ʸᵒˢᵗᶤᶰᵃ

Maybe you haven’t found your partner yet because you’re still becoming your person first. Allah may be giving you time to work on your mindset, to love yourself, to become more confident, to grow spiritually and to build your career, your future and your own life .. Some people come into your life to teach you. Some come to challenge you. Some come to show you what you deserve and what you don’t and to make you more confident in who you are. Trust the process. Work on yourself until you reach that feeling of “I genuinely love who I am” and feel that sense of relief knowing that you’ve done your best to become a better version of yourself. Build a life you’re proud of. And when the right person comes, they won’t be there to complete you. They’ll simply love the person you already became, maybe even more than you love yourself. 💜

Maybe you haven’t found your partner yet because you’re still becoming your person first. Allah may be giving you time to work on your mindset, to love yourself, to become more confident, to grow spiritually, and to build your career, your future and your own life .. Some people come into your life to teach you. Some come to challenge you. Some come to show you what you deserve and what you don’t and to make you more confident in who you are. Trust the process. Work on yourself until you reach that feeling of “I genuinely love who I am” and feel that sense of relief knowing that you’ve done your best to become a better version of yourself. Build a life you’re proud of. And when the right person comes, they won’t be there to complete you. They’ll simply love the person you already became, maybe even more than you love yourself. 💜

May you marry a man who handles disagreements with love, not ego.

Forcing my nervous system to understand that we are safe now:

The biggest lesson learned this year is that sometimes you need to stop seeing the good in people and start seeing what they are actually showing you.

Nobody talks about the grief that you feel when you're finally meeting a genuinely good person after experiencing only chaos .. You don't get butterflies, you get suspicious and you keep waiting for the other shoe to drop You self sabotage because your nervous system quite literally does not know what to do with someone who is consistently kind Healing isn't linear and it's not always easy. Sometimes the hardest relationship to stay in is the healthy one.

When something is not for you, it will hurt you until you understand it.

I love how I'm not me anymore I'm us. 💞

I realize why people become more private when they've found their person. It's not because they're hiding them but because they've finally found something that doesn't need validation from everyone else.