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Cory Smith (aka PUA_DATING_TIPS) is the author of over 10 books on the subject of meeting and seducing women. Many of his books have reached Amazonâs #1 best-seller lists. Cory has dedicated over 10 years of his life to approaching over 4,000 women.
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PUT YOURSELF FIRST
If youâre in the path of achieving important life goals, and your life purpose, but some woman is getting in the way of that then you have to let her go. YOUR GOALS AND LIFE PURPOSE COME FIRST. This is absolutely essential to understand.
Women are too busy obsessing over themselves to give too many fucks about you. If you donât care about yourself then you will be lost, because thatâs a job that no one else can do for you but you! No one else can care as much about you rather than you. If you donât fight for you then you will be lost.
Prioritize yourself. The last thing you want to do is to spend an entire day involved with low priority tasks instead of high priority tasks. High priority (high return-on-investment) goals should never be at the mercy of low priority (low ROI) goals. At the end of your life, when you are on your death bed: you donât want to look back, and realize that all of it was spent on idle meaningless activities.
The irony is that by having priorities that are more important than her then she becomes more attracted - not less. A woman wants to be a support to a manâs mission; she resents being the mission itself. Hence, it has been said that one of the best ways to pickup women is not need to pickup women. Those who are thirsty, donât get to drink.
While you on your life purpose, youâre infinitely more attractive than when your life purpose is to seduce women. A zest for life and being passionate about a meaningful life purpose doesnât just make life more enjoyable, but it makes you incredibly sexier to women. This allows for women to live vicariously through you and being sucked in to your reality, not the other way around.
When you look at the qualities that women find attractive in a man, they have a common denominator of a man on his path:
⢠Ambition,
⢠Going places in life,
⢠Driven,
⢠Passion,
⢠Has sh*t going on besides her,
⢠Strong Frame,
Movies cultivate feelings of oneitis because they imply that the purpose of life (the highest ideal) is to just have a beautiful woman, or an orbit of beautiful women. While this is certainly a goal, it should not be the purpose of life itself. There is more to life than just p****.
A woman resents being treated like a goddess because she intuitively knows that she is a flawed creature. Making her the center of your world will quickly result in her not being in your world anymore. You have to play the game according to a womanâs nature, and her nature is that she resents being the destination because it prevents her from being fulfilled as a feminine woman.
Further, a woman resents the submissive man who plays the game according to her rules. Even an avid feminist, resents controlling the man that sheâs involved with. Be uncontrollable.
⢠Knowing that you have a set of high-demand correlated skills that generate value on command and make you highly desirable commodity in the sexual market place. The knowledge that you can go out on any day, and after a few hours meet a new amazing woman, who you have chemistry with, is incredibly important to have as a man. You want her, but you donât need her because you can meet another girl (just like her, or even better) within a day or two.
⢠UNDERSTAND THIS RIGHT NOW: Men with more SEXUAL HUSTLE, get laid more than master theorists who donât even go out. You need to hit the field because input determines output. Have a system that has been field-tested to work with women. Be highly aggressive in going after what you want in life. If you donât go out and meet women, no amount of theory can help you.
â˘Know that you can accomplish anything that you set your mind to accomplish. Unlimit yourself from limiting beliefs that state otherwise. Since your childhood you have been conditioned to believe that you are weak, and incapable; you have been trained to conform to the sheep around you. You have been turned to yet another sheep among the masses of brainwashed sheep. Now as an adult, itâs imperative that you take off the chains. Regardless of how dark your past was, START AGAIN MOFO!!! Embrace your APEX PREDATOR BEAST identity.
This comes down to a few key behaviors:
⢠- Behaving like the 10 that you are.
⢠- Having other viable options besides her (aka internalized abundance).
⢠- Having a lifestyle where you meet and flirt with new women, so your skills stay as sharp as a Katana.
⢠- Holding the âI am the prizeâ mindset that is the cornerstone of sexy confidence. Hold this mindset especially in the face of shit-tests. In fact, donât even flinch in the face of shit-tests. THIS IS KEY!!!
⢠- Putting yourself on the pedestal
⢠- Not kissing her ass.
⢠- Exuding powerful, dominant body-language at the very and staying Alpha throughout. Be unapologetic about your highly dominant body-language and apex alpha male presence.
⢠- NOT becoming a weak soy boy once the sexual relationship intensifies; HOLD THE FRAME. Once feelings are developed, an Alpha can quickly turn into a Beta Simp; donât let oneitis turn you weak. Donât stop developing your game skills and sexual market value, just because youâre in a relationship.
⢠- Being a man on his purpose, living his dream, pursuing his vision, and executing daily goals. Part of being a man of success is being a man on his mission in life, and having a higher purpose other than her pussy. Women want to be helpers to your meaningful mission, not the mission itself. The faster you understand and implement this, the faster you can live a life of happiness. After all, happiness comes from making consistent substantial progress towards a meaningful purpose.
