LOGAN DUONG

Got this in my DMs today. "Bro, do you pay these models to come to your parties?" No. And that question tells me more about you than it ever will about me. When a man cannot picture hundreds of beautiful women choosing to be in a room, the only explanation his brain will produce is a transaction. That is not analysis. That is a confession. Here is the part you are missing. Paying women would ruin the entire night. The energy dies the second it becomes a job. Everyone standing around watching the clock, doing the bare minimum, waiting to get paid and leave. You can feel that in a room within ten seconds. It is the difference between a party and a job site. What you are seeing in my videos is women who want to be there. That is the only thing that makes it fun, and it is the only thing that cannot be bought. Once you actually understand women, the thought of paying for them never crosses your mind again. Not because it is beneath you. Because you finally see how unnecessary it is. I came out of the Marine Corps understanding one thing clearly. The environment makes the man, and the man makes the environment. Nobody paid me to be worth being around. I built the room, then I became the reason people stay in it. And I do not keep that to myself. Inside Dating Mastery I teach my clients how to throw their own events, fill them with women for free, and in a lot of cases walk away having made money off the night instead of spending a dollar on it. Guys who six months ago could not get a girl to reply are now the reason a hundred people have plans on a Saturday. That skill does not come from a budget. It comes from reconditioning the patterns running underneath your behavior. The scarcity. The chasing. The quiet belief that you have to buy what other men are given. So if you are still asking who paid for the room, you are not ready to walk into it yet. When you are done explaining away other men's lives and ready to build your own, that is exactly what The Dating Mastery Mentorship exists for.

He joined the coaching group a few years back and now he’s crushing it. Love to see my Asian brothas killing it. 😎 Mindset is 🔑 to everything. The man who says he can and the man who says he can’t are both RIGHT.

Every stat says I should be losing. I'm not. Let's do the math on me. Five foot seven. Half Vietnamese. Raised nowhere near money. Every dating study, every swipe algorithm, every comment section on the internet agrees on one thing: I am not supposed to be good with women. The numbers are brutal. Asian men sit at the bottom of every response-rate chart ever published. Under six feet is a filter women openly brag about using. Put those together and I'm the guy the data says stays home. And yet… I've dated women most men only see on a screen. I've walked into invite-only rooms full of entrepreneurs and models and left with numbers and deals. I did not get taller. I did not change my race. I did not wake up rich. So what actually changed? I stopped accepting the verdict. Here's what nobody tells you. Those stats measure men who already believe them. Ask a 5'7" Asian guy to open a woman across the room and watch what happens in his body first. The shoulders drop. The voice goes soft. He apologizes with his posture before he says a word. She doesn't reject his height. She rejects the flinch. That flinch is not a fact about you. It's a program. Your subconscious ran the numbers once, decided the conclusion, and now it runs your behavior in every room you walk into. You think you're being realistic. You're being obedient. I know because I lived in that program for years. I blamed genetics while my own nervous system was doing the rejecting for her. Rewiring that is the whole game. Not pickup lines. Not looksmaxxing. Not waiting to get rich first. Reconditioning the belief underneath, so your body stops apologizing for existing and your presence does the talking. Here's the part that should make you angry in a good way. If a short Asian guy with no money can do this, your excuse just died. Whatever you've been blaming, it is smaller than what I was handed. You are not disqualified. You are programmed. Two roads. Keep being right about why it can't work for you. Or find out who you are without the program running. That's exactly why my dating mentorship runs on Subconscious Reconditioning. We pull the belief out at the root so you stop performing the rejection before she ever gets a chance to give you one.

My friend threw a party for his company. Invite only. Entrepreneurs, influencers, Victoria's Secret models, and the hottest girls in LA. I walked out with two lessons that most men will never learn because they're sitting at home "working on themselves." Lesson one. Every girl I already knew in that room raised my value with everyone else in it. She says hi, hugs me, laughs at something. Now every guy and every girl watching has a data point: he's known here. That's social proof, and it compounds every time you show up. And every new girl I met? She already had proof too. She got through the door. Nobody in that room was random. A tight network filters for you, so the quality is built in before you ever say a word. That's the game. Not cold approaching in a bar full of strangers. Being the man who's inside the room. Lesson two. By Sunday I had business owners messaging me wanting my help. Business owners asking how to work with me. I didn't pitch anyone. I showed up as a man with a life, told my story to the right people, and the deals came to me. Same room. Women AND money. Because status doesn't split by category. It's one signal, and it's read by everyone. Now here's the hard part. Most men reading this haven't been in a room like that in years. Not because they weren't invited. Because their subconscious decided a long time ago they don't belong there. They call it "not my scene." It's scarcity. And scarcity keeps you home, alone, wondering why nothing changes. You don't get invited to rooms like that by accident. You become the kind of man people WANT in the room. That's what I rebuild.

