Our Side of the Story

Although the night might be darker than the deepest shades of black, it still is a promise for sunrise to come. 🖤

So Facade is a term used to describe a situation in which people tend to be fake🙂 Pretending could be situated in different categories you know there is the one where people pretend to be happy when they're wounded inside and there's the one I want to talk about where people fail to be real and wear fake personalities. These kind of people are the hardest to cope up with trust me but I believe they're not doing it because they want to but because they don't have a choice. We really choose to judge these people without knowing their intentions am not saying pretending to be someone you're not is a good thing but you know it does have a story behind it so guys y'all dealing with fake people try to be rational aight? Because that's the wisest way to deal with it all.

Hey fam🙌🏽💜 I'll try to talk about FACADE or PRETENDING today😊 Stay tuned Love D💟

Good morning to you🙌🏽💜 I actually don't know what to say to you guys today cause am in a messy place too💔 but I know I have to pass through this for a better me and I'll keep fighting. Keep fighting💪🏽💪🏽 Love D💟

Walking Away From...? -Anything that smells like trouble. You see we all have those moments where we happen to be found in some type of saucy messes you know? Might be with people or with life. People tend to get out of these situations either with fights or insults I do not recommend any of these as solutions because come on why go and mess your head up when you can give them a pure heartfelt smile and walk away I say inner peace comes first, cause what are we without our inner peace well lemme answer that NOTHING. Our inner peace is a basement for every step we take every single one we lose it we lose our whole life and how do we lose it trying to handle trouble in a fierce and aggressive way . . . There's always walking away.

Me is going to talk about #WALKING AWAY today. Stay tuned Yours D💟

Good morning beautiful people😉 Remember all is going to be well no matter how hard the journey there seems🙌🏽 All is well and all will be well🌞🌞 Love D💟

#DEPRESSION It is defined as a serious medical condition in which a person feels very sad, hopeless, and unimportant and often is unable to live in a normal way. Which defines it very well...so the question that I have raised was "what is your hiding place when life gets harder and miserable" and I assume a lot of you happen to have depression as a hiding place. Depression on its own is another ocean of misery and hell meaning if we choose to make it our hiding place it would become more of an electrifying place where our problems tend to be intensified and everything is heightened. Am not saying that it's easy to smile and stay all giggly😊😁 when life is getting harder and harder I am sooo not saying that but all am saying is depression can not be our hiding place, a hiding place should be a place where you find peace and comfort. Unfortunately depression is nothing like that all that happens is You listen to your emotions and wounded heart and hold onto to your pain. You stay away from anything social (people, family, friends). Suicide becomes your everyday thought. You get used to being sad and lonely that you forget how to be happy. And don't tell me this Is peaceful and comfortable🙄 I have been there almost my whole life and my dear it is very different from comfortable and peaceful rather the opposite. So guys life gets hard I know but it's going to get harder okay?🙂 Choose your hiding places during these moments music and talking to people are my very two favorite solutions🎹🎤👬👭👫. Use them too💜 I hope I said something useful. Love D💟

I think depression seems to be the topic for tonight😊

Here comes part two I hope you guys like it. D💟

And I'll be posting the second part of this🙌🏽🙌🏽💜💜

Everybody can vote till tonight and I'll try to discuss what has been voted the most...and it doesn't mean I'll ignore the others☺️ Yours D💟

If You Hate Something, Just Tell It Honestly And Directly. No Need To Make Up Something Stupid Just Because You Want To Push Something Away. It Makes You Look Very Pathetic. Making Excuses And All. Why? Because You Don't Have Courage To Tell The Truth? Or Because You Think Your Real Reason Sound Ridiculous? Pathetic. Our Side Of Story

Hey beautiful souls vote and I'll know what y'all wanna talk about💜

What are our hiding places when life is hard and miserable? anonymous poll Depression – 27 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 46% Music – 21 👍👍👍👍👍 36% Drugs – 6 👍👍 10% Talking to people – 5 👍 8% 👥 59 people voted so far.

So I read this quote a while ago that said something like "Drugs don't give you happiness, they just borrow it from later". That should shake something in you, especially if you're trying to cope with the things in your life through means like alcohol, smoking things, or even binge watching movies, if that's your thing. You will feel better in that moment. Guaranteed. But you will fell worse than you did at the start as all the thoughts and feelings basically come rushing back, almost racing over each other, and you will end up in a place worse than before. Trust me. Look, I know things are always easier said than done, believe me, but if you've read Lecrae's "Unashamed" you would know the importance of dealing with things face to face, and how much opening up the doors of your past, your scars and dealing with them in every way you know can solve things The more you hold it back, the more you resist, it'll be like a cracking, breaking dam holding strong river water. It'll keep pushing and adding and adding and adding......and will explode and do much more damage than it wiuld have if it had been focused on and let out even though it would take work and time and effort. Do. Not. Use. Painkillers for your heartaches and wounds in life. Find solutions, ones that will last and leave you healthy at least one step better than before. Don't use things that will make you feel better for a little while but don't change a single thing for you, and possibly hurt you. We have so many resources these days and google what you're feeling, talk to those around you....I'm just saying you'll find a resource somewhere. I believe in you, and I know you have the strength in you to take baby steps. You wanna know how I know? You've been reading this whole thing this far. Be encouraged. ~ anonymousme🧡

To the beautiful souls out there...💜 You're not alone...am always here...

The hardest task ever😔💔