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WHY CREATING UNCERTAINTY WORKS WITH WOMEN
When a woman is uncertain about you, she will be at her best to get to certainty and to âlock you downâ.
⢠Certainty gives boredom. And boredom kills relationships. Women feed on drama, adventure, and having sh** to brag about to their female friends.
⢠When she knows that she has you by the balls, she will no longer put in her A GAME to win you over. The excitement of the chase is over. When she stops trying, she stops caring. A cat doesnât chase a string that it has already caught; a cat only chases dangling strings that might get away. The moment the cat catches the string, it stops chasing, gets bored, loses interest, and starts doing other things. This is why push/pull is an essential part of attraction-generating techniques.
⢠Create rapport (string is shown).
⢠Break rapport (string is pulled away).
⢠Repeat (push/pull).
Donât take this personally. This is just how female nature functions. You wouldnât blame a snake for biting you because thatâs what snakes do! Likewise, itâs pointless to get bitter over over the darker side of female nature; instead, use and channel it to your advantage. Understand her psychology and use it as a force for your own seductive advantage.
⢠Donât get bitter. Get better.
⢠Donât let a rejection get you down. Use it as immediate sexual marketplace feedback to refine your sexual mating strategy.
KEEPING HER GUESSING KEEPS HER EXCITED
Hence, a dosage of dread is healthy for the relationship. She should know that your value in the sexual marketplace is high. You have other options besides her. This is what will keep her excited to fight to win you over, and to wonder about you when youâre not there.
⢠âDoes he like me? Does he like me not?â
⢠âWhat is he doing now?â
⢠âIs he seeing other girls besides me?â
⢠âWhat is the new girl that he is seeing?â
THIS IS KEY: The more a woman thinks about you when youâre not around, the more she slowly starts falling for you.
Women donât wonder about men that they have certainty over. They think about men they are trying to figure out. Her imagination will do more for you seductively than full-disclosure. Donât always give women direct answers to their questions that reveal all the cards; leave enough hidden to keep them curious about f the truth out of you.
Psychological investment = amplifies attraction.
An ounce of mystery creates a pound of curiosity.Â
GIVE HER HOOPS TO JUMP THROUGH
Hence, donât be a nice guy who is afraid to get favors from women because he doesnât want to be an âannoying burdenâ.
⢠Flip the script. You are the important one in the interaction.
⢠You are the prize to be one. You are the one to be won over.
Have her jump hoops to earn your approval, and then grant it. Women value what they work for. When they finally win the prize (you) theyâll appreciate you a lot more than if it was granted to them on a silver platter initially for free.
Youâre at a social event and you see this young woman standing by herself, right next to the bartender. Sheâs sexy. You want to feel your penis inside her. âI should go talk to her,â a part of your mind says. But you canât bring yourself to do shit because of your paralyzing anxiety and fear.
What if I told you there was a way to never feel approach anxiety again?
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I still remember one of the first cold approaches that I have ever done. I was so nervous that my entire body was literally trembling. It was terrifying. I walked up, delivering my opening line, and then ran away like a cat with a tail stuck between her legs. I remember traveling to a far side of the city to approach beautiful women, but then not even approaching a single one because I was so afraid.
Fast forward thousands of approaches later, I can approach any woman at any location at any time - without feeling anxious. The ability to meet women anywhere that I go makes even a simple trip to the grocery store an exciting adventure. The next woman I approach could be a fuck buddy. When traveling, I am never bored because I can easily interact with the women at those locations.
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Introvert Strengths
Deep work capacity
Critical thinking abilities
Non-neediness
#01) Deep work capacity.
The introvert has the capacity to spend a lot of time in solitude and that allows him to focus on a specific activity for hours upon hours to achieve a specific goal.
The ability to retain razor focus towards oneâs goals for long stretches of time and completely shut out the outside world is paramount to success. Remember we live in a society that makes millions of dollars in trying to distract you into falling into the consumerism trap (and other goal distractions). Achieving your clear goals is defined as success; everything else is noise and commentary.
#02) Critical thinking abilities.
The introvert is able to spend a large amount of time in solitude to reflect deeply upon his experiences to mine them for lessons and use what he learns to refine his current mating strategy. This is because, unlike the extrovert, the introvert does not have a need for constant stimulation; the introvert is able to laser focus on what needs to be done, despite an absence of stimulation and social interaction.
An extrovert is more likely to impulsively and instinctually react to a situation - without stopping to ponder and think about what the best course of action would be. Reckless thoughtless action can sometimes yield catastrophic results - or at the very least inefficient effort. In contrast, an introvert is more thoughtful. When a situation arises, he is more likely to think before jumping in with the questions:
⢠âWhat is my goal in this situation?â,
⢠âWhat is the best strategy to achieve this goal?â,
⢠âWhat is the agenda and needs of the person that I meeting with?â
⢠âIs there a way for me to create a mutually beneficial alliance so that my goals and the goals of the person I am dealing with are both achieved?â
⢠âIn terms of what I want from this individual where I am at versus where are they at?â
⢠âWhat are some of their passions, and core values?â This way I can engage in the interaction by talking about common interests, connect on shared values, and then (potentially) pitch by agenda in a smooth manner (sometimes non-verbally) - whether thatâs a greater level of physical intimacy or a business deal.
