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Life hack: call everything EASY, a breeze, a piece of cake, a walk in the park. Doing so COMPLETELY reframes the way you look at things and instructs your brain to follow suit. Watch as your subconscious will CONFIRM to you that it is indeed, easy. Really Ain’t Shit to it

You don’t always get to choose what events happen to you. But you ALWAYS get to decide what events MEAN to you. Two people can go through the same horrifically traumatic experience: - one is defeated and dejected by it - the other finds strength it and it becomes super human The only difference? The narrative they spun in their head. SELF-TALK IS FUCKING EVERYTHING. TRY THIS EXERCISE: For the next 7 days. Do a nightly review of what happened that day. List out: Top 3 biggest fuck-ups, problems, challenges etc And then write: “and it’s better that this happens because it means I’ll….” And alchemise it into rocket fuel towards triumph. Always orient your perspective towards strength, change, making choices, skills, resilience, anti-fragility, and reasons why it’s better that it turned out the way it did.

Believing that you CAN infinitely increases the chances that you WILL. Do you understand?

IF ONLY you KNEW what you’re TRULY capable of… You’d be DISGUSTED, and SICK TO YOUR STOMACH at how much of your potential you are WASTING. What a shame that you’re too afraid and lazy to do anything about it.

Most people simply aren’t meant for success. I seriously mean this. Because if people can be TOLD THE TRUTH, If people can be SHOWN THE PATH, if people can literally have someone hold their hand and try to walk with them on the path, AND THEY STILL DON’T TRY TO CHANGE THEMSELVES? Then yes; They’re just “not meant” for success. Few understand.

#ASKMR: "As a MAN, is it fair to have any sort of expectations (not sexual) from a girl? " Great question. I feel that having expectations from anyone is FEMININE. Because expectations are PASSIVE. You hope you get them, and if you don’t you’re disappointed but you still tolerate them. No, Men should have DEMANDS. Men should Demand the BEST from people in their life- Men and Women Alike. And if they don’t keep up with the demands? They’re OUT. I say Demands because it’s Masculine, there’s no “if” “or”, you’re certain of what you want and you won’t settle for less. But Most Importantly, you can DEMAND the best from others BECAUSE you demand the best from YOURSELF FIRST. People can sense that in man. Don’t have expectations, have DEMANDS.

HOW TO GET INTO PEOPLE’s HEADS AND SEE WHO THEY REALLY ARE This is a life skill. As charming misogynists on the path towards Greatness, you will naturally come across TONS of personalities. Some want good for you, others want the best, and quite a handful DON’T. But everyone will put up a front when they first meet you. I call it the “Needy, Politically Correct self” But you need to know their true self, their true intentions with you, and their true competence. Maybe they come with a business plan asking for money, maybe they want a job, maybe they’re just new in the area and seek your friendship. To DESTROY that front and REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE, you need to Face Struggle, Pressure, and Hardship Together. (This is why men who went to war together remained friends together) You can’t go to a real war together but you can certainly MANUFACTURE SITUATIONS where they is a similar SHARED STRUGGLE. ⁃ Hitting the gym/boxing ring with them, ⁃ Drinking and bringing up arguments with them, ⁃ Playing a team sport, ⁃ lending them some money and see if they return it without you having to ask, etc. A good movie on this I want you all to watch is called “A Bronx Tale”

More damage is done by caring too much about something than by completely ignoring it. The person who falls sick and looks up their symptoms on google ends up becoming even more sick. The person who thinks too much about their money issues and how he can’t pay the bills ends up staying broke. The person who tries to fix all the flaws in the people around him ends up exposing the worst inside them. The person who looks forwardly overly excited about an upcoming trip or event ends up finding out that it’s been cancelled or postponed. What I’ve realized over the years, Is that nothing matters as much as you think it does. And if you just STOP GIVING it importance, things always take care of themselves. Of course, losers read that and go “So does that mean I can just relax and stop trying?” Which is why they remain losers their entire life. Winners read that and go “Fantastic. I can focus on putting one foot in front of the other and leave the worrying to the universe who always takes care of me” This is a secret of the universe.

Is karma real or not? I ask this to a resentful person and he tells me: “Nah, just look at the corrupt politicians” I ask this to a happy person and he tells me “Yes, just look at the criminals in jail” I ask this to a Charming Misogynist and he tells me– “Who cares if karma is actually real or not? I choose to believe in it because it gives me power and leads me towards the right path in life”

Men living a busy life doing important things naturally develop game. They naturally become attractive to women because they have goals more important than her. They stop demanding her attention because frankly they're too busy receiving endless amounts of it from other women in their social circle. They stop seeking a shoulder to cry on because they discuss their issues with trusted confidants that they have found within their brotherhood of high-value men. They stop needing the lines because they start attracting women because of WHO THEY ARE. And that's the REAL GAME of life. To BECOME THAT GUY.

