Dating Code

Fight the temptation to always call or text them

Don't get married to just anyone

Ask yourself What's their attraction level towards me? Don't date blindly without paying attention to signs and signals

Normalise, ignoring people who won't give you the time of the day

If you focus all your attention on a relationship, the other areas of your life where you should be improving will become stagnant And too much attention on a relationship will kill the space for the relationship to grow

Telling someone "I like you" "I love you" Will not make feel the same way They have to feel it first Build attraction and interest first

People with strong character and mindset don't complain and blame others They fix things and find solutions They look for solutions Develop that mindset

Someone will like a guy, but the guy won't be as interested And there will be another guy that is highly interested in her, giving her attention and care She will later settle for that one because he is pushing for a relationship and something serious even though she doesn't like him As a guy, you don't want women to settle for you In order to do that, you must not show high interest and willingness to be in a relationship with a woman without getting her to like you first Get her to like you Make her be the one that wants the relationship more than you You act afford to be with someone that settled for you because you were pushing things, they will not properly love you because they are not feeling you

What do you do when the red flags are looking green ?

If someone created a space, maintain the space they created Don't try to close it up

You know you are wasting your time and resources when you are spending it on someone who doesn't care about you

If someone is not showing interest in you, you are not going to try harder You are going to take a step back

You can't make your relationship healthy when you don't know what to do

Inconsistency is not a sign that someone values you Open your eyes Stop deceiving yourself

When someone loves, they can't fake it They will shower you with love and attention

It is important to date properly if you don't want to be surprised down the line