#03) Non-neediness.
The Introvert is better able to deal with being alone for long periods of time. Sometimes it is necessary for one to isolate himself from society so that he can take care of shit that needs to be taken care of. An introvert is better able to do that than an extrovert can.
DEEP WORK is an essential component of success in any field. One must be able to isolate himself from society for several hours a day to work with intense laser focus towards his goals. Dealing with people during this time will simply distract.
Neediness is a trait that is absolutely disgusting to women because needy men are perceived to be weak, without options, and low in social status. Neediness is also exhausting to be around. One of the advantages of an introvert is that he doesnât need people as much as extroverts do and thus he is able to emotionally and psychologically detach himself from sexually charged situations. This level of non-neediness can be quite attractive to women.2
A note about neediness
Itâs important to note that neediness is NOT to be confused with showing sexual intent. Do not have the false premise that showing sexual intentions towards a woman is being âneedyâ. It is important to show that you are sexually interested in being with a woman. And that is NOT considered to be âuncoolâ or âneedyâ.
The difference between interest and desperation is the level of intensity.
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Technique #20.1: leave juicy bait.
A good conversationalist makes it easy for women to respond to him by: using bait (enticing teasers that women will be tempted to inquire about; if you casually mention just coming back from London then a woman will inquire about that; if you make a mysterious cold-read about her personality that she doesnât fully understand then sheâll ask you to explain it - thus falling deeper into a conversation with you).
Talking about trending, high-demand, hot subjects that women generally find highly interesting (discussing Algebra will most likely put women to sleep, but talking about the 2021 election clown-show debate leads to a lively verbal response), triggering visceral emotions (âNo one texts faster than an angry woman.â, and ultra bold language (that is triggering to the point where a woman almost canât stop herself from responding - falling into the seducerâs frame in the process).
And if all else fails negging (by making a statement that compromises a womanâs ego - either playfully or âaccidentallyâ, she will use verbally respond to defend herself so that she can continue to feel important. Keep in mind that negs are âthrow and goâ; if they come across an insult then a woman will either eject from the interaction or insult you back and then eject.
The incorrect use of negs can lead to a verbal harassment charge, so be smart). BAITING. Make having a conversation with you EASY. She shouldnât have to strain herself to come up with something to reply back to you; it should ideally flow naturally.
One way to do this is to leave âtempting baitâ in what you are saying. Youâll find that when a girl likes you, itâs much easier to hold down a conversation because sheâs contributing on her part and leaving enticing âconversation baitâ - to make it tempting for you to keep talking to her.
Play along the fantasy she desires to see. Leverage sexy stereotypes and her imagination.
ADOPT A SEXY STEREOTYPE THAT IS BASED ON THE DESIRES AND WANTS OF THE DEMOGRAPHIC OF THE WOMAN THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN. Understand that women respond to their imagination of you more than the objective reality of who you are.
AS A MAN, YOU CAN BE MANY THINGS TO WOMEN, BUT YOU CANNOT BE BORING. Being boring is the cardinal sin of dealing with women. Playing it safe, predictable, and nice is playing it boring. You need to START TAKING RISKS in interactions with women. Be edgy. Polarize. START DRIPPING WITH PERSONALITY. Bare your naked soul. Express yourself freely and fully. Take on intriguing hobbies and develop an identity that women will find interesting.
3 SPECIFIC EXAMPLES ABOUT PREEMPTING WOMEN'S BEHAVIORS WITH COUNTER MEASURES DESIGNED TO AMPLIFY HER LEVELS OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION FOR YOU
1. For instance: if you know that asking a woman for permission before doing something will lead to her losing respect for your authority and ultimately resulting in lackluster sex, then you'll immediately cease this beta male behavior. Be a leader - not an approval seeking simp. Be a decisive warrior - not a soy boy. A woman wants to look up to her man and be challenged (she resents being able to control a man like she controls a dog on a leash), so put yourself on a pedestal and don't ask her permission to do what you have to do.
2. Another example: if you know that saying "sorry" sets a precedent for more simp like behavior, then you'll avoid unnecessarily apologizing for your existence. Apologizing is beta male behavior that comes from insecurity and self-doubt (the exact opposite of confidence). Expressions of self-doubt and weakness absolutely disgust women - just like men are disgusted by expressions of obesity. Stop saying "sorry" (a word that kills the vibe), and start OWNING IT. For every word that comes out of your mouth, own it 100%. When dealing with women, exude extreme confidence. YOU ARE A FUCKING 10, SO ACT LIKE IT. YOU ARE THE PRIZE TO BE WON, SO BEHAVE ACCORDINGLY.
