Anonymous confessions GH

Please how do I handle a man who is always with women? My guy teaches aerobics and I was going with him to sessions but due to my work and schooling it hasn't been possible. I see his ig posts and I feel jealous and uncomfortable. The way he is always around ladies and touching them. We met through that and I have this insecurity he could meet someone better than me because we had s*x before even making it official in one of the gym rooms one late night. He assures me, but it's not enough for me. Please advice me on how to handle this. (Send your relationship-related stories to [email protected] to be featured on the page.)

I'm in love with this girl and we have been friends for a long time. I'm the very shy type and she knows and has accepted me as close friends. I have tried many times to tell her my feelings but I'm scared she will bounce me and I observe that my heart beats like crazy when I try to tell her. Is it advisable if I just text it to her? We whatsapp a lot and that's what she prefers or should I write it to her or something? She is the studious type and I was planning to write it in a note for her to see. Just something for her to know and give me an answer but not face to face. I fear if I delay, another guy will snatch her away I will regret not opening up. Please pardon me, I'm 21 and this is my first time of trying to propose to a girl. I'm also not the social type so it has affected me in a way. (Send your relationship-related stories to [email protected] to be featured on the page.)

Please keep me anonymous. There is this lady friend of mine I have gist with often. One of these days she told me she went out with her lady friends to a mall and a man offered to buy them something while at the mall which they accepted but they didn't make him spend much since they took only a few things and the man later took their contacts. I only told her to be careful cus if she starts giving him chance, it's likely he can ruin her life. She knows about guys trying to take advantage of girls though but it's like she feels there is no harm in the gift he bought for them saying if he calls for another gift she'll go but I told her to be very careful cus giving him a chance like this, he can use it against her. She's 19 years of age. People with experience, what will you tell this young lady for me? (Send your relationship-related stories to [email protected] to be featured on the page.)

Let's have a little discussion today. How long do you think an ideal relationship should last before transitioning into marriage? #discussion

Hello, so I have been dating for almost 7 years with no signs of marriage. Anytime I bring it up he ignores or makes a joke of it or acts like i'm doing too much. His dad is very fond of me so I went to talk to him about it and he said he will talk to the son. He did that and my bf got mad at me over it. He has told me any chance I have of him marrying me is gone because I went to confide in his dad and he hates being told what to do. This guy has not broken up with me but is very cold with me. He talks to me like I am stupid and always insults me. Even when he is sleeping with me he treats me like I'm nothing and pushes me about. I'm smallish. I complained of pain and he acted like he didn't hear. I love him a lot and i've come very far with him to let him go. As for pregnancy it won't mean that he will marry me. He has a child with another woman and even with that I am the one who tells him to send them something for the child cos he himself he doesn't care. (Send your relationship-related stories to [email protected] to be featured on the page.)

I am almost 30. I have passed through a lot of pain that traumatized me growing up. My mom hated me cos maybe my dad left(I don't know if she had other reasons against me because I don't remember insulting or throwing a fist at her ever)  She always threatened to poison me whenever she was angry at me at the least provocation. She arrested me by telling the police that I threatened to kill her when I was 18(it is the day I will never forget in my life cos I never disrespected or had a quarrel with her before the arrest — I was so shocked when I was interrogated the next day after the arrest that she reported that I threatened to kill her... During the arrest she made the buffalo people beat me, handcuffed me behind and me me sit on the cuffs in the car...the tears I shed was uncontrollable but she never felt remorse for her actions when she was in the car taking me to the station) I have suffered so much pain. In 2018 she disowned me and sacked me from home after I sent her a message trying to find out why she arrested me her biological first born(son). I have tried to find motherly love in relationships but got disappointed from the two ladies I dated. I gave my all but they disrespected me (through cheating) at last maybe because I cared and helped too much. Right now I feel like nobody in my family or friends zone cares about me. For 6 years now, nobody knows where I live and it is sad.  I want to leave this country for another African country since I can't afford an European or UAE hustle. I just want to go anywhere to live my life. I don't want anyone to know where I work and live. I have in mind that I'm alone with God. I want to face life far away. Here in Ghana, I can work but I don't want to be seen by my people doing menial jobs. I want to make it in life but not through sacrifice somebody's blood. I want to work even if it takes me to be in the sun selling anything 7 days a week to make ends meet. I don't care sleeping outside to face this hustle. Please help me decide some of the safest west African countries for expats

Please, Keep me anonymous. Alert me after posting please. I really need advise on something very important, I've known this lady for nearly 5 years now and we have a very beautiful girl together, I was planning to do the customary marriage this year maybe July, but i found out few weeks ago that she's still communicating with her ex which really turned me off, wont lie .  The problem now is , we were dating before we got admission into the same tertiary institution, but she got pregnant after first year, so, I helped her defer the course and went home  and delivered and I brought her back to school to continue, now level 300 and I'm in my final year, she missed her period and complained to me and I encouraged her to go for a test and it came out positive, she's pregnant again after 2 years of giving birth.  I don't have a problem with the pregnancy, because I can support her to finish off the final year left, but she insisting  we should terminate the pregnancy but i was planning to go ahead with the customary rites (marriage),what's should I do please..  Allow her terminate and we both move on or she should keep the pregnancy and go on with the marriage plans...  Thanks for the time fam...  (Send your relationship-related stories to [email protected] to be featured on the page.)

The man whose wife-to-be is HIV+, I am married to one myself. I'm not one to share my personal stories on platforms but yours touched me so I wanted to share. I have been married for 6 years. We have 3 kids and my wife is HIV+ I knew from the onset and we still went ahead with it because of a lot of education and counselling we got. None of our kids have it. I don't have it. She is strong and healthy and very health-conscious that she makes me exercise with her and watch our health. There are people having a lot of chronic diseases who are living daily and taking life one day at a time. Your lady should have told you, yes. But I understand her fear. If she is genuine and you love her, forgive her and marry her. It's not as bad as society makes it look like, especially if she takes her drugs religiously like my wife does. Listen. Only me and very immediate family knows she has it and she is fine. Accept her, keep it a secret and walk with her on this journey. You will be surprised how much she will appreciate you and treat you well. Read more on the progress that has happened in HIV now. I have left my contact for the admin to give to you if you want to talk. Stay safe. (Send your relationship-related stories to [email protected] to be featured on the page.)