THE IRON CIRCLE

If a girl kissed u all night and then went cold, today's paid post explains what happened in her head and what u should do on the next date: Manofstxxx.substack.com

Being ruthless with women is the only true way to showcase abundance as a man, it doesnt matter how rich or smart or aware or insert external element here you are as a man, if you do not have boundaries and standards and a vision that you will NEVER compromise on for a woman, you'll always be cucked. People think once they have enough external toys women will respect them and it couldnt be further from the truth I know many individuals who are wealthy beyond belief and provide a wonderful lifestyle for their woman, all expenses covered, no financial pressure, objectively a top 1% life for the woman that she wouldnt have access to unless she was with him Do these men recieve reverence in direct accordance with the lifestyle they provide? Is it correlated really from my observation, absolutely not One of the many reasons I could go into for this is that these men make the fatal error of confusing love with tolerance, you can have deep heartfelt resonance for something and still absolutely keep it in place and make sure engaging with that particular thing doesnt damage the other structures around you; as a man you're responsible for your kingdom You are responsible for curating, sculpting and sharpening the standards you uphold in your life; if you're engaging with a woman and accepting objectively poor behaviour because she is hot YOU ARE THE PROBLEM Not her; let her go and infect another mans spiritual kingdom, keep yours clean, pristine, orderly and make sure everything that is contributing to your life is a positive addition overall If you dont explicitly express what is acceptable to you with emotional intelligence to women you're romantically involved with, you're always going to encounter crossed wires where she expresses herself in a way that is derogatory to you either directly or indirectly because you didnt take responsibility for curating the exact relationship you want You have to take the utmost responsibility for giving her all the necessary pieces of information to please you and sculpt herself to your liking so you both can come together in harmony to produce a beautiful relationship Providing you're actually that top 1% man, asking this from her is the ABSOLUTE BARE MINIMUM How many individuals would she need to be cold approached by to meet someone like you? In my instance it's probably a million, maybe even more Once you start apologising, compromising, letting bad behaviour which irritates you slide, you start taking bricks out of the kingdom and sooner or later she just does what she wants because you picked a woman who has bratty tendencies and you're too weak and spineless to correct it If she annoys you once and doesnt adapt her behaviour after you explain yourself once? GONE She doesnt listen? GONE She says something that is strongly against your values to the point of zero reconciliation with you upon conversation? GONE Entitled? GONE Ever even insinuates you are not her dream man? GONE I believe this to the bottom of my soul because I have observed multiple relationships over the years where bad behaviour hasnt been harshly reprimanded and the woman just continues to exhibit traits that are utterly humiliating towards the dude, because he's so emotionally intertwined with her he cannot find the stomach to tell her no and rock the boat and have her leave him You must absolutely be willing to walk away from your relationship with a drop dead gorgeous, feminine, sweet, one of one woman if the standards start to drop, because if you let that happen, it will just continue to go downhill from there and those low standards will just continue to spread like an infection which lowers the strength of your kingdom Find a woman who listens, who cares about upholding elite standards for herself, support and care for her maximally But never at the expense of your own standards and the parameters you want to live your life by

Modern life is so comfortable and predictable that you sometimes have to make things harder on yourself just to build character. Take on challenges that are completely unnecessary. Do shit the hard way sometimes simply because you can. You’re training yourself to stay steady when you eventually start gunning for something that actually matters. Purpose is a lot easier to pursue when hardship doesn’t scare you.

New month. If you have been telling yourself you’re going to get better with women, stop repeating the same shit and actually do something about it. I have put everything I have learned from years of dating, approaching, texting, getting rejected, getting dates, and figuring out what actually creates attraction into the Substack. You’ll find: • Cold approach frameworks that make starting conversations easier • What to say when she tests you • How to text without killing attraction • Dating app strategies • How to handle rejection without losing your frame • How to become more socially confident • The mistakes that quietly make women lose interest • Practical breakdowns you can actually use in real life And the paid subscription gives you access to the deeper stuff, including the guides and resources I don’t post publicly. If you’re serious about making October different from September: Join here: Manofstxxx.substack.com New month. New reps. Better results.

Life gives you a huge margin for error. Mistakes barely matter as long as you don’t let them consume you. Almost everything is either fixable or forgettable.

