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I have been thinking about how I want to structure Man of Steel going forward.
Thereâs a lot I share here for free.
But the deeper stuff is going to live on my Substack.
Not motivational quotes.
Not recycled dating advice.
Actual breakdowns of attraction, women, texting, dating apps, cold approach, relationships, masculine behavior, and the things Iâve personally learned from testing this stuff in the real world.
I have also been documenting my own results instead of pretending I have everything figured out.
For example, I spent 13 weeks deliberately going out and approaching women.
262 approaches.
58 numbers.
31 dates.
Thatâs the kind of thing I want to keep doing with the content.
Real experiments. Real numbers. Real lessons.
If you want the deeper version of Man of Steel, thatâs what the paid Substack is for.
Itâs $10/month or $100/year.
You also get the paid archive, including my deeper dating breakdowns and resources, with more coming.
If you have been getting value from what I post here, and you want to go deeper, you can join here:
Manofstxxx.substack.com
The free content isnât going anywhere.
Paid is simply where Iâm putting the stuff I canât fit into a Telegram post.
| 2 | The path to staying healthy and useful is giving more than you consume. Itâs the only thing that really makes sense. Nature is ruthless and will discard you once you stop being useful.
Of course youâll start feeling worse when you stop working, sit at home, and live off everyone elseâs resources.
Nature also has no memory and no âmoney in the bank.â You could spend 30 years building companies, creating cities, and improving millions of lives. The moment you retire and decide to just âenjoyâ everything you built, nature treats you like youâre useless. | 131 |
| 3 | You can get away with living pretty much however you want if youâre reasonably smart and have the balls to seize opportunities when they put you in uncomfortable situations.
No need to grind endlessly if you can make your boss like you. No need to attend events you hate if you can meet women at coffee shops.
The trick is finding the few things that actually matter and getting damn good at those. | 232 |
| 4 | One thing guys get wrong is pushing hardest when things are down instead of when theyâre going up.
You row like a madman when the wind is behind your sails.
When youâre caught in the middle of a storm, all the frantic scrambling in the world will just send you around in circles.
Sit back, light a cigar, and wait for the wind to turn. | 353 |
| 5 | Most people arenât playing nearly enough mind games with themselves. Failing to hit a goal should cost you something, even when it wasnât entirely your fault. Otherwise youâll keep backing out and then convince yourself external factors were the reason.
Didnât meet any women you wanted to approach today? Now you have to go to the mall and make one deliberate approach, even if youâre almost certain it wonât work.
See how quickly you start noticing more chances to approach throughout the day.
A failed hunt used to make the primal man hungrier. | 444 |
| 6 | Best way by far to get what you want is to simply spend time around it.
You can be the most autistic guy alive, but if youâre around beautiful women every day, you will bang a few by happenstance.
Same goes the other way.
Spend enough time around fuck ups and you will be snorting powder off some guyâs balls before you know what hit you. | 510 |
| 7 | literally cannot stress this enough, but...
Only get into relationships with women you can replace.
Have sex with them though.
If you canât buy something 2-3 times, then you canât afford it.
You can rent that Ferrari for the day, but donât buy it.
Same applies to women. | 533 |
| 8 |  Yo if u havenât joined my substack.
You should join now cos Iâm there most times and I drop my long form post there on attraction and dating
Manofstxxx.substack.com | 531 |
| 9 | Every day you and your loved ones have your health and freedom is a good fucking day.
With those two, anything is possible.
Neither is guaranteed, no matter how carefully you live your life. | 454 |
| 10 | Thereâs something about a woman posting her boyfriend or husband, that just makes him look weak.
Theyâll usually pick a picture of him in his most domesticated form.
Either him in an apron, baking with a smile on his face.
Or him in some pajamas looking like a complete idiot. Women rarely post a badass picture of their man.
Itâs almost like they want to show the world how theyâve successfully tamed a beast.
Theyâll post a selfie they took together with him with a goofie Snapchat filter on his face.
Or post him attempting some dumb internet dance. My friendâs girl posted a video of  him cleaning the windows in their house on her IG story.
And captioned it âa handy man â€ïžâ
I couldnât believe it.
They rarely post anything with you looking sexy.
They rather post something where you look tamed.
DO NOT BE A VICTIM OF THIS | 489 |
| 11 | Happy new month.
