Alright, not bad for nightly post :)
Wife was not happy with the post though.
I joke.
I don't have a wife.
But I realized one thing, and that is to my followers I said the wrong thing about marriage.
Remember my posts about marriage being completely useless piece of paper for a man?
I must put a disclaimer, it does not refer to religious marriage. Because religious marriages are much more fair and balanced than western civic marriages.
In islam: you take care of the kid, but what you built yourself is yours.
In judaism: you again do everything in a nice way, no even talks about your belongings distribution, except in form of support of the kid.
In Christianity: there is no divorce even.
So obviously, all these are good, because they have some true form to it.
There is nothing bad in having a woman and you each committing to each other.
What I have against is western culture piece of paper called marriage certificate.
It is designed that in no way, absolutely no way benefits a man.
It's a contract.
So bad, that if it wouldn't be so popularized someone could argue it's made in bad faith.
I mean, that is the only way where for example:
Imagine Elon Musk, hard working, delivering, thinking, building, marries some slut he barely sees.
Elon does the good thing in his life, he decided, ON HIS OWN to give his ex girls some pocket money. It's okay, it's his will.
But, to HAVE to give half... brother, who is sane here and who is nuts?
Go to escort sites. (disclaimer: don't do anything illegal, depending where you live) Pick the most expensive pussy - the odds is she looks better than any 'wife' you'll find. Don't even calculate for discount for duration... don't even take into account that she would be at her best, and not bitch to you at all no matter what you do... and still be cheaper than half of Elon Musk's net worth.
Brother, the contract is corrupt.
It's not a sign of love, nor of nothing. It's a sign of: "you got sucked in!".
Religious marriages are completely different story. And this tells a point - that corruption, only happened recently. WTF happened with western thinking is not good.
In the last 60 years, there are more divorces than in the history of human civilisation.
Talking about how happy women are with their newfound freedoms.
If you won't fight for a relationship, you don't deserve a relationship in the first place. Be casually dating then.
I am not a traditional man.
But now, more than ever, traditional values, can save the humanity in this high speed rush to oblivion.
Just take a religious book. Any religious book. See how fairly and with care it talks about both sides.
Now take a standard marriage modern contract.
Men will give half. Chick gets the kid. He gets fucked.
Got my point? A bad deal.
Like you'd participate in futures trade where the only outcome is to get liquidated after the roll of dice.
So brother, you love your girl? Good. What prevents you from keep loving each other without a marriage certificate?
Unless you're religious and want a religious one, which as I said is a completely OK, different story.
What prevents guys who would just get that contract to be living with girls happily? They need certificate for love?
But also be warned, with time you get fucked also... in something called civic union or something like that when you're together for X number of years, again she gets half.
Protect yourself. Not from giving to your girl. But from HAVING TO give to your girl. Because once you have to give, you're not giving, it's hers.
When you hear the wovs of marriage, it's so beautiful - they will stay together, fight together, be perfect symbiosis. If the certificate would bring you that, I'd fucking immediately get three!
However, it doesn't. And more recently, modern way is to wipe ass of that certificate, divorce at first hardship, but the women gets the half. Fuck that.
D Man