The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck🤙

If you want to change your world, start by changing your words. @your_best_life_now

Read and enjoy🖤

The more I peer into the darkness, the brighter life gets, the quieter the world becomes

there is nothing to be afraid of. Ever.

You are great. Already. Whether you realize it or not. Whether anybody else realizes it or not.

The only way to be comfortable with death is to understand and see yourself as something bigger than yourself; to choose values that stretch beyond serving yourself, that are simple and immediate and controllable and tolerant of the chaotic world around you.

giving a fuck about something is the only thing that distracts us from the reality and inevitability of our own death

all the meaning in our life is shaped by this innate desire to never truly die.

Seek the truth for yourself, and I will meet you there.”

Commitment allows you to focus intently on a few highly important goals and achieve a greater degree of success than you otherwise would.

the more options we’re given, the less satisfied we become with whatever we choose, because we’re aware of all the other options we’re potentially forfeiting

If cheaters can’t express their shitty values, and show that those values have been overridden, then there’s no reason to believe that they can be trusted.

Trust is the most important ingredient in any relationship, for the simple reason that without trust, the relationship doesn’t actually mean anything.

Without conflict, there can be no trust.

Acts of love are valid only if they’re performed without conditions or expectations.

That would actually be a demonstration of love: taking responsibility for your own problems and not holding your partner responsible for them.

a healthy relationship is when two people solve their own problems in order to feel good about each other.

The problem is that we’re finding out that romantic love is kind of like cocaine

rejection actually makes our relationships better and our emotional lives healthier.