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I met this lady in snap roughly a month and some weeks ago. She told me she was single, so was I. We texted for days,weeks and we got to like each other. I asked her out and she agreed. A lot happened so quick because I could we enjoy each other's company and from nowhere she changed after I told her of my ethnicity. Told her I'm an Ewe and she's an Akan and that changed everything. I thought these stereotypes and tribalism were all just a thing in the past until it happened to me. Told her since it's a problem for her, we should simply break up which she refused, saying we should hold on a little longer to see what fate holds for us. But honestly, I feel it won't get any better because she has changed completely and I'm beginning to lose interest. Now my worry is, why not agree that we break up and move on with our lives than to tell me to hold on and see a complete stranger in someone whom made it looked like we knew each other in our previous lives.

‎I’m not here for advice ,I just need to get something off my chest. It’s about my girlfriend well, my ex. I ruined my own relationship. ‎We actually had a perfect relationship. My girl was pretty , really pretty. Tall, curvy, intelligent, funny… everything any man would want in a woman. The first time we met, I even thought she’d snub me because she had this straight face on. Somehow I managed to get her contact, and when we started talking, I realized there was so much more to her than just her beauty. ‎She never made things difficult. She never played hard to get. She matched my energy effortlessly. Fast forward , we started dating. ‎When I met her, she was still in nursing school. I’m not the type who wakes up early, so I wasn’t the one texting good morning or checking in. Instead, I’d wake up to her messages: telling me her plans for the day, who she’d be with, what time she’d close from class. She’d call in the afternoon to ask how work was going, ask if I’d eaten, and she’d call me again when I closed from work. She was caring, present and steady. ‎She was always there when I needed her. When we got together, the only thing I really spent money on was food because she was a foodie. She never asked me for money ,not once but I still gave her something once in a while. I never bought her gifts either, but she still showed me love like I gave her the world. A month with her changed the stereotype I had about nurses being unfaithful. She was loyal. ‎Then I messed everything up. ‎Because of our relationship, I started spending less time with my friends, and they didn’t like it. They started talking, saying my girl was too clingy, and like a fool, I listened. Those same friends are no longer even in my life, but it was their voices I let get into my head. ‎I started seeing her less. I began cancelling our plans. I knew she was hurt, but I convinced myself she loved me more than I loved her, so she’d always stay. I let my friends influence me so much that I started ghosting her , ignoring calls, leaving messages on read. And anytime I came back to apologize, she forgave me. ‎I thought I had everything under control. I even ghosted her on our anniversary. Didn’t talk to her for a whole week, but I was active on socials like nothing was wrong. She broke up with me two weeks later. I apologized, and she took me back again. ‎Then I went a whole month without seeing her, without giving her anything. Still, she never complained. All she asked was whether I was okay… if something was bothering me. ‎Then she lost someone important to her. ‎And I wasn’t there. I didn’t console her. I didn’t show up. That was the final blow. ‎She broke up with me again… and this time, she blocked me everywhere. But I know she’s on Jodel. ‎Without her, I’m not who I used to be. She made life peaceful for me. I used to think the relationship was boring, but now I realize it wasn’t boredom , it was peace. And I miss that peace. I miss her. ‎Abena, I know you’re here, and I know you’re reading this. ‎I just want to say I’m sorry. You don’t have to forgive me. I know I don't deserve you. ‎But please… give me a chance to speak to you. I beg you.

Good morning admi.. I'm really in a hot soup right now and I'm always having a sleepless nights. I've messed up all my life being in dept working in this current job I am in. And now this is the time to get a new life.. my big brother ( a teacher) has a link for me to work outside. He said it's an available job so the company will do the visa processing for me, and I agree. But now I don't how to sort this dept before I leave, I called some friends to help with a loan but no positive answer. I don't want to tell brother too because they've been asking how's my work and I've been telling them everything is ok while it's not. I've not taken salary this whole 7 months trying to pay. Last week I went to do my travelling passport and which will be ready by next week. I don't want to leave here with this dept, this my boss would just spread my name and I can't face this embarrassment, that why my friend suggested I sign payment agreement with him before I leave but I said No. I can sign it with a different person but not my boss. This is the saddest and the biggest problem I'm facing in my life now🙇😣. Y'all please I need help. I can't face this embarrassment. Please Any kind of help🙏, being a loan. Admi please help me post and to any other platform that I can get a help.

