Ummu Hayaa's Majlis || مجلس أم حياء

Jaabir Ibnu Abdullaah narrated: The Messenger of Allaah ﷺ said: “Whoever introduces a good practice that is followed will receive its reward and a reward equivalent to that of those who follow it, without that detracting from their rewards in the slightest. And whoever introduces a bad practice that is followed will receive its sin and a burden of sin equivalent to that of those who follow it, without that detracting from their burden in the slightest.” To my sisters, then: may Allaah grant us all success in what He loves and is pleased with, Know that a wealthy brother holds no true advantage over a poor one — except in taqwa. Experience teaches, again and again, that not everything that glitters is gold. And the Prophet ﷺ informed us that the wealthy will enter Paradise five hundred years after the poor. عن أبي هريرة، قال قال رسول الله ﷺ يَدخُلُ فُقَراءُ المُؤمِنين الجنَّةَ قبْلَ أَغنِيائِهم بِخَمسِمِئةِ عامٍ. أخرجه الترمذي (٢٣٥٣)، والنسائي في ((السنن الكبرى)) (١١٣٤٨)، وابن ماجه (٤١٢٢)، وأحمد (٧٩٤٦) واللفظ له. "The poor believers will enter Paradise half a day - five hundred years - before the rich." Let this temper how readily wealth or its appearance is allowed to outweigh sincere counsel. To dismiss someone's advice merely because he is not affluent is simply not sound judgment. عن سهل بن سعد الساعدي: مَرَّ رَجُلٌ على رَسولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ، فَقالَ: ما تَقُولونَ في هذا؟ قالوا: حَرِيٌّ إنْ خَطَبَ أنْ يُنْكَحَ، وإنْ شَفَعَ أنْ يُشَفَّعَ، وإنْ قالَ أنْ يُسْتَمَعَ، قالَ: ثُمَّ سَكَتَ، فَمَرَّ رَجُلٌ مِن فُقَراءِ المُسْلِمِينَ، فَقالَ: ما تَقُولونَ في هذا؟ قالوا: حَرِيٌّ إنْ خَطَبَ أنْ لا يُنْكَحَ، وإنْ شَفَعَ أنْ لا يُشَفَّعَ، وإنْ قالَ أنْ لا يُسْتَمَعَ، فَقالَ رَسولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ: هذا خَيْرٌ مِن مِلْءِ الأرْضِ مِثْلَ هذا. البخاري، صحيح البخاري (٥٠٩١). Sahl bin Sa'd As-Sa'idi narrated: "A man passed by the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and he said: 'What do you say about this man?' They said: 'We agree with your opinion concerning him. We say: He is one of the noblest of people. If he proposes marriage, his proposal deserves to be accepted...' Then another man passed by, and the Prophet ﷺ said: 'What do you think about this man?' We said: 'By Allah, O Messenger of Allah, this is one of the poor Muslims. If he proposes marriage, he does not deserve to get married...' The Prophet ﷺ said: 'This one is better than an earthful of (men like) the other man.'" The principle I would offer is this: weight should be given to those who know a person's reality — who have transacted with him, traveled beside him, lived in close quarters with him — not to those who know only his curated digital trace. So, sisters: ask. Seek clarification about a prospective spouse without hesitation or shyness; this is your right, not an imposition. And as for those criminals who deceive and persist and do not repent — know that: { إِنَّا مِنَ ٱلۡمُجۡرِمِینَ مُنتَقِمُونَ } Verily, We shall exact retribution from the Mujrimûn (criminals, disbelievers, polytheists, sinners). [Surah As-Sajdah: 22]. { وَكَذَ ٰ⁠لِكَ نُفَصِّلُ ٱلۡـَٔایَـٰتِ وَلِتَسۡتَبِینَ سَبِیلُ ٱلۡمُجۡرِمِینَ } [Surah Al-Anʿām: 55] And thus do We explain the Ayât (proofs, evidence, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) in detail, that the way of the Mujrimûn (criminals, polytheists, sinners) may become manifest. عَنْ أبي هريرة قال قال رسول الله ﷺ مَن حَمَلَ عليْنا السِّلاحَ فليسَ مِنّا، ومَن غَشَّنا فليسَ مِنّا. مسلم، تهذيب السنن (١٠١). Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet ﷺ said: "Whoever deceives us is not of us." Abu Juwayriyah Nūruddīn ibn Sulaymān ibn Hārūn Al Idi An-Nījīrīyy The Night of Arbi'aa 16/1/1448 Eq. to Wed 30/June/2026 t.me/Insightful_Couples whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbB7MBUDp2Q4elmF2U3t