ፍቅርን በመጽሐፍ ቅዱስ

ABOUT SEX AND DATING A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them Sex, Some have even turned into Sex toys just to keep their man Let me be very open here....... Sex might not be the reason these guys walk away! Remove sex from a relationship and see that most girls don't have anything else to offer their men! Aside Sex,what do you have to offer to a man? Can you support him Spiritually? Can you Support him Physically/Financially? How about Mentally? All you do is Demand Money for Bags, Shoes,phones Clothes, and Outings. Making him spend unnecessarily What are you even bringing to the table? Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan about his future? Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life. Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man! Build your man to your Taste and stop looking for a ready made husband when you are not a ready made ስለ ወሲብ እና መጠናናት ብዙ ልጃገረዶች ወንዶቹ የግብረ ሥጋ ግንኙነት መፈጸም ባለመቻላቸው ብቻ ከነሱ እንደሚርቁ ያማርራሉ ፣ አንዳንዶች ወንድቸውን ለማቆየት ሲሉ ወደ ወሲብ መጫወቻነት ተለውጠዋል ። እዚህ በጣም ክፍት ልሁን....... እነዚህ ሰዎች የሚሄዱበት ምክንያት ወሲብ ላይሆን ይችላል! ወሲብን ከግንኙነት ያስወግዱ እና አብዛኛዎቹ ልጃገረዶች ለወንዶቻቸው የሚያቀርቡት ሌላ ምንም ነገር እንደሌላቸው ይመልከቱ! ከወሲብ በተጨማሪ ለወንድ ምን ማቅረብ አለቦት? በመንፈሳዊ ልትረዳው ትችላለህ? እሱን በአካል/በገንዘብ ልትደግፈው ትችላለህ? ስለ አእምሮ እንዴት ነው? የምታደርጉት ለቦርሳ፣ ለጫማ፣ ለስልክ አልባሳት እና ለመውጣት ገንዘብ መጠየቅ ብቻ ነው። ሳያስፈልግ እንዲያሳልፍ ማድረግ ወደ ጠረጴዛው እንኳን ምን ታመጣለህ? እሱን አስቀምጠህ ስለወደፊቱ ጊዜ እንዲያቅድ ረድተኸው ታውቃለህ? ሴት ለመሆን ሞክር አንድ ወንድ በቀሪው ህይወቱ በማጣቷ ሁልጊዜ ይጸጸታል. ያቺ ሴት ሁኚ ወንድሽ በሌላ ወንድ ሊያጣ በፍፁም የማይችለው! ሰውዎን ወደ ጣዕምዎ ይገንቡ እና ዝግጁ ባልሆኑ ጊዜ ዝግጁ ባልሆኑ ጊዜ መፈለግዎን ያቁሙ @edbornagain @relationship4christ

፦ እንዴት relationship ን ከእግዚአብሔር ቃል አንጻር እናስኪድ💏💏 💑ተከታታይ ጾታዊ ትምህርቶች 💑ማንን ላግባ? 💑 እንዴት r/ship በቅድስና እንያዝ 💑 pornography እና ሴጋ ጉዳቶቹ በሌሎችም ወሳኝ ርዕሶች ላይ እንማማራለን for any comment @edbornagain @relationship4christ

Loving the wrong person🥺,""* So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of the person they are currently in a relationship with. They know the relationship isn't working, but they refuse to leave because they feel they might be able to change the person. They believe they are willing to go to any length to ensure that the person continues to "love them". The hardest aspect is that they are doing everything in the hopes that the person would change, even when the person has no intention of changing in the first place. If you're in a relationship right now where the person is causing you more grief than happiness, then it's time to let them go. Accepting that things aren't working is the best approach to avoid getting hurt more in this type of relationship. It's crucial to admit to yourself that the relationship is in disrepair. I see so many people that are suffering in their current relationships because they refuse to face the reality of its true nature. If your current relationship isn't working, do me a favor and don't force it, the more you force it, the more you will end up hurting yourself in the long run. Nobody can take your happiness away if you don't want it taken away. Your happiness is in your hands; your happiness is dependent on you. If you don't want others to continue to mistreat you......you have the power to stop them. Take my advice and have the courage to leave the table when respect is no longer being served.🙏 Let's share to educate others 🙏🥺🫂 Fb.com

