For example, Ion Clamparu is one of the most ruthless men in Europe, started strong with a murder when he was 18 after he punched a guy in the face and he died. Then continued by pimping around 2000 women. He was very ruthless, dangerous and charming. You can barely convince your girlfriend to allow you to fuck some side chick, he was able to convince 2000 women to fuck and give them all their money - he's probably more charming than you will ever be. Despite all this, his wife and mother of his 2 children, was caught fucking with another guy named Mircea Ursu, someone who wasn't even at his level )))) Wife made him feel like he's in charge and "has frame" while sucking dick behind his back.
Clamparu believed women respect his strength. Other guys are the opposite, believe women respect their kindness and "provider" traits. But realistically, you can can take a bitch, BOSS HER UP, make her a 9, spoil her then randomly she starts sucking dick, forgetting and ignoring everything you did for her. Then you're shocked and end up depressed because you refuse to take the blackpill: Nothing makes sense and no matter what you do FUCKED UP SHIT CAN HAPPEN.
6. Thinking that you'll be rewarded by life if you do things BY THE BOOK
Ex.
Men think if they go to the gym, eat clean and improve their appearance - they'll fuck better bitches than the people who don't do this. Then you wake up seeing skinny fat random guys fucking the bitches you like and that all your effort was in vain ))))))
Men think if you study hard in school and get a good job where you do your best, you'll become successful. Then many of them end up adults with a "good salary" while having no friends, no hoes, not enough free time.
Men from the bottom think they get extra points of respect from others because they evolved from 0 to something. In the real world it's not the case. People with better genetics, better parents, or simply lucky people fuck the same bitches as you and will go to the same places.
Nobody really cares you worked hard and suffered, while someone else inherited his money. People care about WHO YOU ARE NOW, not how much it took you to get there. The waiters in the Maldives serve with the same respect the guy who was lucky and made 2M's with crypto in 1 month and the guy who worked 20 years to make the same money ))))
7. Thinking you resolve issues with logic rather than stupid laughter
The reality is this: Your only viable weapon to deal with uncomfortable, fucked up, unexpected events is to LAUGH ABOUT IT and make fun of the situation. Logic can't save you, it only keeps you overthinking, shocked, negative. You have to understand, a lot of things don't make sense - you gotta make fun of it and CHARGE IT TO THE GAME
8. Thinking winning and losing are final destinations
Nothing is really the final destinations except death. Think of music, everyone thought "Drake was finished" in 2024 when Kendrick launched NOT LIKE US, a song created as a diss towards Drake that became A WORLDWIDE HIT... You'd hear it everywhere. Reality is, Kendrick's win wasn't final nor Drake's defeat. In 2026 Drake won by launching his new album and everyone started sucking his dick again. It's all temporary moments in time.
Same with your life. You can always change your position in the game with a few smart moves. It's NOT AS BAD as you think it is.
9. Thinking you're stupid as fuck and others are better than you
Most of the time you're not stupid and everything bad that happened to you, happened to others as well, even people you look up to. The thing is, you're not aware that it happened to them too, so you start having a negative inner monologue and your mind is flooded with depressive thoughts that are self sabotaging you.
Ex.
A business your tried doesn't work so this makes you feel like you're not supposed to try again, underestimating your own skills... but there's so many other people that failed more than you who didn't give a fuck, just laughed about what happened and moved on fast.