Attract Her

Why you should tease her: Compliments make her comfortable. Comfort is where attraction goes to die. Teasing does the opposite. It puts a little pressure on the moment. She has to come toward you to resolve it. That’s the whole game. If you only praise her… .. she files you under “sweet.” Sweet is what she tells her dad you are. Not what she stays up thinking about. A tease says: I see you. I’m not impressed enough to audition. Come play. Examples that work: She sends a selfie. “You look like you argued with your hair this morning. Hair lost.” She’s late. “I was gonna be mad. Then I remembered you need a committee to pick a jacket.” She says she’s “bad at texting.” “You’re not bad at texting. You’re bad at texting me.” Keep it light. Keep it specific. Stop before it turns into an insult you have to apologize for. If she laughs and fires back… .. she’s in. If she gets quiet and starts explaining herself… .. you went too hard, or she was never in. Most guys don’t tease because they’re scared she’ll leave. That’s why she leaves. A woman who likes you will fight to win the bit. A woman who doesn’t will call it “disrespect” and go find a guy who actually has a pulse. Tease her. Then shut up and see if she comes through.