, I had to go to infusions and other drugs at the hospital. The struggle was daily, my life was miserable. Sometimes, my vagynna smelled like rotten fish.
He knew all these, but never changed.
It became too much. I complained, I wanted a divorce but everyone, including my own parents kept forcing me to stay. They said every man cheats.
He kept cheating with these Teshie girls(we stay at Tebibianor), to the extent that some of the girls even came to fight over him in the house. It was such a disgrace because they created a scene.
Everyone kept saying my husband didn’t try, at least he should respect me enough to do it elsewhere.
I left the house that day, but he came to beg and my parents asked me to go back.
Not long after that, I started having rashes and feeling Sick again. I was at the hospital for my usual test, hoping it was going to be the same things and then I get some infusions and go home. But this time around, that didn’t happen. It was worse, I tested positive for HIV.
My eye cleared immediately. I knew at that point that I should have left all these while.
On top of that, I was also pregnant with our second baby, the first was three years. I went through a lot, but I walked away anyway. He’s treating himself and so am I.
Sometimes, it’s not the fact that your husband is cheating, but the woman he’s cheating with. They never go for the decent ones, they like the cheap street hoes who are willing to open their legs for anything.
If I remember the girls he was cheating with, I cry. You’d ask yourself why I’m there and he was after them. A Ga will say, “nibii kom3i”.
It’s painful and I’m still regretting not leaving when I should have. If you ask me, I’ll say never tolerate a man that cheats. Since I left, I’ve never treated an infection even though where I am now, I use public toilet. It was all him.
A cheat is likely to destroy you
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| 7 | Hi Bro Kwaku, please post for me. I was dating this guy whose parents stay abroad. We met here in Ghana in 2021 when he was studying at Wisconsin. I was in UPSA at that time. He left to England in 2022 and returned in 2024. But we’ve been dating since August 2021. He’s someone I truly love and he said he wanted to marry me. I met his parents once in 2024 and even spoke to his sister, who also likes me.
I’ve been very good to this guy. He doesn’t ask much but I’m always there to text and be on video with him. I visit him once a while, he doesn’t really initiate sezz like that cuz he always say we weren’t married yet, but I give in anytime he asked.
I could do more things for him like washing and cooking but there’s someone who does that, but I am good to him. We never even quarreled for once.
When he said he wanted to marry me in November last year, I was really excited but he later came to tell me his parents said they don’t like the idea so we should relax before.
Then in May this year, a foreign number texted me. The person introduced the self as my boyfriend’s mother and we even spoke on video so I saw that it was her. Then she later called me that same day, she and her husband. They spoke to me that they didn’t want their son to marry someone in Ghana but they don’t want to hurt me so they’re willing to pay me any amount I want. Then the woman said I shouldn’t tell their son, that I should take 3 days to think about it and come and tell them how much I want so that I’ll disappear from their son’s life.
I spoke to my friend and she said it was an opportunity for me to get a capital to start my life. So after the three days when they called, I told them I wanted Ghc 500,000. They said okay and told me they’ll get back to me.
Only for this guy to later call me and say I didn’t love him that I only wanted money. Apparently, what the parents did was a test and they were expecting me to say I didn’t want any money. I didn’t know, and I didn’t want the money. I was only being humble but they thought I was after the guy’s money.
They didn’t give me any money and this guy has changed towards me since that time. I’ve tried to explain to him that I didn’t know it was a test, and I was only doing it because I respected his parents and didn’t want trouble. He said I was trading the love for Ghc 500,000 so we can’t work.
Bro Kay, I honestly don’t want their money. I love this guy and I’m hurting the way he won’t understand till now. No one believes me, they said since I mentioned an amount, I have a price so I’m not good for their son. Please how do I go about this situation? He’s a good guy, they’re financially stable and marrying into such a family would change my life. Help me with suggestions🙏 | 1 115 |
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| 9 | Please help me Bro Kay. This guy and I broke up since 2024 but he is still using the neudes I sent him against me. He was an abusive, a cheat and a liar. We dated from 2019 but in 2023, I realised I couldn’t stay any longer so I left the relationship. He will beat me, always taking loans from me without paying. The moment he sees me with money, he would give excuses to take it from me. Aside all that, he was abusive. He would hit me when he is least provoked. I was in love with him, people asked me to leave him but I refused.