She never stopped looking. You did… The day she said yes, she didn't close her options. She filed them. The gym guy. The coworker who "gets her." The DMs she never answers but never deletes. She's not planning to leave. She doesn't have to. Her subconscious runs the audit for her, every day: is this still the best man I can get? And you? You got the girl and retired. Stopped building. Stopped having somewhere to be. You called it commitment. It's a bet you placed and stopped watching. Would she coast like that with her dream crush? FUCK NO. So why do you get to? Two kinds of men in relationships… One thinks forever is a given. He gets softer, needier, easier to replace. Then she "needs space" and he's in my DMs asking what changed. Nothing changed. She finished the audit. The other knows the game never ended. He keeps his life, his standards, his edge. He stays a man women would want. Not because he's shopping. Because that's the only thing that keeps the woman he chose choosing him. That's playing the same game. Never becoming the only option you have. Forever isn't a promise she made. It's a position you’re currently in. This is what we rewire inside Phase 2 of Dating Mastery. Scarcity out, abundance in, so you stop losing women you already have. Reply OPTIONS and I'll send the details @coachloganduong

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Men will choose to listen to a woman before they listen to my dating advice. They can see my lifestyle with women, the proof, the success of other clients, but still choose a girl they’ve known for a few weeks over tested wisdom. And honestly, I understand why. When a man is emotionally attached, he doesn’t want the truth. He wants validation. He wants someone to tell him that his situation is different. That she really does love him. That he just needs to communicate more. That if he gives her more attention, more reassurance, more commitment, she’ll finally give him what he wants. But the woman he’s listening to has never had to build the life he wants. She doesn’t have the perspective of a man who has already made the mistakes he’s about to make. And that’s the entire point of having a mentor. You don’t hire a coach because they know everything. You hire them because they’ve already been where you’re trying to go. A man who ignores tested wisdom because a woman he met three weeks ago disagrees with it isn’t thinking independently. He’s letting his emotions override his judgment. And this is why so many men stay stuck. They would rather protect their relationship with one woman than protect their future. The strongest men I’ve coached eventually learn this: Listen to everyone. But give the most weight to people whose results prove they understand the game. Your feelings can tell you what you want. They cannot always tell you what is true.

Always be willing to walk away from your girlfriend or wife. I don’t care if she’s the mother of your kids, known her for 5+ years, or is the hottest girl on this earth. If women sense you’re not willing to leave them or if she has no fear of losing you, she’ll always do the things you don’t want her doing. Fear of losing you + your willingness to walk away whenever = the best behavior from your girl.

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Everything is high risk if you’re a pussy

A lot of guys think heartbreak, rejection, and failure are things they need to avoid. They get hurt once, then become afraid to put themselves back out there because they don’t want to experience that pain again. But that’s exactly what makes you better. I don’t trust the guy who’s been married his entire life and has never experienced heartbreak. I trust the guy who’s been heartbroken, rejected, embarrassed, and humbled in every way, but still has the confidence to approach, connect, love, and put himself out there again. It’s the same with business. Any real entrepreneur who’s been in the game long enough has lost money, made terrible decisions, trusted the wrong people, or gotten completely fucked over. That’s part of the path. The path isn’t supposed to be pretty. You don’t become resilient by avoiding pain. You become resilient by experiencing it and realizing you can handle it. So don’t let your last rejection, breakup, or failure convince you to stop playing the game. Let it make you better at it.

Same applies to dating. Every guy wants experience with women, so he can have the confidence knowing he can reproduce or get a girlfriend / wife if he wants one. But that experience with women doesn’t just happen by you existing, working, and making more money. It happens when you remove the limiting beliefs, the fear, and the doubt that was put on you. Once the mind is rewired. The lifestyle and results will follow.

At our first wrestling tournament in freshman year of high school, we got whooped. Literally everyone on our team lost their match. The other team’s coach told all of us we were just weak and we needed to do at least 200 pull ups everyday, that’s why we lost. I remember we all looked at each other like what the fuck😂 that’s it?! I was skeptical like everyone else but I started doing it, bought a pull-up bar at home, and after every practice I would be the only one finishing my pull-ups. A few months later there was a varsity spot open for my weight class and 3 other people competing for that spot including me. I beat all of them and took the varsity spot. And I got much more practice in since I was training with both the JV and varsity team. That compounded to the point where everyone who joined the same time I did, was much further behind in skill, strength, and experience. Same age, joined wrestling at the same time, but different outcomes. Age and time lived doesn’t equal experience. Experience equals experience.

This is why I’ll tell a simp to walk away because he’s too weak and if he does anything else, he’ll signal his true desire. But if he’s a player and doesn’t care much about the girl, he can do whatever and that’s why it works.

A man in abundance can do whatever he wants. A man in scarcity is always going to lose. I’ll give you an example… I’m able to buy a girl flowers and call her first and it works - because I’m also doing it with other women (she can sense it.) Meanwhile the guy who buys a girl flowers and calls her because she’s the only girl in his life - she loses respect for him. Same action, different outcomes. It isn’t based on looks, money, or status. It’s based on how much abundance you are living in.

Most women are retarded. A man who listens to women, follows women, or acts like a woman… Is mega retarded. Most men are mega retarded.

First, I help you navigate dating. Then, I help you with all the areas of life. Here’s why I teach dating first to all my clients: 1. You need the social skills of talking to women and understanding people to make more money. 2. Making money first before dating is cope. You can do both at the same time. Every guy who says they’re single because they’re trying to get rich has underlying limiting beliefs and will still struggle even if I gave them a few million dollars on the spot. The reason why they struggle in dating is not money, it’s much deeper. 3. If you do everything I say, you will become successful. If I only focused on teaching you how to make money but you still simp for women, all that money is gonna be gone. I make you bulletproof to women so you don’t get played.