3. Final example: if you know that giving into a woman's Boundary Pushes, only reinforces her negative behavior and will embolden her to progressive violate even more of your boundaries, you won't stand for her bullshit. The more disrespect you put up with, the more she will disrespect you in the future. Here is a savage truth about women: they don't respect men that they walk all over - like a doormat. If a woman treats a man like shit, she will start to believe that he is shit. Don't be a fucking pushover. Don't put up with bullshit. Call women out on their BS behavior. Communicate boundaries clearly, and be willing to walk if they're violated.
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF. This is a job that only you can do for yourself because women are too busy obsessing over themselves. Everyone is out for his own skin. It's imperative that you look out for YOUR SKIN
Women see the world through emotional lenses. Feeling something is true is enough for it "to be true" - to a certain extent. Women use their emotions as a guiding system to navigate their behaviors, and to "perceive the world with". Men that are able to express themselves on an emotional level will be able to communicate in a manner that really resonates with women.
LAW #52: Leverage silence.
Learn to use silence to your advantage. What you donât say is as important as what you do say. Silence itself is a response. Learn to leverage silence.
Keep in mind that NOT everything a woman says is worth deciphering. Often a woman will vomit an entire series of random nonsense that doesn't matter at all and doesn't have any deeper meaning. Never underestimate the incredible effectiveness of ignoring a woman, as a frame control tactic.
Using silence as a communication weapon will save you from a lot of time-wasting drama. Simply ignoring a woman at the right times will save you a lot of unnecessary pain-in-the-asses. The use of silence is especially golden during shit-tests; when a woman says some stupid drama-creating bullshit then just ignore it, and misdirect her attention to something else - to save yourself the headache.
Ignoring female bullshit will save you a lot of headaches.
What you reward with your attention tends to be reinforced. So itâs important to bring attention to positive behaviors, and disregard negative behaviors (even avoid mentioning them entirely. Attention is the currency that women crave, and what you give attention to: will be repeated. This is why it is best to not give credibility to negative behaviors by discussing them .
There are certain specific moments in your communication with a woman where it will be of tremendous benefit for you to be able to understand the true meaning behind the signals that women send out. The key is to pay attention to what matters, and disregard the irrelevant bullshit that doesnât matter.
The 5 Key Rules of Frame Control
#1) Not everything a woman says is worth acknowledging.
#2) You donât owe a woman anything - not even closure.
#3) Not everything a woman says is worth responding to verbally or emotionally.
#4) Not every question a woman asks is worth answering.
#5) You can redirect a womanâs stupid questions with either a sarcastic answer, or a question of your own.
Learning to say ânoâ and just ignoring her shit, will save you from tons of female drama and bullshit.
This is an excerpt from Forbidden Techniques of Frame Control. The Immutable 20 Laws of Frame Control: He Who Controls the Frame, Controls the Game.
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The Feminine Communication Style
Women say whatâs on their heart. They talk based on how they feel at the moment.
Their words often donât have weight to them because women donât follow a code of honor. Womenâs verbalized thoughts donât have consistency because emotions are volatile. She can say that she loves you today, but a few days later break up with you. What she really meant is that she loves what you represent, the feelings that you make her feel, the value that you give (not you per se) and sheâll continue to love you - as long as you continue to give her those things.
4 DISRUPTION FACTORS
It can be hard to decipher the true meaning behind a womanâs words because:
even the woman herself doesnât understand half the vomit that comes out of her mouth,
women buy into their own bullshit and can have strong frames themselves,
the woman herself will often say things that if taken at face-value are very misleading, her words are based on how she feels at the moment and how she feels is liable to change.
A woman actions and words are based on how she is feeling at the moment; just like her feelings are liable to change, so are her actions and words liable to quickly change from extreme to extreme. Women mean what they say but only at that moment - when she feels what she feels then. After all, women live entirely on the emotions of the moment. A womanâs opinions and behaviors can change as soon as her feelings change.
In post breakups, women will often rewrite history in a manner that conveniently forgets the positive things that their ex-boyfriend did, and embellishes the negative things that were done.Â
The key to understanding how women communicate is to understand that women live in the emotions of the moment.
According to her, if something feels true then it is true.Â
If doing something feels good then she will do it.Â
To communicate on a womanâs level then show how being with you is the most enjoyable and fun option for her; demonstrate, donât just explain.Â
To speak Womenese, minimize logical lectures and instead communicate in a manner that is emotionally expressive. Touch a womanâs emotional buttons through good story-telling, taboo words MOTHERFUCKER, and a style of communication designed for emotional impactfulness. Women perceive the world through their feelings, so a style of communication designed to trigger a womanâs emotions will be more impactful than a style of communication that is logical and emotionally dry. This can be hard for high IQ men to implement because they are used to communicating solely on a logical plane, and completely disregard the emotional plane; to go from one world, to another world can be quite challenging for them.
