Attract Her

Most men don’t lose her because they’re boring. They lose her because they narrate. She goes quiet for a night and he writes a paragraph. She makes a face and he holds a press conference. She tests him and he explains the test. That’s not communication. That’s you handing her the remote. A woman doesn’t need the minutes of your insecurity. She needs to feel that the room doesn’t change when she pokes it. If she asks why you didn’t text back? “I was busy.” That’s the whole sentence. If she wants a speech... .. she’ll date a man who needs applause. Stop explaining yourself. Let her sit in the silence... .. and decide if she likes the man who doesn’t flinch. That’s the whole game.