I knew I deserved better but he was my first guy and I couldn’t leave even when I tried. The moment he comes to say he’s sorry, I take him back. My father even went to warn him several times to stay away from me and stop hitting me but he never listened cuz I always protected him.
When I left in 2023, I made up my mind it was over because before I ended things that time, he really beat me up just because I attended a friend’s birthday party and didn’t go to visit him. I ended up in the hospital and my father had him arrested but I defended him and said he wasn’t the one that beat me and he was freed. But I didn’t go back.
Some months later, he sent me all the neudes I sent him, threatening to leak all if I didn’t visit him. I went and we had sezz. Then he kept using it to get me back and back and back again till now.
He will say he’d delete it but won’t delete it. He takes money from me to delete it and doesn’t. He haves sezz with me and still doesn’t delete it. From 2023 till now, he is still using it to get to me, sezz and money.
I’m even in a relationship, but I’m being compelled to cheat on my man with this guy secretly because I’m scared he would leak my neudes.
I’m tired of going back to my vomit. I don’t want anything to do with this guy again. I’ve moved on for real. Things are going well for me, my relationship is heading towards marriage and I’m still struggling with this secret. Please help me, I don’t want the police involved. I just want someone to help me find a way to delete the neudes from his phone so he can leave me alone. Even if I get boys who would do that and collect money, I’ll pay them to do it. I’m tired and I’ve lost so much money to someone who once claimed they loved me. It’s painful 😭
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| 12 | Kwaku, I walked in on my wife on Sunday and caught her using a vibrator. It’s not an issue that’s supposed to escalate but it has and my reason is simple.
First, she refused to go to church that day. She wasn’t sick, she wasn’t busy. She said she just wanted to stay a little longer in bed and not do anything. When I opted that we all don’t go to church, she insisted that I take the kids cuz we have to teach them consistency and we couldn’t stay home just cuz she alone didn’t want to go to church. She made me feel bad so of course, the kids and I went to church.
But after dropping the kids off, I felt alone and not in the mood to be in church. I also thought it was an opportunity for us to spend some few minutes together before the children return from church so I drove back home.
I walked in and there my wife was, sitting in the couch nayked, legs wide apart with a vibrator and her eyes rolled up as if she was being chocked.
For about 6 mins, she didn’t notice me. She was focused and then I saw her squirrrting and she won’t stop. She just kept going and going and going and squirrrting all over the place. I wasn’t happy, I shouted her name and she quickly dropped the vibrator and jumped off the chair.
She started blaming me for it. I’m not always available so a friend recommended it instead of cheating on me. That statement got me, so if her friend hadn’t recommended a vibrator she would cheat on me?
That aside, my other issue is this. We used to be doing well sezzually until suddenly sometimes last year, she withdrew. She said she didn’t enjoy sezz anymore and eventually made it boring. She used to be on fire, I touch her a few times and she’s already wet. There’s no time we had sezz and she didn’t squirrt. We were crayzy, had quickkies and made love anyhow. I didn’t change, she did all of a sudden and I always wondered why.
Then I catch her using a vibrator and she blamed me. I don’t know what happened or how it started, but everything just confuses me. Saying rather than cheating on me, what if she actually did it tried? So we’ve not been good since Sunday. My heart is heavy, I need answers which she’s not providing. What do I do?
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| 14 | Good evening Bro Kwaku.I’ve been married for almost a year now. I’m currently seven months pregnant for my husband but I’m still sleeping with my ex because I’m scared. When we were younger, a woman in our house had six kids. She never struggled to deliver, she used to even deliver some of her children at home before they got to the hospital. I heard my aunties saying it was because her husband had a big pernis so she’s open enough to have kids easily.
My ex is like that. He has a very big pernis which I used to enjoy so much. But he’s also a womanizer. Always changing girls. I caught him cheating so many times, I stopped forgiving him and decided to end the relationship because I was always crying. He takes my money, he’s always asking me for stuff and I always gave him but he was still cheating everyday. I was always treating repeated STI’s. Leaving him was the only way to end the pattern. But we were in touch, we talk once a while and we see each other sometimes.
