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Social and Intersexual Dynamics | Attraction | You gotta build better connections to build a better life.
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Warm is not the same thing as chosen.
Most of you are warm.
Thatâs why she answers.
More in the X room tonight.
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If she really wanted the nice guy...
.. she'd still be answering his good morning texts.
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Never trust a womanâs tears.
Not the ones that show upâŠ
.. right when you start making sense.
Thatâs not grief.
Thatâs a pause button.
Real pain is quiet.
It doesnât wait for its cue.
The second the argument turns against herâŠ
.. the eyes get wet...
.. and suddenly youâre the asshole for noticing the timeline.
Donât debate the water.
Thatâs the trap.
Sit there.
Let it miss.
If it was real?
Itâll still be there when youâre done talking.
If it wasnâtâŠ
.. it dries the second you stop folding.
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Why you should tease her:
Compliments make her comfortable.
Comfort is where attraction goes to die.
Teasing does the opposite.
It puts a little pressure on the moment.
She has to come toward you to resolve it.
Thatâs the whole game.
If you only praise herâŠ
.. she files you under âsweet.â
Sweet is what she tells her dad you are.
Not what she stays up thinking about.
A tease says:
I see you.
Iâm not impressed enough to audition.
Come play.
Examples that work:
She sends a selfie.
âYou look like you argued with your hair this morning.
Hair lost.â
Sheâs late.
âI was gonna be mad.
Then I remembered you need a committee to pick a jacket.â
She says sheâs âbad at texting.â
âYouâre not bad at texting.
Youâre bad at texting me.â
Keep it light.
Keep it specific.
Stop before it turns into an insult you have to apologize for.
If she laughs and fires backâŠ
.. sheâs in.
If she gets quiet and starts explaining herselfâŠ
.. you went too hard, or she was never in.
Most guys donât tease because theyâre scared sheâll leave.
Thatâs why she leaves.
A woman who likes you will fight to win the bit.
A woman who doesnât will call it âdisrespectâ and go find a guy who actually has a pulse.
Tease her.
Then shut up and see if she comes through.
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Most men donât lose her because theyâre boring.
They lose her because they narrate.
She goes quiet for a night and he writes a paragraph.
She makes a face and he holds a press conference.
She tests him and he explains the test.
Thatâs not communication.
Thatâs you handing her the remote.
A woman doesnât need the minutes of your insecurity.
She needs to feel that the room doesnât change when she pokes it.
If she asks why you didnât text back?
âI was busy.â
Thatâs the whole sentence.
If she wants a speech...
.. sheâll date a man who needs applause.
Stop explaining yourself.
Let her sit in the silence...
.. and decide if she likes the man who doesnât flinch.
Thatâs the whole game.
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She disappears for two days.
Then she hits you with âwhat you been up to?â
Thatâs not interest.
Thatâs her checking if the slot is still open.
Most men write a paragraph.
Where they went. Who they missed. How they felt.
Donât.
You were busy.
She was optional.
If she wanted the real answer she wouldnât have vanished.
She wanted to see if youâd crawl back into the check-in.
You didnât.
She said âoh⊠kayâŠâ
Thatâs the sound of a woman who expected you to wait.
I donât wait.
I donât recap my weekend for someone who took two days off from existing.
She hits you up.
Or she doesnât.
Next!
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Men act shocked when she wants another round.
Thatâs not greed.
Thatâs biology.
Your body hits the brakes.
Hers doesnât.
Learn the difference or keep getting left behind.
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She doesnât lose interest because you care.
She loses interest...
.. because she can hear it.
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Women are born with value.
Men must build their value.
Master this...
.. and you'll never have trouble attracting the right ones.
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Sheâs all over youâŠ
.. then you pull back.
Watch what happens.
2 steps forward, 3 steps back = pure sexual tension.
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Being denied sex from the woman you love...
.. will change a man in ways that most people don't even think about.
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Stop trying to be liked by everybody else.
Being your authentic self...
.. Will Attract the people that belong in your life.
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When a woman feels safe enough to be fully feminine with you...
.. science says she will act childlike in her behavior towards you.
