Broken Pen Stories

I have a girl we have been dating about 1 year and some months ,I know her family members, one day she decided to go to her Mom’s place her mother lives in Ivory Coast but her Dad stay’s in Ghana,Before going to Ivory Coast she told me her phone is giving her a lot of problems so I decided to buy her a new phone but before that she should go and come because I was in my final year in university there is no enough of money on me She just came back and I bought my girlfriend an iPhone XR, one day I just went to her place and I collected her phone watching some videos. I just saw a messages popping up so I decided not to view the message but the last message makes me curious to view the chat I saw that she is cheating I decided not to tell her,after that day she became defensive whenever I tried to touch her phone.I just did some investigation about the chat and I ask her a lot of questions about the guy she insisted there is nothing going on. She told me we shldnt touch each other’s phone again I should let her privacy be her privacy.I asked for some space to deal with my personal issues, but she said I’m neglecting her and suggested breaking up all because i doesn’t have time for her like first we use to be and she requested for break up then I accepted it. I’m now wondering if I handled the situation correctly or if there’s something I could have done

Hmm…..@Oj please keep me anonymous. There are a lot of things that humans go through in this life. I once sat in a trotro from Dome to 37 to meet a friend. When we got to Achimota a man sat infront of me. He didn’t know the fare and he asked the mate after he was told he payed. Immediately after paying he took his android phone out and opened WhatsApp but didn’t turn on the data. I know it’s not right to look into peoples phones but hear me out. He had 3 LOTTERY groups he is in. He checked the numbers written on them and some dates were even late. He then changes the date some numbers and sends it to different people. None of his contacts ( people he sent the lottery numbers to) had the same number but he sets the date to the next day. OJ he did this through to Pig farm where he then turned his data on and the messages started coming in. It was such a pity seeing a guy in an office wear do that. Some of the people he sends it to have payed him thinking it’s ‘sure banker’. The economy is just eating everybody up😔.

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I want to go out but I know this man would want to touch me after that even though I have told him several times I'm not interested in that. He's a nice man but I got no feelings for him and doing something with him isn't something I want to do now. Before y'all come for me, I haven't asked him for money before but on his birthday I gifted him and he gifted me on my birthday too. I just like the vibes between us like we should just be friends and not expect anything from anyone. I don't know if y'all understand me.

so Idk what to do and I am really confused.. Some old breakup fucked me up bad that I took on some revenge shit and played ladies who come my way don't really care how you feel, chale it was a broken heart so na me too I want to break someone's. So straight forward in highschool I lost my virginity to some sexual predator... To uni now in lvl 300 all my roomies n friends are having serious relationship n I was still on my shit, so one day something happened ( most of my people are on this page can't go further else they'll know it's me there's a lot they don't know) so what happened was complicated and I had to choose 1 among the 4 ladies i was supposedly dating tho aside that I had others who we just do stuff.. quite good at it but I don't date in my school so no one really gets to know the real me except my roomies who knows numerous ladies that come to that room. So I changed chale deep one I changed now I really want a relationship and this change I had to break up with all the ladies and now one gal that I really like and she likes love me too but she says she's not ready to date. So for a whole sem and now almost ending second corona sem she's still not ready🤦🏾‍♂️ so I told her I am moving on and can't wait any longer.. (Lady A) And (Lady B ) who is close to me she has a bf but she likes me too and chale me too I go shot my shoot wey right now idk my left and right oooo she say she doesn't know what to say... My problem is this is the only time I am giving a chance to myself to fall in love again and it's all failing... Me too I no look bad so she dey feel wey anytime we meet I fi dey press den feel... Now i talk this to one elderly person what he talk was I am someone wey no fit dey alone so make I get gf if not I go do same old thing again and was like now I am 22 if I cross 25 with it I go be Womanizer for life ... The thing enter my head I start dey hide myself from lady B sef... Idk if I really need a gf or I just be one fuck boi wey dey retire or what dey old man talk abhi true even if I need a gf all my shots no dey work ... Abeg no insults ooo

My husband has been cheating and I don't even talk...sometimes I don't even make him know I'm aware. I recently cheated and he found out because he went through my phone when I was asleep and he can't hold himself. You that has cheated severally??what should I do pls?

