BispVerse 🌌

Take an evening (or a few) to meditate on your past. Think of all the pain and sadness you shoved away. Let yourself feel those things. When you let them surface, they won’t control you anymore. Drinking because of your problems thinking it'll help you get rid of the pain is childish. Don't drink off your emotions, sit with them. Don't let your problems make you habitual of playing victim. Heal. Healing is beautiful. Become a better version of yourself.

Aspire to be someone who gives things meaning, not who seeks things to give them meaning. Rather than chasing “success,” chase kindness. Rather than believe wealth is the mark of a life well lived, believe that intelligence is, kindness is, or open-mindedness is. ♥️✨💫

Seek out ways to appreciate the way people are, not the way you want them to be. It is not your job to judge who is deserving of your love and kindness. It is not your job to fix anybody. It is only your job to love them in whatever way is appropriate. You are not anybody else’s god.

Fear doesn’t mean a desire to escape. It means you’re interested. The emotion most associated with fear is interest, believe it or not. It’s even been said that fear has two invisible faces: one that wants to flee and the other that wants to investigate. This is to say, nothing is generally “scary” to us unless some part of us also wants to understand it, knows we are a part of it, and feels as though it will become part of our experience.

Let everything happen to you, beauty and terror, just keep going,no feeling is final.

Everybody isn’t going to love you. Most people don’t even love themselves.

We are in each other's life for a reason. Thank you for showing up.

The more you go inwards and turn within, the more you will realise that you never do anything and nothing happens to you. Everything in this life then turns out to be just an expression of Grace

I know this transformation is painful but you’re not falling apart; you’re just falling into something different, with a new capacity to be beautiful.

Love isn't something other people give you. People cannot transmute emotions, which is interesting to consider when you realize how utterly consumed the human race is with the concept of getting other people to love us. This is because when we think other people love us, we give ourselves permission to feel love. It’s a mind game, one in which we rely on everyone but ourselves to allow us to feel what’s already inside us. (If you think love is something that exists anywhere but within your own mind and heart, you will never have it.) Sleep well ✨

Let go of the expections that you can outsmart pain. You cannot think your way out of pain. You cannot predict it, or avoid it, or pretend you don’t feel it. Doing so is living a fraction of the life you were meant to, and it will make you a fraction of the person you’re supposed to be. 💯

Your identity should be so secure that when someone walks away from you they don’t take you with them.

Use your energy to create, to explore, to build, to conquer, to learn, to teach, to make a difference, to pass on your blessings to someone who needs it the most, to get into a good shape. What tf is wasting your energy in "you didn't reply to my text" "you're not interested in me" "you don't care about me" "you don't love me" Bro.....this life is limited. Don't waste this only moment of yours on things you should have already stopped doing in highschool.

Believing that you’re less responsible for your misgivings and that you’re more exceptionally skilled at your strengths is the mindset to which many people default, but it ultimately just keeps you small. If you don’t acknowledge the magnitude of the poor choices you’ve made, you’re bound to justify doing them again; if you live and act as though you can slide by because you’re ever so slightly better than everyone else, you’ll never actually try.

Narcissists do not have the ability to self reflect. They cannot see anything wrong with what they do and they only see fault in your reaction. They believe every argument is caused by you, because to them, there was no problem with their actions until you reacted to them.

The only place you have complete control over what’s said to and around you is in your home. Otherwise, you exist in a diverse world of many people and opinions of which are likely to “offend” you at some point or another. If you want to assume you are the focal point of everyone’s life and ascribe meaning to every passing comment and idea that doesn’t soundly resonate with your own belief system, you’re going to live a very difficult life. Changing how other people think and treat you is not a matter of how outraged you get, but how willing you are to explain, teach, and share. Defensiveness never precedes growth, it stunts it. 🙏🪐

Life seems beautiful with the fact that you do not need to be exceptionally beautiful or talented or successful to experience the things that make life profound: love, knowledge, connection, community, and so on. And the cosmos, and how despite being insignificant specks, we are all essential to the core patchwork that makes up humanity, and that without any single one of us, nothing would exist as it is right now 💯✨

If you’re looking for any one particular outcome as the end goal of your hard work, you’re most likely going to end up disappointed. The point of hardwork isn't to reach a certain goal. The point of hard work is to recognize the person it makes you, not what it "gets" you (the former you can control; the latter, you can’t).