DIYORBEK'S SCHOOL

In some countries, marriages are arranged by the parents but in other cases, people choose their own marriage partners. Discuss both systems and state which you think is better.

In parts of the world, parents can determine the lifelong partner of their son or daughter while some individuals feel free to do this by themselves. Leading to a life with someone who was chosen by our parents is safe, however, regarding love and desire to have a happy life, i go for the latter standpoint. It should be acknowledged that parents are experienced enough to find a partner for us. Because of a long term life experience, most of the time, couples who were engaged by the attempt of their parents are more likely to lead a secure life. Specifically, this system is reliable since parents carry out this marriage by making an informed decision. This provides new couples with a safe familly environment where they can live happily understanding each other. Admittedly, parents do not want to witness the saying of “laugh now, cry later” which often stems from love, affectionate and too much ambition. Due to the modern era and different way of worldview, the number of people who decide a lifelong partner on their own is notably increasing. Whether someone chooses his or her partner means they have known one another for sometime, and most importantly they have in common with certain extent. For example, expectations of two parties mach with each other and they have already agreed with certain stuff such as career, work or caring the youngsters. The final important aspect is we do love and respect, forgive the mistakes of our loved ones. Because of these, I do believe choosing our partner with a strong desire not being forced can guarantee a beautiful life. In conclusion, although our parents are experienced enough to determine our partner, people should decide by themselves on this matter. By: Mr. Diyorbek 291 words