Attract Her
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Social and Intersexual Dynamics | Attraction | You gotta build better connections to build a better life.
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Warm is not the same thing as chosen.
Most of you are warm.
That’s why she answers.
More in the X room tonight.
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If she really wanted the nice guy...
.. she'd still be answering his good morning texts.
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Never trust a woman’s tears.
Not the ones that show up…
.. right when you start making sense.
That’s not grief.
That’s a pause button.
Real pain is quiet.
It doesn’t wait for its cue.
The second the argument turns against her…
.. the eyes get wet...
.. and suddenly you’re the asshole for noticing the timeline.
Don’t debate the water.
That’s the trap.
Sit there.
Let it miss.
If it was real?
It’ll still be there when you’re done talking.
If it wasn’t…
.. it dries the second you stop folding.
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Why you should tease her:
Compliments make her comfortable.
Comfort is where attraction goes to die.
Teasing does the opposite.
It puts a little pressure on the moment.
She has to come toward you to resolve it.
That’s the whole game.
If you only praise her…
.. she files you under “sweet.”
Sweet is what she tells her dad you are.
Not what she stays up thinking about.
A tease says:
I see you.
I’m not impressed enough to audition.
Come play.
Examples that work:
She sends a selfie.
“You look like you argued with your hair this morning.
Hair lost.”
She’s late.
“I was gonna be mad.
Then I remembered you need a committee to pick a jacket.”
She says she’s “bad at texting.”
“You’re not bad at texting.
You’re bad at texting me.”
Keep it light.
Keep it specific.
Stop before it turns into an insult you have to apologize for.
If she laughs and fires back…
.. she’s in.
If she gets quiet and starts explaining herself…
.. you went too hard, or she was never in.
Most guys don’t tease because they’re scared she’ll leave.
That’s why she leaves.
A woman who likes you will fight to win the bit.
A woman who doesn’t will call it “disrespect” and go find a guy who actually has a pulse.
Tease her.
Then shut up and see if she comes through.
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Most men don’t lose her because they’re boring.
They lose her because they narrate.
She goes quiet for a night and he writes a paragraph.
She makes a face and he holds a press conference.
She tests him and he explains the test.
That’s not communication.
That’s you handing her the remote.
A woman doesn’t need the minutes of your insecurity.
She needs to feel that the room doesn’t change when she pokes it.
If she asks why you didn’t text back?
“I was busy.”
That’s the whole sentence.
If she wants a speech...
.. she’ll date a man who needs applause.
Stop explaining yourself.
Let her sit in the silence...
.. and decide if she likes the man who doesn’t flinch.
That’s the whole game.
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She disappears for two days.
Then she hits you with “what you been up to?”
That’s not interest.
That’s her checking if the slot is still open.
Most men write a paragraph.
Where they went. Who they missed. How they felt.
Don’t.
You were busy.
She was optional.
If she wanted the real answer she wouldn’t have vanished.
She wanted to see if you’d crawl back into the check-in.
You didn’t.
She said “oh… kay…”
That’s the sound of a woman who expected you to wait.
I don’t wait.
I don’t recap my weekend for someone who took two days off from existing.
She hits you up.
Or she doesn’t.
Next!
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Men act shocked when she wants another round.
That’s not greed.
That’s biology.
Your body hits the brakes.
Hers doesn’t.
Learn the difference or keep getting left behind.
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She doesn’t lose interest because you care.
She loses interest...
.. because she can hear it.
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Women are born with value.
Men must build their value.
Master this...
.. and you'll never have trouble attracting the right ones.
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She’s all over you…
.. then you pull back.
Watch what happens.
2 steps forward, 3 steps back = pure sexual tension.
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Being denied sex from the woman you love...
.. will change a man in ways that most people don't even think about.
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Stop trying to be liked by everybody else.
Being your authentic self...
.. Will Attract the people that belong in your life.
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When a woman feels safe enough to be fully feminine with you...
.. science says she will act childlike in her behavior towards you.