1 When looking into a womanâs social media account, only casually skim it for a maximum of five minutes - just to get a sense of what her core values are, what her hobbies are, what her ambitions are and so on. Itâs extremely unhealthy behavior to constantly be checking a womanâs social media accounts and to comment with pedestalizing comments like the hordes of other thirsty men. By pedestalizing a woman with your behaviors, you end up pedestalizing her in your heart and mind. Female influencers donât respect their followers and certainly wonât respect a thirsty guy writing thirsty comments. Donât waste your life living through the social media posts of someone else. Skim through casually for 5 minutes to gather some actionable-intel (about a woman who you are already communicating with in person in real life) but donât spend any more time than that.
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LAW #42: To attract women, become attractive. Be positive, socially competent, confident, and stylish.
Men that are positive are FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE to women than men that have pessimistic perspectives on life. Having basic social skills is necessary for dealing with people - women included. Having an active social life will inherently lead to having strong game skills. Donât isolate yourself from society and stop developing yourself, the moment you get a girlfriend.Â
If you have no real-world friends who you meet up with then yes, thatâs a red-flag that you need to socialize more. There are real benefits to having a peer support network - besides ample opportunities to sharpen your social skills. Further, one of the fastest ways to get strong social skills is to spend time with people who have strong social skills - role-modeling after them. Avoid spending time with socially inept fucking weirdos because that would only lead you to internalize their anti-game behavioral tendencies.
It's amazing how often basic rules of conduct are ignored like:Â
hold eye-contact,Â
articulate clearly,Â
have a strong, firm handshake,Â
keep your head held high,Â
donât look down like a beta,Â
stand straight,Â
wear clean clothes (women do notice subtle details),Â
shower daily to ensure you smell nice,Â
don't monopolize a conversation,
donât be clingy in conversations and âwear out your welcomeâ,
don't dress like a retard,Â
don't be a downer by focusing on the negatives in life,Â
donât be bitter by speaking badly about people,
donât bring up strange subjects like serial killers,
donât bring up gross subjects like farts and feces,
donât be socially awkward by being fucking weird and oblivious to the unofficial rules of dealing with people,
Yes, women will notice if you have:
greasy hair,
unkempt hair,
long nails,
smiling too often,
nodding too frequently,
licking your lips frequently,
being dressed oddly, and
dirty or stained clothing.
These subtle details reveal a lot about a man. If you look like shit, then women will find you creepy. Women will judge you within the first half a second of seeing you.
Dress impeccably. Not because you need her validation, or care what she thinks. But because you understand the importance of perception management & strong game skills when it comes to banging pussy in general.
By taking care of yourself (personal grooming, basic self-care behaviors such as good hygiene, being financially independent, etc.) you reveal the capacity to take care of others.
SOCIAL LEARNING THEORY
Share something personal about your life but make sure that it is amusing and has a funny/bold ending to it. By sharing something about your life, you are inviting her to share something about her life too. After all, according to American-Canadian psychologist Albert Bandura people learn best by role-modeling after observed behaviors. A woman is more likely to learn by seeing a demonstration of proper behavior than she is by listening to an explanation of proper behavior.
On an advanced note, sometimes you want to give sarcastic and evasive answers to women to encourage them to prod more and to spike intrigue by appearing more mysterious (See Law #2: Create desire by leaving a woman wanting more and utilizing the negation tactic).
Go first; then leverage reciprocity and mirroring.
LAW #9: Reciprocity is effective for instantly getting compliance.
Imagine two different situations:
Situation #1: immediately upon entering a restaurant, a waiter asks for you for a five dollar tip. âGet the fuck outta hereâ would be your initial response.
Situation #2: a waiter provides stellar prompt service throughout your meal - ensuring that youâre glass of orange juice is always filled, there are plenty of napkins, there are lots of extra condiments, you have a wide selection of bagels - and then after the meal is over, the waiter requests a five dollar tip. The latter situation is more likely to get compliance because value was given upfront for free, and then value was requested secondly.
Implement the Principle of Reciprocity
Women are more likely to give value when free value has already been given to them. Hence, give emotional and conversation value FIRST. Request emotional and conversational value SECOND.
Implement the Principle of Mirroring
What you put into an interaction is what you will get out of it because women will mirror your behavioral patterns. Put into a relationship the kinds of things that you would like to get out of a relationship.
This concept is relevant in having conversations with women:
If you want a woman to invest, be a shinning example for her to role model after.
If you want a woman to entertain you (and give value) when itâs her turn to talk, lead by example and say something that is entertaining (and value-giving) to her when you are talking.
Showcase the proper model of giving value, so that a woman will reciprocate by giving the same type of value that you gave her.
Share details about your life. Talk about exciting and funny things that are currently happening in your life. Explain interesting pieces of information that you have recently learned yourself.
Ask yourself:
What is a project that Iâm working on right now that Iâm passionate about?
What is something extraordinary that recently happened to me?
What is something new that I learned recently that completely changed my perspective on the world?