Q & A If u got any questions, now would be the time

She slept with guys uglier than you She slept with guys poorer than you She slept with guys shorter than you She slept with guys dumber than you But most importantly, she slept with guys who had bigger b*lls than you and actually went up to her.

I have been thinking about how I want to structure Man of Steel going forward. There’s a lot I share here for free. But the deeper stuff is going to live on my Substack. Not motivational quotes. Not recycled dating advice. Actual breakdowns of attraction, women, texting, dating apps, cold approach, relationships, masculine behavior, and the things I’ve personally learned from testing this stuff in the real world. I have also been documenting my own results instead of pretending I have everything figured out. For example, I spent 13 weeks deliberately going out and approaching women. 262 approaches. 58 numbers. 31 dates. That’s the kind of thing I want to keep doing with the content. Real experiments. Real numbers. Real lessons. If you want the deeper version of Man of Steel, that’s what the paid Substack is for. It’s $10/month or $100/year. You also get the paid archive, including my deeper dating breakdowns and resources, with more coming. If you have been getting value from what I post here, and you want to go deeper, you can join here: Manofstxxx.substack.com The free content isn’t going anywhere. Paid is simply where I’m putting the stuff I can’t fit into a Telegram post.

The path to staying healthy and useful is giving more than you consume. It’s the only thing that really makes sense. Nature is ruthless and will discard you once you stop being useful. Of course you’ll start feeling worse when you stop working, sit at home, and live off everyone else’s resources. Nature also has no memory and no “money in the bank.” You could spend 30 years building companies, creating cities, and improving millions of lives. The moment you retire and decide to just “enjoy” everything you built, nature treats you like you’re useless.

You can get away with living pretty much however you want if you’re reasonably smart and have the balls to seize opportunities when they put you in uncomfortable situations. No need to grind endlessly if you can make your boss like you. No need to attend events you hate if you can meet women at coffee shops. The trick is finding the few things that actually matter and getting damn good at those.

One thing guys get wrong is pushing hardest when things are down instead of when they’re going up. You row like a madman when the wind is behind your sails. When you’re caught in the middle of a storm, all the frantic scrambling in the world will just send you around in circles. Sit back, light a cigar, and wait for the wind to turn.

Most people aren’t playing nearly enough mind games with themselves. Failing to hit a goal should cost you something, even when it wasn’t entirely your fault. Otherwise you’ll keep backing out and then convince yourself external factors were the reason. Didn’t meet any women you wanted to approach today? Now you have to go to the mall and make one deliberate approach, even if you’re almost certain it won’t work. See how quickly you start noticing more chances to approach throughout the day. A failed hunt used to make the primal man hungrier.

Best way by far to get what you want is to simply spend time around it. You can be the most autistic guy alive, but if you’re around beautiful women every day, you will bang a few by happenstance. Same goes the other way. Spend enough time around fuck ups and you will be snorting powder off some guy’s balls before you know what hit you.

literally cannot stress this enough, but... Only get into relationships with women you can replace. Have sex with them though. If you can’t buy something 2-3 times, then you can’t afford it. You can rent that Ferrari for the day, but don’t buy it. Same applies to women.

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Every day you and your loved ones have your health and freedom is a good fucking day. With those two, anything is possible. Neither is guaranteed, no matter how carefully you live your life.

There’s something about a woman posting her boyfriend or husband, that just makes him look weak. They’ll usually pick a picture of him in his most domesticated form. Either him in an apron, baking with a smile on his face. Or him in some pajamas looking like a complete idiot. Women rarely post a badass picture of their man. It’s almost like they want to show the world how they’ve successfully tamed a beast. They’ll post a selfie they took together with him with a goofie Snapchat filter on his face. Or post him attempting some dumb internet dance. My friend’s girl posted a video of  him cleaning the windows in their house on her IG story. And captioned it “a handy man ❤️” I couldn’t believe it. They rarely post anything with you looking sexy. They rather post something where you look tamed. DO NOT BE A VICTIM OF THIS

Happy new month. Five months to go Make it count!

literally cannot stress this enough, but... Only get into relationships with women you can replace. Have sex with them though. If you can’t buy something 2-3 times, then you can’t afford it. You can rent that Ferrari for the day, but don’t buy it. Same applies to women.

Just because some of you dudes want to prove that you can take a joke, you end up tolerating disrespectful remarks from women. Disrespect that comes in the form of a joke, is still disrespect. Just because she said it with a humorous tone, that doesn’t change anything.