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Nobody talks about the grief that you feel when you're finally meeting a genuinely good person after experiencing only chaos .. You don't get butterflies, you get suspicious and you keep waiting for the other shoe to drop You self sabotage because your nervous system quite literally does not know what to do with someone who is consistently kind Healing isn't linear and it's not always easy. Sometimes the hardest relationship to stay in is the healthy one.

When something is not for you, it will hurt you until you understand it.

I love how I'm not me anymore I'm us. 💞

I realize why people become more private when they've found their person. It's not because they're hiding them but because they've finally found something that doesn't need validation from everyone else.

When someone can go through a situation involving you without ever losing their rationality and while keeping their mind fully in control, it may simply mean you never mattered to them as much as you thought.

Everyone is struggling right now with a lot of unfortunate circumstances and somehow the only thing keeping us feeling alive are hobbies and daily ordinary things that make us smile. So, please never lose your interests over something, no matter how "small" it is.

You will never ruin something real by saying how you feel.

There's a different kind of love .. The kind where he hides his busy schedule just to sit a little longer, talk a little more and stay a little closer. He protects their quality time in his own quiet way. So he stays, fully present, until she sleeps, feeling safe and cared for. Then, quietly, he goes back to his responsibilities. That's the kind of effort you don't always see but you always feel. 💜

Loyalty without effort feels empty.