How to become a man that’s irresistible in this world. 1 ) Start with any sports activities. ( Foot/Basket Ball , Badminton etc ) Its the best form of cardio You’ll feel way better afterwards. 2. ) Hang out with more women ( If you arent commited ) If only you stay with men 24 / 365 in ghey environments you won’t feel energised. Hanging out with more girls -> more testosterone and energy. Statistically proven. 3 ) Get in a better shape If you’re too fat or too skinny you’ll feel bad. Not saying you should obsess over the gym. But go at least 5 times per week and train like a demigod. Every set should make your eye red. 4 ) Earn Money. HARD YET OBVIOUS. You are supposed to earn money to showcase a lifestyle that men want and women want to be a part of. If you don’t have your money game sorted you are bound to fail. If you have no clue on how you can make money , there is a reason why my server exists. You are just a dm away to your first sale. YOU GOT THIS PEACE.

"The wound is the place where the light enters you."

You can borrow strength from the future. Close your eyes. See yourself taking all the necessary steps required for you to become who it is you wish to be. See it all working out. Flawless action. One after another. Day after day. See the momentum stacking and compounding. Connect with that future version of yourself. See who it is who you would become if you embraced your potential fully and fearlessly charged toward it with everything you’ve got. Feel their strength. Feel their power. Feel how incredible, how electric—it feels to be in those shoes. And bring those feelings back with you to the present moment.

Want to DOUBLE your charisma, social skills, and personal magnetism? Just be 20% more interested in other people than you are now. That’s not such a huge leap. But a super powerful one. And will significantly enhance your every interaction. But - how can you do so authentically? That’s the hard part. Yeah, you *could* fake it, but that’ll get exhausting after a while and isn’t very fun. You can legitimately become 20% more interested in other people by actually changing your perspective to be one from which awe is a constant and natural byproduct. Vividly immerse yourself in the feeling of sonder: Sonder is the realisation that every random person you pass by - has a life as vivid and complex as your own, filled with their own experiences, emotions, and stories. When you see a person, view them in their entirety, and allow yourself to become curious about their story. Where did they grow up? How were they raised? What were the adolescent years like? What events led them to meeting you there that day? And how about the probabilities? Think of how many different things IN THE UNIVERSE had to line up just for you to come across any single unique individual. It’s mind blowing when you really take a second to think about it. With this lucidly in mind - it becomes very easy to find people extremely interesting. Your perspective is one from which awe and wonder and constantly elicited by the magnificence of not just humans, but all of life itself. Think about it. Use this. And report back.

When you want to increase energy: - make your in breath longer than your out breath When wanting to be calmer and ground: - make your out breath longer than your in breath Easy. Works super quickly too.

The life of a charming misogynist is such, that you will be going through life on your path effortlessly, playfully conquering your goals And on this path you will often come in contact with people from the clown world Who will be giving their all, pushing their hardest, struggling a lot, and yet nowhere close to winning in life. Charming Misogynists KNOW that success in meant for them. Which is why to the outside observer, it looks as if we’re magically getting everything without even trying The Normies in clown world BELIEVE that success is reserved for those born with a silver spoon. Which is why to the outside observer, it looks at if they’re struggling so much but just not getting a break. This is why WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN matters most.

Stop Manifesting BULLSHIT & just chill The Fuck Out. Focus on forward movement always. You almost* want to IGNORE every unwanted/undesirable facet of your reality - via starving it of attention. Instead: Focus ALL your energy toward WHAT YOU WANT. What you pay attention to, GROWS. Don’t dwell. CREATE. What’s next? Future. Forward. Up. Toward THE THING.

The easiest way to win is to surround yourself with people who are “about winning” It’s not even about guaranteed winners. It’s not about A players. Yes, that is good but you will NOT find that in your immediate vicinity. The BARE MINIMUM must be to surround yourself with people who are ATLEAST trying to win. Not the guys who WISH to win Not the guys who WATCH YOUTUBE TATE VIDEOS I’m talking about guys with a PLAN. Guys who take PHYSICAL ACTION. Even the guys who failed but took the lessons and moved forward.

If you don’t believe in yourself, Guess whose fault that is? YOURS. Nobody is to blame but YOU. Not believing in self = lack of reasons to do so = lack of evidence. GO GET BATTLE SCARS. Confidence comes from being TESTED in battle and emerging VICTORIOUS.