LOGAN DUONG
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Helping ambitious men date the women they want. https://loganduong.com/ Questions? DM @coachloganduong
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If you want the 6 simple steps to do this, I’ll copy and paste you the message I sent to my clients.
Just message @coachloganduong if you want to scale past the cold approaching and 1-1 dates that lead to nothing.
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When you have an attractive lifestyle + you show it off, you’ll get women reaching out to you first!
Women will openly message to join what you are doing if they see that other people like it too. They will even message you first and ask for an invite.
I’ve seen this with clients who post stories on simple things they’re passionate about…
Such as jiu jitsu, traveling, going on runs, parties, dancing, music, dj, pickleball, coffee, events, unique experiences, golfing, and even simple as going out with friends to a bar.
If a girl sees you with people (at least 1 girl) she is now compelled to message you.
This is also why my #1 dating app photo has always included another girl.
The events don’t always need to have women. For example, Golf. Golf is a sport mostly for rich, retired, and older men. But do it enough, post it enough, and after inviting people to do it with you (guys or girls.) You’ll have girls reaching out wanting you to take them or teach them.
Doing the thing is 10%. Posting the thing is 90%.
Most men give up on building a social life because they want overnight results after watching a few videos or they cope with saying they’re better off alone.
And thats why this makes you stand out and makes your dating life scale past the cold approaching & cold DMs.
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You are not failing because you don’t know what to say.
You are failing because you decided a long time ago that saying the wrong thing was worse than saying nothing, and you have never once tested whether that's true.
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I’ve seen the hottest and richest girls date absolute bums.
Whoever’s saying you need to get rich or look like a model is a fucking retard.
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Your texts should make women want to have sex with you, not ghost you.
If your matches or Instagram messages aren’t leading to dates or same night hookups, you’re doing something wrong.
The first step is to fix your text game and see why you’re killing attraction before you even meet her.
If you want to learn how I consistently meet women through dating apps the same night, click the link to get better results guaranteed.
https://loganduong.com/product-texting-mastery
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The more you grow, the more expensive your time becomes.
But if you keep spending your time on the wrong work, growth will punish you instead of freeing you.
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Most people don’t pay attention if they’re actually growing or not.
And that’s why they stay stuck for years without change.
So here’s some simple questions to ask yourself to see if you’ve been growing or slowly dying.
1. Has your lifestyle and freedom improved in the past year? - More money to invest in new place, better environment, better food, new hires to free up time.
2. Have you been getting more attention from women in the past 6 months? - Girls approaching you, texting you first, checking you out in person.
3. Has your influence increased the past 6 months? - More peers asking for advice, people inviting you out to events, and your personal brand growing.
If you answered yes to all 3, you are doing enough things right and it’s probably because you became mindful of what you wanted and got help.
If you answered yes to only 1-2, you have some self awareness and direction but don’t have the full blueprint.
If you answered no to all 3, you have zero self awareness and have no desire to grow. That is because you have been living in complete passiveness waiting for others to tell you what to do.
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If she was really into you but after 2-3 days she started to flake, this is why…
The #1 reason is because another guy is in the picture.
Let her go.
Do not become needy. Do not chase. Do not ask her why. Do not stalk her. That is scarcity.
Blocking her and getting jealous is also scarcity.
Abundance means you can miss your time together. You can miss her. You can feel the love in the air disappear. And you still let her go.
A man of abundance would love to have women stay but he is also okay if they leave.
He is fulfilled, happy, and full with or without.
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Society tells us that love should be natural and effortless…
And if you go to seek help, you’re inadequate…
But the biggest issue is men actually believe that.
And that belief is one of the biggest reasons why 99% of men aren’t getting serious results in their dating life.
And the 1% who do win in dating are guys who got help. Even guys who are naturally “good” with women struggle at either attraction, relationships, or keeping frame.
Because dating isn’t taught in schools and it certainly isn’t taught correctly in the media. It also isn’t something you’ll be good at if you grew up with divorced parents like myself or a dynamic where your father was absent or weak.
If you’re still struggling with women, you’ve been watching videos on it for a while, and you haven’t reached the level that you want to be at, don’t be afraid to reach out.
1 message could be the shift that gets you from where you’re at now to where you actually want to be.
And I would personally hate knowing that the limiting belief of inadequacy or shame was stopping you.
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Where to take a girl on a first date.
And these are all things I have my clients do on their dates as well.
1. Starbucks
2. Smoothies
3. Icecream
4. The beach
5. Rooftop bar / hotel
6. Pizza
7. Tacos
8. Boba
9. Place with a fire pit
10. Scenic view that you can drive to
Notice how none of these cost you more than $20 bucks or seem like you’re putting in much effort and that’s why it works.
I’ve taken tons of famous supermodels out for a burgers, boba, and ice cream while we make fun of the guys spending loads of money on them without smashing.
Some of you may feel like those date ideas aren’t enough. And that’s because you don’t believe you are enough or you don’t have the skills to lead with just who you are.
And if you believe that, the girls will too.
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If you’re worried about a woman’s red flags and you haven’t been sleeping with her for at least 3 months, it’s because deep down you want to wife her up.
This is your deep rooted scarcity beliefs kicking in.
Because if you had too many options, you wouldn’t be worried about getting married, or a girls green flags / red flags.
Not saying you shouldn’t be aware of it but you shouldn’t let make you emotional or stop you from focusing on what actually matters…
What matter is does the girl actually like you.
Because a girl can the most perfect green flag to exist, but if she doesn’t like YOU what does it matter?
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The reason she’s pulling away and the biggest mistake you’re secretly making.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8MqJSVI4vk
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She left a rich male model that she dated for 4 years for a broke guy in 6 hours…
This guy was a friend of mine as well, here’s the full story 👇
https://youtu.be/7wJRY2S9evE?si=B_sHN-QpSL1hNzpj