Hey Jodel, I wanted to share something that's been bothering me and I'm not sure how to handle it. I live with a roommate who is very enthusiastic about his faith, which I respect. However, he’s started playing audio sermons and music at high volumes, and what's more challenging for me is that he also practice speaking in tongues, which can get quite loud and frequent. As someone who values quiet time for study and sleep, I'm finding it really tough to cope with. The issue is complicated because our church does recognize speaking in tongues as a valid practice, so I'm torn between respecting their beliefs and needing some peace and quiet in our shared space.Mind you he can disturb even in the middle of the night for instance 10pm to 3am 😡😡.Has anyone else dealt with something similar? I'd really appreciate any advice on how to approach this situation without straining our relationship or compromising my own needs.

Charlie this cousin of mine I live in a room with Dey disturb my life. I share my food and everything with you l have no problem. I came from class very early yesterday from the usual time and I had a call so I was in the balcony.entered the room to get water only to find her in my dress, shoe, bag lying on my bed. The surprise on her face when I caught her. She has this body odor too so imagine how I was feeling. My mother is telling me to forget and help her because her dad is dead. I cook for us without taking a pesewa from her.She uses my things and I don't complain but why will she wear my dress without telling me and use my bag too. African mothers eh. She wants me to forget, please what should I do?

I’m 21yrs buh I have a body of 14yrs. The only thing that stops people from calling me a kid is my braids and curvaceous body.I get mistreated in relationships and it’s unbearable. My current boyfriend likes to complement other ladies and emphasize on how he misses his ex gf without considering my feelings. I keep getting younger as my age increases. My boyfriend doesn’t care if I get hurt bcuz of what he’s saying and he’s fully aware.I know men cheat but saying it right infront of me is something else. He gives me attention and money too. But relationships doesn’t only evolve around money or sex. I have told him countless times not be sending me money unnecessarily but he keeps doing that and acknowledging other gals. I don’t know if I should end things with him or I’m jxt being dramatic ?

I met her 2018 | was a first year student at Ketasco she was in JHS first year also We started dating till i completed SHS 2021 She also completed JHS same year We spent a lot of time together before she went to Mount Sinai SHS she got pregnant for me but because we weren't ready I made her abort it She continued school When she was about completing school last year I met a different gal on snap and we had a f**k I felt bad so I told her about it she didn't get mad so l felt okay She completed school last year and came home just to tell me that she has moved on and she is dating some one else I really love this girl and I want to spend the rest of my life with her Tell me guys what should I do

A young guy who lives in Germany is in a relationship with a young lady who Lives in Ghana. Prior to the man mingrating to Germany, he was in a relationship with the lady for about 2 years. Fast forward, The guy has been financially supporting the lady back home as well as the lady’s family when they are in financial distress. A few times the lady has shown attitudes towards the guy for him to doubt her faithfulness to him but somehow they end up ironining issues out. The Main Problem The gentleman is on the verge of acquiring his legal documents, However, he wants to start processing for the lady to also join him in Germany but he is requesting the lady visit a shrine so they both will swear to the shrine that, they will not leave eachother particularly, the lady will swear that once she gets to Germany via him she will remain her girlfriend, stay loyal and faithful and not betray him. The lady has refused to take this step citing her christian faith as one the reasons. The second reason is that, the guy is a wicked guy and he does not in any way love her? The refusal has prompted the guy assume that her girlfriend might have ulterior motives and has therefore given her a two-week ultimatum to make a decision. Swearing at the shrine saves her the relationship and migration to Germany, refusal ends the relationship. What will you do as a if you were the lady.

