Every woman has a limit when it comes to what she's capable of offering and what she's capable of tolerating
The ideal scenario is to find women who can tolerate and offer a lot EFFORTLESLY
Ex.
There's women who can raise kids, do tasks for you, look good, take care of the house - and they do it effortlessly, it's not even a thing for them, it's normality, they don't even complain too much
Vs
Women who can barely do lil, insignificant shit but for them even this is A LOT, and they'll even tell you "OHHHH DID THIS AND THIS AND YOU DON'T APPRECIATEEEEE"
In their minds, it actually is a lot. But for you it's shit 😄
You need girls who are High Conscientiousness + Low Neuroticism
For High Conscientiousness people tasks like raising kids, managing a household, looking after a partner or maintaining appearance feel like normal responsibilities rather than heroic sacrifices that require constant external validation or applause. They follow through reliably because it aligns with their self-concept or sense of duty.
Low Neuroticism means daily efforts don’t trigger strong negative emotions or mood swings. Small contributions don’t feel like “a lot” internally, so they don’t need to announce them or demand huge appreciation. The effort registers as ordinary rather than burdensome.
The same when it comes to TOLERATING
There's women that are capable of dealing with the fact that you fuck whores, have other girlfriends or even have kids with other women. Yeah, they might cry and complain, but at the end of the day they still stay and act nicely
VS
Women who get super depressed, even sick, if you just fuck a bitch once every 2 months. They're too weak to deal with this, they're not made for stress. They react VERY BADLY, embarrass you or stress you out TOO MUCH, to the point where it affects your quality of life.
Window of Tolerance: This is the range of emotional arousal a person can experience while staying regulated, able to think clearly, communicate effectively and not spiral into hyperarousal (panic, rage, intense depression, dramatic actions) or hypoarousal (numb shutdown)
Some people have a wide window. They can feel jealousy, disappointment, anger or even betrayal, process it and remain functional. Others have a narrow window.
In order for you to be who you want to be you need women that can deal with the tribulations
There's women who've been treated terribly by their men and still were good girlfriends and there's also bitches who call 911 for a some lil argument in the house, some lil MMA ))))))
Can't do shit if u surround yourself with weak bitches, worm bitches
LEARN LIFE.