Five months to go
Make it count! | 512 |
| 12 | literally cannot stress this enough, but...
Only get into relationships with women you can replace.
Have sex with them though.
If you canât buy something 2-3 times, then you canât afford it.
You can rent that Ferrari for the day, but donât buy it.
Same applies to women. | 536 |
| 13 | Just because some of you dudes want to prove that you can take a joke, you end up tolerating disrespectful remarks from women.
Disrespect that comes in the form of a joke, is still disrespect.
Just because she said it with a humorous tone, that doesnât change anything. | 608 |
| 14 | Having manners isnât just about knowing where to place your fork and knife.
Itâs also about putting people at ease.
Making people with different beliefs, cultures, backgrounds, enjoy spending time with you.
Being insufferable gets you no where.
Be a joy to be around. | 619 |
| 15 | If it ever gets to the point where you have to discuss sex with your woman, itâs time to leave.
Sex is how desire, lust, and emotions are communicated.
You donât need to talk about it.
If sheâs not sleeping with you, thatâs the message.
Donât bother talking about it | 565 |
| 16 | The crazy and borderline supernatural thing with doomer beliefs is that guys believe them so passionately they become self fulfilling prophecies.
Their eyes only perceive the confirmation bias. They unconsciously gravitate to situations where that belief is most likely to be reflected.
It is actually insane. It is like an artificial reality headset.
Like if a guy is neurotically obsessed and hung up on the whole height and money thing he will become blind to anyone that likes him, it is as if they do not even exist, he cannot even see them. Can only perceive what confirms the current belief system.
Even if he sparks some interest he will unconsciously behave in a way that sabotages it to confirm the belief and make it real.
Like how people project old baggage onto new people they meet to recreate the same past outcomes to then attribute it to yet another confirmation in their belief system.
âMen are trashâ
âWomen are trashâ
Etc
This is why you cannot take any of this doomer trash seriously. People conflate their personal reality for the reality.
Fun person: wow people are so nice.
Grouchy person: wow people are so mean.
Which is true? Both and neither. Depends on the person, the context. | 638 |
| 17 | There are 2 main reasons why high achieving, professionally successful men are frustrated with dating
1. You want a unicorn girlfriend or wife
2. But you arenât running anywhere close to the right volume to make this happen in any reasonable time frame
You are especially open to this as a high achiever who has an intense career because you have very limited time to meet women
You have to grasp that if you want to find your unicorn ride or die girl
It is going to require you to seriously load the top of your funnel
As in anywhere from 6-12 new phone numbers per week type of loadingâŠ.
Otherwise youâll just be hoping and praying that the Gods decide to drop this perfect woman in your lap
This is something as a high achieving man, Iâd imagine you donât wantâŠ.
You only accept the best of the best âŠ.
Youâre kicking ass in your career from all the hard, focused, strategic effort youâve put into it
Finding your dream girl requires a similar high level STRATEGY to put yourself in the best position to meet her
You will be tempted to go to matchmaking for this
On paper it sounds great âŠ.
âIâll just skip the hassles of dating by paying heaps of money to meet my dream girl. Efficency đâ
Well as someone who has been mastering dating and male female romantic/sexual dynamics for over a decade
I can confidently tell you that chemistry is ANYTHING but checklists on a requirement sheet (which is what matchmaking is based on of course)
The amount of times people have ended up dating those who were NOTHING like their described type âŠ.
Itâs a tale as old as timeâŠ.
So matchmaking while tempting, is NOT the way
Instead hereâs what to do in order to max the top of your funnel in the most efficient way possible
1. Get a professional photoshoot that maximizes style and presentation so you can show your best self online - this will print matches on the dating apps
2. Cold approach any hot girl you see in your day to day life
This is the formula that all of my busy professional clients use to maximize the top of their funnel so they can QUICKLY meet the women of their dreams
Even if you do nothing else as far as any other game strategies or dating skills go , at LEAST you can likely stumble into some success
But if you want the absolute best of the best dream dating life
Youâll also want to learn the following (But not limited to)
-Master efficient texting
-Learn how to talk to women and connect with them
-Understand how to flirt, arouse, turn them on
-Know how to handle objections and concerns
-Tell the two in #5 apart
-Know how to screen so you find girls who like you for YOU and are not in agenda mercenary mode
-Understand and be clear on your dating goals and intentions so you can lead the interactions properly
and so onâŠ
Even if youâre a guy whoâs rich and successful and open to gold diggers
Lead with wealth = women more likely to use you
Lead with game and maxed presentation = women like you for you
And trust me, itâs a LOT better this wayâŠ.