I’m writing this because I feel like I’m reaching a breaking point I never thought I’d see. Not long ago, we were a happy, stable family. My dad was our provider, and my mom was a teacher and seamstress who gave up her career to raise us at his request. But when death took my father, everything we knew vanished. Instead of helping us, his family seized all his properties, leaving my mother and us children with nothing but a single room to live in. My grandfather stepped in to shield us, and for a while, we were okay but now death has taken him too. My mother, desperate to pay off debts and keep us afloat, had to leave us behind last February to work at a mining site. She worked until her body broke, and now sickness has made her too weak to continue. She is still there, trying to save enough to come home and start a small business, but her health is failing and the burden is too much. I’ve been on campus for only over a month and I am drowning. I don’t know how I’ll get what I need for my classes. I call my extended family members for help, but they either ignore my calls or pretend we don't exist. I look at my younger siblings and I’m terrified of what will happen to them if I give up, but I am slowly losing myself. I never imagined life could be this cruel to a family that did nothing but love each other. I am just 18 and a student trying to find a way to stay in school and become the help my mother and siblings so desperately need. Any advice, guidance, or support on how to navigate this dark season would mean the world to me.

Please this is to the smallish ladies and the ones that look at least 5 years older than their age. How do you cope or deal with small boys mistaken your small body or younger looking stature to be their mates?? I mean these JHS and SHS boys that are in their early teens roughly around 17 to 20 See's you and assume you are their size because of your younger look and decide to come toast you. I've been having this experience for sometime now and it's getting seriously annoying. I'm usually nice to them when they approach me and ask for my number. I sometimes give it to them if they are with their friends so that they don't get mocked and when they later text me I explain to them I'm not their age mate and send them off. Just yesterday one 16 year old boy who claims he is in SHS saw me and was giving me pickup lines laa. I nearly knocked him.

🤦‍♂️ Charlie, I do not even know how to start this. During my final year in JHS, I got attached to one girl in my class. Luckily, she felt the same way about me. Fast forward, I proposed and she accepted. Our love became so public that even the teachers knew about it. After we finished our BECE, she would text me, saying she was scared that other girls might take me from her and plenty other things. But deep inside, she was the only one I had eyes for. Later on, we went to different schools, so we only spoke on the phone, and not that much because she was a boarder and I was a day student. During vacation, when we were about to enter Form 2, she called me and asked for a breakup 💔. It caught me by surprise 😮 because everything was fine between us. In fact, within the same week she called for the breakup, we had spoken on the phone for more than two hours, laughing and entertaining each other. So the breakup really shocked me 💔😞. This was the woman I gave my whole heart to. That day, I was in total shock 😲 and could not sleep the whole night. The next morning, I called her and she picked up. I asked her why, what I had done to her, or if I had said or done anything wrong. I told her I was ready to apologize 😞. I even said sorry in case I had hurt her in any way. She said no. She just felt she did not want to be in a relationship anymore 😪. Herr 🥹 hmmmm!!! Over the years, I have met other girls, but I could never connect with any of them the way I connected with her. Up till now, she has never given me a reason for the breakup. Just recently, she stopped replying to my texts, but before that, she told me I was very good to her and that I never wronged her. She also said I should not think otherwise. So what really caused the breakup? 😕

I was having a normal conversation with my man and he said i'm more intelligent than him and that's not good. I asked him why he said that and replied that he's rather supposed to be intelligent than me and I don't get why he said that he's very intelligent and I always even tell him but when I tried reminding him of it he said he's aware but I am more intelligent and a shark. I asked if he wanted a dumb woman and he said he's kidding. Now I don't even know if I'm in a safe hand, just intelligent than him and he's scared?? What if I get richer than him, what should I do

I visited my gfs family today and l've given up on the relationship, ohia buburooo. If I go ahead unless i build a new house for them. I can't The burden will be massive on me, she has 4 siblings too. I want to send a break up message immediately,what do you guys think?

