Nodira - 101 Ways to Stay Sane

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨Have you ever taken any courses for writing? I mean, like in books. Not Ielts writing, the way you write is something else⁩ ___ nope, but i loved to write poems since 5yo or smth. my first ever book was called "how to take care of cats" for my mom cuz she was always mean to my little kitties when i was a girl- it was just 6 A4 papers sewn together😌 thanks, btw. 📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨do u have private channel also? where u share more content? (yeah yeah I really get excited when I receive a new post from ur chanel 😜)⁩ nope, i barely force myself to write anything here🥲 people say i ignore a lot, but i just dont like opening telegram or social media in general. btw thanks

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨how was the meeting with wife and daughters of Jahongir Ortiqxo'jayev? I mean what were ur insights or feelings or observations ? tell us a bit more. please)⁩ ___ some people here may judge me for even mentioning the names of these people. but anyway, all with their own principles. the meeting itself was more pleasant than i expected. the wife, Nigora opa, is quite reserved, so it was slightly awkward at the beginning. she seemed conservative too. but then the two daughters joined - i remembered only the eldest one's name, Zulfiya. she seemed the most interesting to me. and i could relate to her in some ways too, which was surprising to me. for one, she first started her studies abroad but had to return because the family insisted she would be "ruined" abroad with all their influence of different values. she finished her bachelors here. did her masters abroad. started her business early on and continues to be the "break the barriers" type of person - the phrase that she kept repeating was "you need to protect your family from the influence of relatives or others around who dictate how you or your children should live. create a space where your children can grow and express themselves without constantly thinking about neighbors' or relatives' opinion." but most of all, i loved the relationship she had with her father. so pure, so geniune. it was obvious that her father loves her a great deal, which indeed gives you an advantage later in life too. speaking as a dad's daughter lol

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨What happened to ur book "101 teenagers of Uzbekistan"?⁩ ___ for now nothing. we still do receive some orders and the money is still sent to Ezgu Amal charity. its available on Amazon, or just through me if ur in Uzb. we dont advertise tho. when it comes to 101 Uz Project itself, then it's stopped as i wrote on the main channel. didnt want to drag it.

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨what are the top 3 or more books you really loved?⁩ ___ altho i read non-fiction more often, my favorites go to fiction anyway. A Little Life Hundred Years of Solitude A Life of Pi purely because of the writing- the degree to which it can deliver the emotions, subtleties of human interaction, how natural it sounds. thats the first thing i look for.

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨have you ever taken an MBTI test? if yes, what's your type?⁩ ___ ahah. yeah. Commander (ENTJ) 📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨I love your enthusiasm and your beatiful, curly hair🫠(it is sooo gergous😍🥹, i am not putting cotton just I am telling the truth). I don't know you personally much but I have been known you since dombit. By watching you, I also got motivated to take part in projects and grow both personally and professionally. Always shineee bright🤩💖⁩ ___ thats very sweet of you💘🥲 thanks a lot. i hope we talked during dombit times tho.

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨I want to ask something most people don't usually think of How do you see your role in the society How can we contribute to our society apart from what we do (our job, studies, home commitments and so on )⁩ ____ love the question. and i dont have an exact answer. i know there is smth i am certainly going to pursue to contribute to society and make change in it, but the substance of that goal isnt clear yet. and i dont think u should overthink or chase after it right now. if ur good at smth, eventually the purpose will get clear on its own. u just gotta believe u matter. even if u dont, objectively, right now.

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨I'd love to know about your bad habits/traits or insecurities if, of course, you're comfortable sharing🌚⁩ not sure about insecurities - not because i dont have, but simply dont pay attention or even see them as insecurities. imagine u feel uncomfortable around a certain group of people who may appear as more charismatic - do u call urself insecure around them? no. i just ask myself "why do i feel this way? is it about them or me? if me, what can i change?" just talk with urself without judgement, helps. bad habits. ahahah. maybe getting annoyed a bit too quickly. but im working on it.

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨ahhhhh how far away i am from you, my dream uni, my dream country. it hurts whenever i see the photos/videos or posts about the environment or the vibes of the unis, especially the hard work you guys put on for your tasks/assignments😭⁩ interesting. hope ur aware that im in uzbekistan for now. in any case, keep up the work! 📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨hello, could you please explain the Media park project and how you get to meet and present in front of its CEO? i mean, I've never heard of something like that being held in my university. or is it like CAU thing?⁩ nope, its not really a CAU thing. but they do support student initiatives - at least, for the beginning. and as long as u know whom to hold on to. overall, i just came up with the idea of establishing a consulting project to the rector - he liked the idea, introduced to several directors within Akfa Group. we were lucky that Media Park were our first clients. we have a team of several students, plus several professors supporting.

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨1) Nega aynan CAU? Chet eldagi universitetlarda ham grand yutish imkoniyatingiz bor edi 2) Startuplar qilish niyatingiz bormi?⁩ 1. cau wasn't my first choice. i was accepted to some unis in the US with full scholarship but they weren't my dream unis. i was waitlisted by UPenn. but yeah, my father was convinced that i gotta shape my values and principles here first before going abroad for masters. personally, uni choice doesnt matter much to me anymore. not as much as it used to, at least 2. yes, i am doing currently.

📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨Are you single⁩ for now yes. 📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨Нечинчи йилсиз⁩ 2006. guys, be more creative. 📨 Получено сообщение! ⁨You're amazing and an inspiration for me, just want to wish you good luck with whatever projects you're busy with and life overall💗⁩ oh, thanks a lot💘💘💘

realized i never did anonymous questions here. let's talk, maybe will distract myself a bit😌 https://t.me/questianonbot?start=1269655786

for the past two months, we’ve been working with Media Park - our first client in consulting. we run through financial and marketing analysis, tried to answer the questions they put before us - including price differentiation for online and offline stores. last friday, we made our presentation to Media Park’s management team, including Mahmud aka, the CEO. the results? they loved it. more than i expected. before the presentation i was honestly worried that some of our suggestions might not be taken seriously coming from students altho we made sure we had both the practical side and the future vision. Mahmud aka told we’d yet talk again to work through some of the concrete suggestions that we had in our 50-smth page report. anyway. good ending of the week✨ gotta move on to the next clients now. @summernotes

having a good colleague is when they buy you Pipls just because you had no mood✨ and look at the note i got😌

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being ur dad’s daughter is basically: - going outside at 10 pm with him for a walk cuz you really wanted a croissant - falling in love with a random jacket at shop window and him buying it for you p.s. we bought only 1 croissant but they gave us two more as a present cuz it was the end of the day anyway✨ night!

there’s one professor who never fails to make me smile with her inexhaustible energy “i can see ur overwhelmed, darling. ur beauty can overcome anything, believe me”✨ - she told me rn while passing by in a corridor😌

on intelligence, self-centric thinking and failure the medieval times predominantly held the conviction that one is born to his status by the will of God. you’re born into a royal family with all the privileges? God thought you deserved that. you’re a mere peasant who lives in shambles and milks cows and cleans barns day and night? no worries, you’re not a failure. just God decided you were meant to be so. nothing personal. just, destiny. such thinking removed any need for active participation in one’s growth - in a sense, it was uplifting and relieving that you didn’t have to take any responsibility nor feel miserable for who you are. no one objected. until Napoleon came along. coming from a humbler background, Bonaparte quickly rose to high positions through his military genius and headstrong determination. and what he noticed in his army is that the best soldiers actually came from simple families and not aristocrats (contradictory to the common belief of the time). so he shifted the perspective - abolished the governing feudalist principles and rewarded only for merit. sounds great, doesn’t it? finally people have a chance to explore their potentials. but not so easy. for most, it also meant now admitting that it’s their fault that they’re poor. and intelligence plays the biggest role here as it’s proved to be the best predictor of one’s success compared to all other factors. so now, your self-worth is tied to your intelligence. what could be the consequences of such thinking? for one, sense of superiority. i know, i understand that all of us have that at least to some degree if we are hoping to get to higher levels. but i’ve come across some people who, apparently, divide people into those below and at the same level/above them in regards to their intelligence. i’ve had acquaintances and even friends who wouldn’t talk to some certain people in the class/group/team because they “annoyed them with their stupidity/naivety” - had absolutely no contact whatsoever. and among all the unpleasant downsides that such attitude carries (insecurity, fragile sense of self tied to external factors), one of them is blindness to admit one’s own mistakes and failures. oh, and add the fact that research shows intelligence is indeed partially inherent - you may have an advantage of grasping information faster and more creatively because, say, your dad or uncle is smart. you see, instead of admitting that they messed up with the task or don’t have enough social skills, these people put the blame only on the fact that others are not as smart as they are so they “don’t get it.” if they can’t work it out with the team and build good relationships, it must be because others aren’t as good. they, superior people (even if not admitted verbally or consciously), know better and see further. thus, it’s only other people’s loss if they can’t recognize this brilliance. those others weren’t born with it, after all. so i better distance myself, close up to my inner world even more instead of looking straight at my own weaknesses. now. of course, the way i write is purposefully exaggerated to make the point easy. and of course, this doesn’t apply to all smart people. why? because some smart people are also self-aware. they reflect with brutal honesty and nitpick on their actions and consequences for the sake of growth. even when uncomfortable, even when embarrassing, they find a way to look at what they lack (“am i not as charismatic as these not-so-studious but quite successful guys?” “am i afraid to try out this new thing cuz if i fail i’ll look dumb?”) instead of hiding it behind excuses. so perhaps a true sign of intelligence is being able to reflect on one’s and others’ actions and experiences and get better over time. perhaps true intelligence is about finding ways. ensuring that even if you don’t know smth at the moment, you’ll figure it out. through learning, asking, and getting help. P.S. i’ve been searching for pomegranate-shaped earrings everywhere! the photo is my new pair😌 @summernotes

good morning means finding a note ur little brother wrote for you several years ago (i think right before going to school) gosh i almost forgot that i had it, so now it’s nicely put in my phone case. last time I discovered this note i remember i bawled my eyes out holding a little pillow that he bought for me (while being freaking 6 YEARS OLD) so that i could sleep during my weekly 4-hour road trips😭😭 altho im not a person to cry easily. but this little boy is special.