When I met my husband, I knew this was the one for me. He’s a very good person. He’s kind, honest and generous. He has never even cheated on me. But he has a very small pernis. I used to manage it, I never complained. We dated for a year and half before getting married last year. I was not concerned about his small manhood. I knew that was what my man had, even though once a while I went to my ex cuz sometimes I just really want to feel filled. I like the feeling my ex gives me.
But it’s not why I’m sleeping with him now. I’m sleeping with him because I remember the woman in our house who had her children easily because her husband had a big pernis. I feel like sleeping with my ex would make me have my child easily cuz I heard childbirth is very painful. I don’t want to go through so much pain or even CS cuz my husband couldn’t create enough space for the child to come. So I’ve been consistently seeing my ex so he can create space for the child.
The time is almost due. My husband is also sleeping with me but he’s busy so we don’t do it everyday. My ex has been consistent for the past four months. I feel like it’s okay, my ex has done enough. I feel he has created enough space so I should focus on my husband until I deliver but two months is a long time. What if the place closes again. I want you to post for your audience to advise me. Will the place close before the 2 months if I end things with my ex now or it won’t? If it would, should I keep sleeping with him?
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| 17 | Good morning sir
I have a little issue to share. I’ve sustained a bit of sore around my abdominal area, I am shy to go to the hospital or tell someone about it cuz a cat actually scratched me. I think it might have gotten infected, because it’s not healing and there’s green water coming out of it. It’s equally very painful, I feel sick and I’m unable to sleep.
It’s not my cat, it was for my big sister but when they were moving out, she said she couldn’t keep it so I should keep it until she’s free to come for it.
One night I was very horrnyy. I didn’t know what to do and the girl who normally sorts me out won’t come and see me. She said she was busy.
I was really frustrated. I kept going up and down, wondering what to do. It felt like my balls were hurting.
Then the cat 🐈 came to mind. I had never done anything like that. It was my first time. I heard people have serzz with animals so I was curious to try.
I thought I’ll get relieved but the cat was soo aggressive. It turned around and scratched my abdomen so badly. The wound is deep. I really struggled to stop the bleeding. It’s been like two weeks, it just keeps getting worse with discharges and it’s becoming green.
I am hiding it because I’m shy. I don’t know how to tell anyone that a cat scratched that part of my body. I’m thinking they’ll suspect me. I tried my best, the wound just won’t heal. Please share for me, if anyone can suggest something to help me cure myself. I’m in pain. I can’t even go to work. It’s that serious and it’s more than 5 scratches across my tummy.
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| 20 | Good morning Kwaku. I am not a jealous person and I don’t want to make this about me, but I feel like my wife may have cheated on me. We’ve been married for 5 years, we have a 5 year old and a 2 year old baby. Our family isn’t perfect but we do our best.
My wife works and so do I so we don’t have roles in the house. When I’m around , I do the cooking, cleaning, washing and handling the kids. When she’s around, she does same, even better. We’re both home on weekends so when that happens, we work together as a family. She earns less and closes 3 hours early before me so she gets home before me most times.
We had a little misunderstanding because it got to a time where she started returning late from work. She never gave me any reason, the kids were stranded, I mostly had to call my sister to go for them and keep them company. Initially I thought she was working a little extra so I never bothered her about it. It became an issue when I asked her to let me know why she closed late. She didn’t give me any reason, she just got angry and said I was treating her like a child and that she was stressed and just stayed back to rest. Was weird but since she said she was stressed, I understood and let my sister come in to help. So her lateness was justified until I saw messages between her and a coworker, a male. I didn’t see much but they were flirting and I also saw in the text that they agreed to stay back and spend time together. I got angry, cuz she was obviously cheating, even if they just stayed back to talk.
She exploded, got angry that I was accusing her of cheating and left the house for two days. I tracked her phone to where she was on the second day and met her at the house of the same coworker she stays behind with.
Her excuse was, he doesn’t make her feel like a child so she came to stay with him to cool off.
She’s back to the house, but I keep having the feeling she cheated and I want answers but she won’t let us talk about it. Is it okay to involve her parents because I can’t seem to let it go. | 1 478 |