This is the full way to put your dating life progression on absolute thermonuclear rocket fuel
And yields the results of a dating life that only most men would ever even DREAM of
Itâs also extremely time efficient
Which of course is something you value as a busy, successful man
Time efficiency + top tier results = problem solved for life | 436 |
| 18 | If You're Tired of Pretending You Don't Care
You know the cycle.
You see someone you like. You hesitate. You tell yourself you're "not thirsty."
Then you watch her walk away and spend the next hour replaying what you should've said.
Or worse, you approach. It gets awkward. You fumble for words. You leave without a number, convincing yourself she was boring anyway.
Stop lying to yourself.
You do care.
You just don't have a system.
This book isn't motivation.
It's mechanics.
Five problems. Five solutions.
1) Approaching confidently
You're nervous. That's fine. You'll learn the exact opener that works whether she's interested or not so rejection stings for 2 seconds instead of 2 days.
2) Getting her contact details
Not a "trick." Just a low-friction way to exchange info that doesn't feel like an interview or a sales pitch. She'll actually want to hear from you.
3) Taking her on a fun date
Dinner is a trap. Coffee is a job interview. Three date templates that build chemistry instead of boredom, tested, not theoretical.
4) Escalating to the sheets
This is where most advice gets vague or creepy. This chapter is neither. Just the logical, calibrated steps from touch to alone time.
5) Seeing one or many at a time
Want exclusivity? Fine. Want to date around without lying? Also fine. The exact language to keep things honest so you don't become the guy women warn each other about.
Why you should believe any of this
You shouldn't. Not yet.
I've failed a lot. Maybe more than you, maybe less. Enough to learn. Enough to write it down so you don't have to repeat the same stupid mistakes.
This isn't written by a natural. It's written by someone who had to earn every lesson the hard way.
What this isn't
- No fake screenshots of women begging for you
- No pickup lines that work 1% of the time
- No promises that you'll be drowning in options by Tuesday
If you want magic pills, donât buy it.
What this actually is
A long, useful, unpolished book. Read it. Apply one thing the next day. See what happens.
If nothing changes, you lost an hour and the price of a sandwich.
If something changes? You just saved yourself years of guessing.
Click here to read the book
Buy it. Don't buy it. I don't need to fake urgency.
But if you keep doing what you've been doing, you'll keep getting what you've been getting and you already know what that looks like. | 445 |
| 19 | Thereâs a reason rich dudes PAY to have entourages of all DUDES vs be surrounded by like 20 hot girls.
They get it. Every good wing who is invested in your success like itâs his own is worth ~50 girls.
Iâve got my best friends laid >50 times and him the same for me.
Sadly, most guys are terrible wings. Theyâll either try to low crawl your girl or as soon as they see thereâs nothing in it for them that night, they quit, take all their toys, and go home.
A good trained wing should get you laid more than you can yourself. Heâs a superpower
A good player has a lot of notches.
An elite player has a lot of ASSISTS. He gets his guys laid and lets them bat way above their league.
His struggle isnât getting laid, itâs keeping his guys from going đ mode on the first hottie and peacing out to go play house with her | 328 |
| 20 | The #1 sin in game is âqualifying ourselfâ
That is any action we secretly did to change another personâs opinion of us or our worldview.
Ironically, also trying to convince people we donât care what others think of us.
Its what women test for but most guys fail before she tests
This muscle gets weaker the more we do it.
We canât go from flashing cash on IG, arguing on twitter, getting ripped only to impress girlsâŠ.then expect to pass her tests in a club.
We canât live the life of a seller and then suddenly and congruently act like weâre the buyer
The opposite of qualifying ourselves is expression.
In qualifying, we try to âsteerâ their reaction to how we want them to react.
In expression, we donât âsteerâ it that is we give freedom to react âbadâ. Send it and let the chips fall
This creates trust and makes them receptive
When I talk about projection, I mean a state of expression where you are pre-emptively doing things that âdareâ people to judge you and react badlyâŠ. not as a tactic but because the happy feeling in you is so strong.
This creates massive trust in the whole club and rockstar status | 314 |