Discover the answers to these questions and then share them boldly. This will encourage her to share as well because of the effect of reciprocity and mirroring. A conversation will ensue.
This is an excerpt from Conversation Casanova Mastery.
đNEVER run out of things to say ever again!
đNEVER have long awkward silences that kill interactions ever again!
đNEVER be in a situation where you donât know what to say ever again!
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How to get a woman committed into a conversation: provoke a response by touching a nerve and tugging on a heart-string.
Bland statements donât elicit conversation responses but bold, polarizing and controversial statements do. BE POLARIZING.
When bold statements work, they work like a BANG!!Â
Emotion creates motion. Get it? E+MOTION.
If she feels something then that feeing will compel her to say something. The lesson is: provoke an emotional response to provoke a conversational response. PRESS HER EMOTIONAL BUTTONS.Â
If you are able to create an intense emotional state within a woman, she will not shut the fuck up. She will talk non-stop and be highly invested in continuing to talk with you. This is true even if she is âbusyâ and there are other guys in the scenario. [A woman in an intense emotional state is highly susceptible to being seduced because her logical mind is shut down. This is also known as High Buying Temperature and the Amygdala Hijack.] Here is a simple way to remember this concept: E-motions create conversational MOTIONS.
APATHY IS THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE. FEMALE INDIFFERENCE IS THE ENEMY.
During a conversation, when you make her feel something - anything at all - then you are drawing her into your world and making her psychologically invested in you. Emotions are addictive, create involvement and create emotional engagement.
In contrast, if a woman feels nothing, she will say nothing.
INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF HER EMOTIONAL STATE BY SPIKING HER EMOTIONS.
Focus on the telling of emotional information over the telling of factual information. She cares far more about the former because inducing higher emotional arousal makes her feel more alive.Â
Pump up intense emotions into her system by saying and doing things that increase emotional arousal; social scientists have confirmed that increasing emotional arousal increases enjoyment in life.
This tip is the opposite of what intellectuals tend to do. Friendly conversation is called being a bore. Don't be boring. Ensure that you sprinkle in highly-edgy, highly-emotionally-charged spikes into the conversation.
HOW TO FLIRT: CHALLENGE HER. A WOMANâS FRUSTRATION IS A FORM OF ATTRACTION TO YOU.
When you tease, playfully challenge, or neg a woman then you are getting her engaged into the interaction on an emotional level because now her ego is at stake. When youâve poked at her pride then she has to pump up her self-esteem by teasing you back; the mutual back-and-forth teasing gets a woman psychologically and emotionally invested into the interaction.
This the logic of flirting and is a far superior medium of communication to the apathetic, âI donât give a fuckâ response that bland, politically correct nice guys get.
Technique #14: The Cold Read
Making a cold read (or a warm read) boils down to making an intelligent, insight about her favorite subject: herself. Tell her something about herself that she didn't know before. Give her an insight about her current lifeâs situation that will blow her fucking mind.Â
Cold-reads are extremely effective conversation amplifiers. After all, there is no one in the world that she cares more about except herself. By revealing something about her that she didnât know before youâve given her a significant amount of benefit - one that will reciprocated by her giving conversational value of her own to benefit you!
Technique #14.2: The Dig Deeper Tactic
Listen attentively to what she says - both on an intellectual level and on an emotional level. Then paraphrase what she has already told you in your own words, and go deeper into that subject.
When a woman talks about herself, read between-the-lines and understand the implications. Think to yourself:Â
Why is that true?
Why is it important?
What are the implications and ramifications of what she said?
What does that say about who she is?
By thinking about these questions and possible answers, you will use your mind to generate insights. Then proceed to share the most interesting of these insights with the women who you are dealing with.
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4 Types of Cold Reads You Can Use
⢠- Comment on her energy levels. Does she have a lot of energy or is chill and calm?Â
⢠- Comment on her introversion or extroversion. Is she an introvert or an extrovert?Â
⢠- Comment on her accent, and take an educated guess as to where she is from. âYou have a strong accent. I can tell that you are from Russia.â You can take this a step further, and take a guess about what her age is. Regardless if you are wrong or right, she will be entertained and will wonder what lead you to come to that conclusion.
⢠- Comment on her Myers Briggs personality type.
What if She's Toxic?
Spending time on a woman who is a good sexual potential is like watering a seed that turns into a plant that bears fruits, but spending time on:
a toxic woman (with severe emotional baggage) ,
on a woman who has friend zoned,
on a woman who has low interest (and unavailable for in-person meetups),
on a woman who is perpetually in a bad mood and always finds things to complain about,
on a woman who has perpetual problems that she needs saving from because she is incredibly incompetent,
you is like watering a rock. Pouring more water is not going to magically change the rock into a plant; if you keep doing what youâre doing then youâll keep getting what youâre getting. You have to kick the rock to the curb, go find time-worthy seeds and never look back. Next level behaviors lead to next level results.