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Legendary Ghanaian gospel musician Maame Tiwaa, known for her work with the Yaw Sarpong & Asomafo band, has been confirmed dead in the early hours of Sunday, December 7, 2025.

My uncle raped me when I was living with after after my parents demise. I swear I cried to bed every night , because he came almost every night to do that . I had no place to go because he had promised me of a better education path. They never even thought of that , when I asked questions about my schooling it was insults and threats I got. God being so good I got a helper from my church of worship who took me through school. Today this same uncle has gotten stroke and I am the nurse placed to cater for him , the fear in his eyes when he sees me heals my trauma everytime . Yesterday I busted his ass with syringes , practically stabbing his ass with my syringe. I don't regret at all. This might sound disgusting but I'll push his urine down his throat

Ladies develop automatic love for you when you have a car. True or false?😃

Ladies develop automatic love for you when you have a car.

Please hear me out on this , I know it's not very appropriate but I've lost 3 friends . 2 males and one female . The guys (27 and 28) and the lady (25 yrs). But before that guys if you ever get pregnant or you get somebody pregnant please don't abort the child. I know times are very hard but leaving this world without your replacement is baad. My guy who was 28 died last two months leaving a pregnant lady behind with his child , his parents were not in support of it at all. We met as guys to speak about it which I told him not to abort that child because of his parents and besides he was working. Now that he's dead come and see how they are pampering the girl because that child is our only hope to seeing our brother again. 😭😭 For my lady friend she was the only child too , but an illness killed her now I look around and I don't see anybody 😭😭 We we're praying for long life , now they are gone just like that . I'm shattered

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I really need some relationship advice. Back in Level 100, I became close friends with a girl in my hostel. Over time, she started spending nights in my room, and it became a routine for us to cuddle before she could fall asleep. We grew very close. About six months in, I realized I had developed strong feelings for her. When I finally told her, she replied, “We can’t date.” I expected things to change after that, but surprisingly, they didn’t. Everything continued as if nothing happened—we stayed just as close, and now we’re in Level 200. At some point, I tried to create a little distance for my own peace of mind. I even changed hostels, hoping it would help me move on. But not long after, she also moved to the same hostel. So once again, we’re back to being close, and the feelings I’m trying to let go of keep coming back stronger. The friendship doesn’t feel like it’s at risk—but my emotions are still very much involved. How do I let go of my feelings for someone who’s still so present and emotionally connected to me, even though she doesn’t want a relationship? Has anyone else dealt with something like this?

Post this for me Admin I am an SHS graduate,just this year So I've always been the kind who does believe love story s**t.Sake of work being slow and being bored always I decided to try this your so called  love and see how it ends for me Well it ended up awfully with all the girls but am cool with them tho until I met this girl who happens to be me bestie's mate from the same school So we've been dating for about 9 month now and I've seen her once,the rest is mostly calls (both voice and video) I knew most girls by now are all into that s** chat and thing but she never showed any attitude of being that type so I didn't try to involve that in our conversation I mean she is that innocent God fearing girl which I find it really good because she is not a bad girl who accepts all guys proposal so I think I was lucky I got addicted to her,oh we've talking talking mostly about our future and other things,I always test her whit this statement "I wish you were here with me right now" and she will be like I shouldn't worry na the right time will come...I was thinking it's just a constant reply for that statement  Fast forward to this last Tuesday when my bestie informed me that they are no longer friends and I asked her why,she didn't want to tell me so I pleaded and that's when she reveal some things I wasn't expecting to hear...that girl I think she is God fearing and discipline herself no,that same girl is an alte baddie in school and even has sugar daddy who has done family planning sake of she can't abstain from s** Well I'll be going to see her once she also complete school, should I confront her or just shun and do her as all guys do ladies??

