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How to Stop Taking Things Personally 🌟 Ever wondered why some people seem unaffected by criticism while others get deeply hurt? 🙋 What does it mean to take things personally? When we take things personally, we internalize negative comments or actions, feeling like they attack our identity. For example, if someone says "It's not you, it's me" during a breakup, we might think, "What did I do wrong?" Instead of seeing the real issue, we blame ourselves. 🤔 Why do narcissists take everything personally? Narcissists can't separate their actions from their identity. If you criticize a narcissist for being drunk, they don't see the problem as their drinking but as a personal attack. They play the victim and never change their behavior. 💡 How can we stop taking things personally? 1. See through others' eyes: Practice empathy. Try to understand what specific behavior or words might be bothering the other person. 2. Separate identity from behavior: If you fail an interview, don't think, "I'm a failure." Instead, consider, "I need to improve my skills." 🛠 What's the actionable step? Whenever you feel attacked, ask yourself: - What behavior is being criticized? - How can I improve that specific action? 🎯 Examples to practice - Feedback on work: If your boss says your report needs improvement, focus on the report, not on your abilities as a person. - Relationship issues: If someone says you're not attentive, think about specific ways to show more attention, rather than feeling inadequate. By focusing on behaviors and not internalizing criticism, you can improve relationships and self-esteem. It’s all about shifting your perspective and taking constructive action. Remember, the key is to understand that criticism is often about specific actions, not about you as a person. Practice empathy, focus on behaviors, and take actionable steps to improvement. © Motivational https://t.me/Alif_Mindset

1. Never stop learning: Like Leonardo da Vinci, who never ceased exploring from art to science, proving that perpetual curiosity can redefine the world. https://t.me/Alif_Mindset 2. See failure as a beginning: Like Thomas Edison’s numerous failed attempts before perfecting the light bulb, demonstrating that each failure lights the path to success. https://t.me/Alif_Mindset

በጅግጅጋ የእንስሳት መኖ ማምረቻ ፋብሪካ ተመርቆ ለአገልግሎት ክፍት ሆነ አዲስ አበባ፣ ሰኔ 14፣ 2016 (ኤፍ ቢ ሲ) በሶማሌ ክልል ጅግጅጋ ከተማ የተገነባው የእንስሳት መኖ ማምረቻ ፋብሪካ ተመርቆ ለአገልግሎት ክፍት ተደርጓል፡፡ ፋብሪካውን በኢትዮጵያ የአሜሪካ ተራድኦ ድርጅት ዋና ዳይሬክተር እስኮት ሆክላንደር እና የሶማሌ ክልል ርዕሰ መስተዳደር ጽህፈት ቤት ምክትል ሃላፊ አቶ ኡመር ፋሩቅ መርቀው ከፍተዋል፡፡ በኢትዮጵያ የአሜሪካ ተራድኦ ድርጅት በተገኘ የገንዘብ ድጋፍ በክልሉ ተወላጅ… https://www.fanabc.com/archives/250657

በአውሮፓ ዋንጫ ፈረንሳይ እና ኔዘርላድስ የሚያደርጉት ጨዋታ ይጠበቃል አዲስ አበባ፣ ሰኔ 14፣ 2016 (ኤፍ ቢ ሲ) በዛሬው ዕለት በ17ኛው የአውሮፓ ዋንጫ ሁለተኛው ዙር የምድብ ማጣሪያ መርሐ ግብር ሶስት ጨዋታዎች ይደረጋሉ፡፡ በዚህ መሰረትም በምድብ አራት የሚገኙት ፈረንሳይ እና ኔዘርላድስ ምሽት 4 ሰዓት ላይ የሚያደርጉት ጨዋታ ይጠበቃል፡፡ በመጀመሪያው የምድብ ማጣሪያ ጨዋታ ፈረንሳይ ኦስትሪያን 1 ለ 0 እንዲሁም ኔዘርላንድስ ፖላንድን 2 ለ 1 በሆነ… https://www.fanabc.com/archives/250653

The Life Reality #2 የ ሕይወት እውነታ #2 حقيقة الحيات #٢ A dream doesn't become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work. ፣ ሕልሞች በተዓምር ወይም በድግምት እውን አይሆኑም; በላብ, በቁርጠኝነት እና በትጋት እንጂ ! الحلم لا يصبح حقيقة من خلال السحر. بل إنه سيهتاج إلا العرق والتصميم والعمل الجاد.! @Alif_Mindset

Fact: Sleep:- 2👉 Sleep Deprivation Can Be Deadly. People can survive much longer without food than they can without sleep. So if you ever need to choose between eating and getting some rest, you’ll want to go with the latter. 3. 👉Falling Asleep Usually Takes Between 10 and 20 Minutes When you lay down for the night, it should take less than twenty minutes to completely fall asleep. But if you find yourself dozing off in less than five minutes, that could mean you are sleep-deprived. https://t.me/Alif_Mindset

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