In the case of a toxic woman who is a relationship dead-end, itâs better to move on with your life, because no pussy is worth your peace of mind. Even if you fuck her, the psychological toll is not worth it, because thatâs psychological energy that you could have spent developing better leads that are of healthier connections.
No pussy is worth your self-respect , and sexual market-value. Even if you fuck her in the end, think about how youâve lost opportunities with other girls in the process.
Iâm about to say something that is incredibly politically incorrect (and should not be shared with blue-pilled male associates): women have different levels of quality in sexual relationships. Not every woman that you can fuck is worth fucking. Some low quality garbage should be left in the garbage.
In contrast, there are higher quality women out there that are worth getting into a long-term sexual relationship with.
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#1) Women make decisions and perceive the world through the medium of how they feel. By changing a womanâs mood, youâll be able to change a womanâs mind and behaviors. đ Control her emotions = control her perspective of the situation = control what she does.
#2) A lot of guys try to communicate with women through logical persuasion which falls on deaf ears on women who are emotional creatures. You have to learn to press a womanâs emotional buttons. đ Control her emotions = control her behaviors.
#3) A lot of guys canât even manage their own emotions yet they expect to manage a womanâs emotions. Mastery starts from within. By learning how to lead yourself, youâll learn how to lead other people - women and men included. đ By improving your own emotional state, youâll improve the emotional state of those around you.
#4) Even the most dominant of women, wants to be dominated by a stronger and more competent man. Lead the men and the women will follow. Lead a woman and sheâll get TURNED ON đĽ. Learn to be an effective leader by being competence, and leading with confidence. đ STRONG DOMINANCE CONVEYS INTENSE CONFIDENCE.
#5) What a woman says is not what she truly means because what she said was based on her current emotional state. As her current emotional state is subject to change, so does her thoughts on the subject matter. Donât take anything a woman says too seriously, or attribute it too much importance. Understand that a woman easily changes her mind, as easily as she changes her mood. đDONâT TAKE A WOMANâS WORDS AS PERMANENT.
Life is too short to take too long to make a move. GROW SOME BALLS and make a fucking move. Don't be one of those guys that needs to have endless conversations to nowhere - that span for many weeks - before you ask her out or endless dates before you physically escalate. Donât become texting penpals. Sheâll just use you for conversation, attention and free entertainment.
Put a price tag on yourself. She has to meetup at a reasonable time and make reasonable progress towards sexual intimacy or youâre moving on to prospects that donât have intimacy (or logistical) impediments.
A few properly placed and well-timed touches can make a woman aroused. Touch her in the right area on her skin during emotionally high moments. Use conversation as misdirection while touching her; bullshit baffles brains.
Don't just approach to have a nice conversation to nowhere. Approach with the intention of banging her. Consistently move the interaction forward closer to sex. Your time isn't free. Always be pushing the interaction closer towards sex. Don't be one of those guys who: - has endless conversations that lead to nowhere, - becomes the penpal chatting buddy that never makes a move or - waiting around for months hoping that things will work out in the end.
Often women don't know what they want until you show them what's possible. LEAD. Don't ask permission to "touch her". Just touch her during the course of the conversation and watch her respond with positive âĄď¸EXCITEMENT.
Always be advancing the interaction towards sex. Life is too short to be spend to be trapped in an endless conversation to nowhere or going on a dozen friendly dates. Always be moving things forward towards sex and if she resists repeatedly, NEXT HER.
Reading body-language is crucial. She could be DOWN TO FUCK RIGHT NOW but you are still busy having a conversation trying to create more attraction and more rapport. Don't be blind. Open your eyes to the signals she is sending and tailor your game accordingly. If she is down to fuck, donât run more attraction-generating game; just fucking close now!
Don't frame the touching as a big deal. Make it appear natural, spontaneous and smooth. Don't draw attention to it, or look at the touch while touching. The conversation will distract her from the touch being uploaded to her unconscious. Physical escalation creates excitement for women that encourages them to keep going in the interaction. One of the best times to touch a woman is when youâre making a point, or to reward her for good behavior. Start with smaller physical escalations before proceeding to bigger forms of physical escalation. âYou get a hug for that.â
This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's The Sexcalation System.
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Escalate the vibe to avoid falling into the friendzone.
It looks like a normal conversation to an untrained eye, but the daytime seducer is implementing a series of rapid-fire tactics, that will create an emotional connection that leads to legs being spread.
Guys that get friend-zoned:
donât escalate the vibe,
donât sexuality the conversation,
donât create a man-to-woman frame, and
donât flirt.
 âTouch early and touch oftenâ is a maxim in the seduction community. Touch is a form of physical communication that cannot be substituted by verbal communication. Create this pattern of continuous touching from the very start of the interaction.