Keep me anonymous. I have this friend that has been very lucky. She met this couple at one of our girls hangout making out in their car. Well that is what she told me about how she met them. Apparently this couple are into weird sexual fantasies. The signed a 2 years contract with her that money is not going to be her problem as long has she fucks with them. They normally call her home mostly weekends for some crazy fantasy like the wife watching the husband fuck her and stuff like that. She said sometimes the wife will join in eating her P***y like her life depends on it. Recently their sons (2) have joined in with more crazy stuff that she wasn’t feeling comfortable about it at first. They normally do a role play, they script what they want to do for the weekend, either the children are going to tie the parents up for that punishment kind of thing ( like watch us do it with your daughter style ) and all that. Sometimes it’s a gangbang, they will all take turns with her. Now my friend is saying she doesn’t feel the same way when she has sex with one person again. She likes this crazy family’s way of sex than the normal way. And she always comes back from their place with even crazier stories. Plus extra money Now she is doing very well for herself and she is only 25 years old. And with all the stories I have been hearing, I want the family for myself. I want to get to experience my fantasies plus free money. In a space where no one is going to judge you. But my friend is refusing to introduce me to the family 😭😭😭😭

Hello keep me anonymous. I've been a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 years now. I've tried to do everything for her and treat her well (equal treatment), but she doesn't appreciate it at all. She's emotionally Unavailable, I've tried to have open conversations with her severally, she's always on her phone and she picks my phone, blocks and delete my female friends who constantly calls me everyday to check on me, because she doesn't check on me regularly except she wants something from me and so my female friends do check me on instead, also I can tap her phone but I decided not to. Now here's the problem, so many guys are giving her attention and she have time for them, also we are currently planning to marry soon. However she doesn't respect me, understand my feelings, she doesn't care at all, most times I do the house chores cus I work from home, but she cook few times in week and laundry once in week. What she earns in a Month I earn twice every two weeks, due to that I take care of everything that involves money in the relationship and she's not being supportive in anything at all. Now I'm losing it cus I'm just so tired of someone who doesn't reciprocate the love I give her. I'll be in the comment section.

Keep me anonymous boss. Hi everyone,I don't know something has been traumatizing me since like 4 or 5years ago. The thing is about my former boss I learned work from him that time ,I started going to his side in 2020,i started normal as a apprentice and everything is going better till something just happen suddenly,my school friend saw me that time and came to start the work because of me that time sha. To cut the story short, fast forward to like 1yrs or 2yrs later I noticed that everything I do for this man he usually complain about it maybe if he send me on errand or we are working.Though if I don't want to lie also am also a low gainer like I don't quickly grab something or gain knowledge quickly on my head and everytime he explains something and I don't quickly get it he will shout at me or even abuse me about it that am not okay or something like that and that kind of thing affect me most of the time, that's even bcos am kind of person that don't like problem and easy going , most of the time I will just go somewhere and started crying about it and since that time ave been wanting to stop going to his side but I can't make the decision because of my parents and my low confidence to him. So later I forget about all his behavior and still managing it like that even accept his as my destiny, so fast forward to 2023, before this year self I noticed something that he don dey show favoritism among us(apprentice) , he has choose my friend as his favorite apprentice and neglected me out of the gangs, everytime I do something for him he will just abuse me and face that my friend,to the extent that if that my friend do something bad for him he will not scold him or do anything for him, though that time I didn't give a fuck about it and just thinking and praying make God let me out of his side,cos he don dey be like I was always the bad guy in their gang. So back to early 2023, January that time he is not around and he ask we apprentice to go and do some work for him though the work is his family work and we sha did the half of the work before he came back .The moment he came back he firstly scold me and abuse about my own side of the work I accept my mistake and didn't talk ,the last one he did that pained me the most is when he told me to bring something for him and I did,but bcos he usually scold me for eveything,he didn't check what I brought for him that time which is the original what he told me to bring,he shouted at me angrily to bring the thing I quickly rush back to bring in the presence of fear I didn't also even bothered to check it also,later when I get back I check the thing and remembered this is the first thing I brought to you earlier nah.. omoh I firstly get sad that day and to the extent that I wept for like 1hrs thinking did I really deserve all of this.Later that night I made up my mind that I will not resume back to the boss forever and it literally came true for me cos since that time I didn't return back to his work and no p again. But the problem now is that sine that time everytime I see him anywhere, fear always catch me and I will just be afraiding of him straight away even without touching me , just glance at him or I just remember his face on my head I will just get afraid straight away . Please guys ave tried everything to forget this incident and the memories but It just getting worser,if I just try to remember anything tears can just be rolling down my face .I don't why it is me this is happening to, though me and him saw each other upper last week and he stopped to greet me and I greeted him also,but that doesn't kill the fear because everytime I saw my friend on his bike , I will just feel sad about everything. I just want advice on what to do and how I can get this fear off my mind..