Hi jodel, I have a confession. So I've been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years. We started dating right after I completed Junior high School and he is a university graduate so he's like 8 years older than me we've dated for a while now... From the beginning he used to buy me stuff when he has money he even got me a phone He started working last two years (2024) he stop buying me stuffs he stopped giving me money like everything stopped I started giving him money even tho I wasn't working I gave him all my savings I started providing for him it was draining me but I loved him so... He likes making empty promises which hurts Soo badly but I loved him so I choose to ignore all that I started working when I completed senior high School and I started flirting with one guy at work like he's my dream guy I've always wanted to f*** with a slim Guy I'm chubby and my guy is also chubby so I don't really enjoy having sex I went to the slim guy's place one evening I was on a night shift we had sex like countless times I really enjoyed it like he was really good so I started falling out of love for my guy. The slim guy knows I'm dating he still wanted to date me long story short, I went to the slim guy's place last Friday evening I told my guy I wouldn't go to work so I will be sleeping at home the following morning he called severally he called with different numbers he called I didn't answer because I had not come home from where I went, not knowing he came to my place he asked my siblings and then my siblings were like I went to work but I haven't come back so when I came home my siblings told me the guy had come here I was really scared so I called him and he told me to come to his place he has something important to tell me so I went there and he was like he knows I went to a guy's place to sleep over and I got f* so I should tell him why I'm cheating on him, how I started, who the guys is like I should tell him everything. I don't want to tell him he's already broken hearted but telling him will break him more. Truth is, I don't love the slim guy I just like how he fucks me and I've fallen out of love for my guy but I don't want to let him go we can work things out. Please guys what should I do Any advice is appreciated

I was talking to a female friend of mine and you know how horny some guys can be, she said she had a crush on one guy and went to visit him.The guy started touching her inappropriately and she could tell the guy wanted her punani so she told him they’re not dating so they can’t do that. She liked him though The guy promised to date the girl. After they had sex he blocked her on all socials. Now the girl is saying she'll report the guy for rape!! Thoughts ??

How possible is it that my boyfriend could have played with or had sex with my butt while I was sleeping? He is very into BDSM, and he is also ways very heavy on expressing how important consent is, but sometimes I get a gut feeling that he’s not always being genuine in what he says. So the other night I expressed that I wasn’t sure if I could handle BDSM stuff too much, and he was very sweet and said that was no problem at all. Then the next day he came over and was asking for anal. I am on my period and I said no. He pushed a little but when he realized how uncomfortable I was he stopped and said we should just cuddle. Yay. But my butt has been not hurting, but just a bit sore while sitting down and irritated a bit. It does feel like after we had tried anal the first time. I am a heavy sleeper, but I wasn’t on medication of any sort and we hadn’t been drinking, so I don’t know how possible it really is that he did something or not. I’ve looked at other Jodel posts, but people mention being drugged or on sleeping pills, which id say I was neither since we were already heading to bed and I didn’t drink anything before bed. Could you guys give me some insight? I can’t tell if my past is triggering me or if there is a bigger problem potentially here. Thank you.

Confession Annonymous as usual , I cried last night. Hmmm, here is the story. Recently, all the guys I have been dating were broke, and I never cared because I take care of myself. The job I had was good—I used my money to rent a nice place and buy things for the interior. I am currently using a 14 Pro Max that I bought with my own money. So taking money from guys is not something I do, but if someone gives me, I will take it. Fast forward, I started dating someone who is well to do. Just as we started dating, I lost my job. I have 18k stuck somewhere, which I knew I would eventually get this month. In the first week, I got 2k, which I have been using to feed myself since I have been home for the past three weeks. And mind you, I have never asked this new boyfriend for money before. Yesterday, we were talking on the phone when he told me that because of his previous relationship, he does not want to invest in relationships anymore. By that, he means giving his girlfriend money until he is married to her. Basically, he told me he will not give me money and that I should not even ask. I was planning to start a business next month with the money that is still stuck somewhere. He did offer to give me money indirectly, but yesterday he kept insisting that I should not depend on him for my survival because I am jobless. He said I should go find a job because he will not give me money, and I should not ask. Right now, the only money I have is 300 Ghana cedis, which I will use to cook this week, and after that, I will have nothing. I cannot ask him, and I do not want to ask other guys because it would feel like an insult to him. We are planning to get married soon too. The one time I really need help, I am not getting it. And honestly, it just breaks my heart. What should I do?