 How you start an interaction is how the entire interaction will continue; likewise, how one starts a relationship with a woman sets the behavioral pattern of the entire relationship. Behaviors tend to reinforce themselves overtime. Ideally you want to start with a man-to-woman frame right away - rather than land into the friend zone and then have the hassle of changing behavioral patterns that have already been ingrained. If you donât touch her at all for a period of 15 minutes and then suddenly start touching, it can be strange to suddenly start touching her later on.
 How an interaction stats is how it will continue on. You want to start with the frame that you are just a touchy guy and naturally touch everyone as you communicate with them. Physical escalation is the bridge that separates men from boys, and lovers from friends.
 Touch her body. Make a move. Shamelessly touch her body with ultra confidence - like you expect automatic compliance. Assume that it will work and often it will. She desires your touch but she is too restricted by social conditioning to express this outright. Slut-shaming is still a cultural phenomenon, so women tend to be more promiscuous in private than in public.
You have to touch her body early and often because this is a vital element in the mating process. Get her hooked on the oxytocin that she feels upon skin-to-skin contact. Eventually, she will be hooked on the pleasure that your dick provides.
 When it comes to physical escalation, just make a move. Her body craves your touch. Donât rob her of this gift. Overtime increase the duration and intensity of the touch. You are having an unspoken physical conversation.
Pickup should be fun! Have a good time! Donât make it painful by being overly self-critical, neurotic, OCD, anxious about being judged, or self-conscious.
By entering into talkative state, youâll naturally say the right things in conversation. Talkative state is a certain state of mind that is conducive to being a conversationalist. One is able to enter this state of mind by warming up and doing some socializing.
Brief note on texting:
Practical application: when you get a text from a woman, donât take 5-10 minutes to ponder the best possible response that you can send her. This is a waste of your time and psychological energy. It takes away the fun of the interaction and turns it into a chess match.
Further: it can take more energy to remember to text her back than it takes to just text her back as soon as you read it. You are far better served by just responding instantly as soon as you read her text than having to exert unconscious energy to remember in your mind to text her later and unconsciously working on the âmost clever, value-givingâ text back. I advise not looking at your phoneâs texts until you ready to interact with women, so that you arenât put in a situation where you read texts, canât respond right away, postpone it for later, and then have your mind waste its energy.
When you have genuine fun in the field, you will be much more motivated to go out and interact with women (sustaining motivation in the long-term) than if you view it as a painful chore and a dangerous minefield.
A good approach appears like âit just happenedâ.
A good approach appears natural and spontaneous â not planned. A good pickup should not look like a pickup. A good pickup appears as if you are in the middle of doing something important, but you happened to notice something about her that overwhelmed you so much that you âcouldnât stop yourselfâ from sharing that thought.
After all, you are a highly social outgoing guy. You enjoy talking to people and meeting new people - as you go about your daily life. Even if you donât âget the girlâ, you still got an enjoyable experience that uplifted your spirits and made your day more awesome.Â
After talking to her for a bit, she ended up being so cool that you exchanged numbers so that you can invite her to fun events in the area that you are going to anyways because you have an exciting and fun lifestyle.
These guys are projecting themselves unto others - erroneously concluding that women are just like them and think just like them. Donât project your own mind unto women because women donât see the world as you do, and donât operate based on the same rules as you operate in. Donât assume women think a certain way - just because you think that way.
Itâs important that we establish the truth immediately that women might as well live on a different planet because of how different they are from men. Women speak womenese, motherfucker.
The way that a woman shows love to a man is different than the way a man shows love to a woman.
The way that a woman navigates through the world and makes decisions is entirely different than the way a man operates.
The way that a woman communicates is entirely different than the way a man communicates.
Women communicate in a secret language that is understand by other women and by men who fuck women. My goal with this book is to teach you how to decipher this secret language so that you can understand the meaning behind her words, and if you wanted to, could communicate to her in Womanese so she could TRULY UNDERSTAND YOUR THOUGHTS.
Remember: woman want to fuck guys who âjust get ITâ. If she has to explain what she means then inherently the guy âis a loser who doesnât get ITâ. Being a guy who âJUST GETS ITâ implies social proof, social intelligence, and status. Be that guy.1
The irony is that women expect a guy to just âget itâ without explaining what âitâ is. Theyâll shame men for reading seduction self-help books like this one that reveals the truth about women, while simultaneously reading advice columns in popular female magazine.
WHY DECODING A WOMANâS LANGUAGE MATTERS
Sun Tzu once said âIf you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.â Practical knowledge is potential power; applying practical knowledge in the field leads to actual power.
Itâs a tremendous help to have an acute understanding of âFemale OSâ operating system to be able to seduce her mind, and unlock her legs. Understand this well: dominating a womanâs mind leads to dominating her body.
Mind fuck her, body fuck her and then you OWN HER SOUL. To mind fuck her, you have to understand her mind. A womanâs communication is the window into seeing how her mind operates - so being able to decipher the truth behind her words is essential.
If you know how a woman thinks, her value system, her belief system, and her emotional-buttons then youâll be able predict how she will behave in response to your sequence of behaviors.