Eerm please as this question for me, especially to the girls…. Is it that men shouldn’t have emotions, or men are not suppose to have emotions?? A guy offends a lady and apologizes, but the lady can drag the issue for days even tho the guy has apologized, so the guy would somehow apologize till the girl is okay….but a lady offends a guy and when she apologizes, expects the guy to drop everything at once even tho he’s hurt like he’s not supposed to show his emotions or he doesn’t have emotions mpo…. Ladies why do you act that way…

I shouldn't have done this but it's already been done so I need you guys advise on what to do. My ex married someone else whiles I though we were going to be forever . Some guy swooped her with money in my face so I took my L and moved on after their marriage . I was trolled by the guy and my friends who knew my story but I just maintain steez. 3 months time I' saw her in town but I just used another road because of the pain I went through and this werey stupidly started following me asking me to just wait so she apologizes. 3 days times she's in my room undressing to dress . I don't like her , I'm using her but I'm also not happy with it because she's a married woman but the same time it's the same guy that trolled me , called me broke after snatching her . Up till now some friends laugh at me and Ive also not been able to move on , it's like a demon in me now. Sometimes I feel like just dropping them one nasty snap eating her but I hold back. Please if anyone has experienced something like this help me

Legendary Ghanaian highlife singer and songwriter Charles Kwadwo Fosu popular known as Daddy Lumba is dead 😔😔

My wife and I have been together 9 years. Married for 6 years. She is kind, loyal, sweet, smart. She loves me deeply, and she believes we were destined to meet. I treat her well. I've never cheated. We laugh together. On paper, we're perfect. But if I'm being honest? I've never been in love with her. I cared about her, yes. But I was heartbroken when we met. She came into my life when I needed stability and comfort, and I mistook that for love. I kept thinking it would grow. It never did. Now we're in our 30s. We talk about kids. She looks at me like I'm the best thing that ever happened to her, and I feel like a fraud. I don't want to hurt her. I don't want to blow up both our lives. But every night I lie awake, feeling like I stole the future of someone who could've had real, epic love. And I don't think I'll ever forgive myself for it.

I hope you’re doing well. I’m writing to lodge a serious complaint about a member of this channel who I believe is using the platform to emotionally manipulate and financially exploit others. About a month ago, I replied to someone’s post here, and shortly after, a lady DM’d me privately, claiming to be apologizing on the guy’s behalf. She later mentioned she had closed from work and didn’t have money for transport, so I helped her with 20 cedis. We chatted for a day or two and then stopped talking. Just this past Sunday, she came into my DMs again, this time calling me romantic names as if we were dating (which we’re not). She later asked for 20 cedis for airtime, which I gave. Then on Monday, she begged again and I sent another 20 cedis. Today (Thursday), she contacted me again, this time saying her sister is in school and she needs 50 cedis to help her. I told her I am a student and cannot keep spending my monthly stipend on someone I barely know, but she’s been calling me non-stop since. I strongly believe this person is taking advantage of people’s kindness, pretending to form a bond just to ask for money. This behavior goes against the supportive and helpful purpose of this channel, and I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s experienced this. I’m reporting this so action can be taken to prevent others from falling into the same trap. Thanks for your time and attention.