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𝐊𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐠 𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐚𝐰 𝐤𝐚 𝐤𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐡𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐮𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐚𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐚 𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐢𝐧 𝐤𝐚...
Yung tipong:
✅ Tinetext ko araw-araw.
✅ Binibigyan ko ng regalo, palagi kang available para sa kanya.
✅ Dapat ipakita ko na “I’m the best guy for you”
Binibigay ko lahat thinking na sa efforts na lang ako babawi
kasi di naman ako gwapo o mayaman,
𝐛𝐚𝐤𝐚 𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐢𝐧 𝐧𝐢𝐲𝐚 𝐤𝐨 𝐩𝐚𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐤.
Pero habang tumatagal…
Feeling ko nattake advantage lang ako or
parang nasasayang lang yung efforts ko
kasi di naman ako nagugustuhan pabalik.
And then narealize ko...
Yung ganung klaseng panliligaw…
𝐏𝐮𝐭𝐬 𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧’𝐬 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.
Ganito kasi yun.
Chasing is rooted in fear.
Fear na baka walang ng ibang babae…
yung magbibigay sa akin ng respect and validation.
Now, pag pinilit mo yung sarili mo sa isang babae wala namang interest sayo...
Hindi ka nagiging loyal sa kanya.
You are forgetting your self-worth.
Then one night, I was reading something about Polarity.
"𝑴𝒆𝒏 𝒑𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒖𝒆. 𝑾𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆."
And yun yung nakahelp sa akin in order for me to flip the switch.
𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬:
👉 “Please pick me.”
👉 “Sana mapansin mo ko.”
👉 “I’ll prove I’m enough for you.”
𝐏𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐮𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬:
👉 “This is who I am.”
👉 “Eto itsura ng mundo ko, and I am inviting you.”
👉 “If gusto mo sumama, let’s go. If not, no worries.”
Ang laki ng difference.
One sounds needy…
The other one sounds confident.
Because chasing is about convincing her to choose you.
But when you are pursuing.
It’s about presenting who you really are then seeing if she chooses to meet you halfway.
And that’s when dating finally started to feel powerful for me...
Because I am now in control of my own dating life.
✔️ Hindi na ako naguguluhan kung gusto niya ako o hindi.
✔️ Hindi na rin ako nag sasayang ng oras at pera dahil umaasa ng pagkatagal tagal.
✔️ At ‘pag may babae na nag reciprocate ng interest alam ko na honest and genuine kasi hindi ko pinilit.
And I’ve seen the same results from men na ginagawa to.
All you need is one thing:
𝐏𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐮𝐞. 𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐞.
Because pursuing is not about convincing.
It’s about making the move to present yourself and invite her to your world. 🌹
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Paalam, Kuya Labz. Maraming salamat sa lahat. Hindi ka namin malilimutan. Hanggang sa muli nating pagkikita🤍🤍🤍