Everything in life has its own season and time. There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE. Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister. Think about this when you have time. Fb.com

Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage. 1. I'm too young for that. 2. Who cares about marriage. 3. I'm focused on my books. 4. I want to gather some money first. 5. Marriage is full of problems. These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age. But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys. No problem, God is watching you. At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions; 1. How far? 2. Don't you have any one yet ? 3. Are you not planning to get married ? 4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ? 5. Don't you know you are getting old? But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside. With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying, 1. Does it mean am old enough to marry? 2. Hmmm, how should I go about it? 3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage. 4. They are not even ready to marry yet. 5. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God. See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "God's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake. At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again. They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage. You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone. No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter. My sister, it matters a lot. Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too. Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us? That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them. At age 30-35, her friends will ask her: 1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours? 2. Is it not getting too late for you ? You will hear her asking you some silly questions like... 1. Are you God? 2. Or do you want to marry me? 3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35? 4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused? 5. God knows the best for everyone please. At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly. If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say: 1. My brother, I'm not like them. 2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating. 3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage. 4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern. Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents. You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there. Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you. Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.

ሚዛን ያልጠበቀ የአንድዮሽ ግንኙነት ምልክቶች (By Sara Kubburic) ማንኛውም ግንኙነት ትክክለኛና ሚዛናዊ እንዲሆን ሁለትዮሽ ሊሆን ይገባዋል፡፡ ይህም ማለት የሁለትን ሰዎች የጋራ መቀራረብ፣ መሰጠትና ጥረት የሚጠይቅ ነው፡፡ ሆኖም አንዳንድ ጊዜ በሁሉ ነገር የሚጦዘው አንደኛው ወገን ብቻ ሲሆን የሆነ የተዛባ ነገር እንዳለ ጠቋሚ ነው፡፡ 1. በስልክ፣ በአካልም ሆነ በቻት እናንተ ካላናገራችኋቸው እነሱ ንግግርን የማያነሳሱ ሰዎች . . . 2. አብሮ የማሳለፍን ጥያቄ እናንተ ካልጠየቃችሁና ካላነሳሳችሁ እነሱ በፍጹም ፍላጎት የማያሳዩና የማያነሳሳ ሰዎች . . . 3. አለመግባባት ሲፈጠር እናንተ ብቻ ይቅርታ ካልጠየቃችሁ ጥፋታቸው ሆኖ እንኳን በፍጹም ይቅርታ የማይጠይቁ ሰዎች . . . 4. ለሁሉም ሁኔታ መስዋእትነት ከፋዮች እናንተ እንድትሆኑ የሚጠብቁ ሰዎች . . . 5. ለግንኙነቱ ጤናማነት ሲባል መስዋእትነትን እናንተ ብቻ እየከፈላችሁ እነሱ ግን የማይከፍሉ ሰዎች . . . 6. እጅግ በጣም አስቸጋሪ የሆነውን ባህሪያቸውን ዝም ብላችሁ እንድትሸከሙ የሚፈልጉ ሰዎች . . . 7. ሆን ብለው በማንኛውም ጊዜ ትተዋችሁ ሊሄዱ እንደሚችሉ አይነት ስሜትን የሚሰጧችሁና ሰዎች . . . 8. የእናንተ ፍላጎትና ዓላማ ሙሉ በሙሉ በእነሱ ፍላጎትና ዓላማ ስር እንዲጠቃለል የሚፈልጉ ሰዎች . . . 9. ሁሉንም ነገር (ስራ፣ ጓደኛ፣ መዝናናት …) ከእናንተ የሚያስቀድሙ ሰዎች . . . 10. እናንተ እቅዳችሁን ከእነሱ አንጻር ስታወጡ እነሱ ግን ከራሳቸው አንጻር ብቻ የሚያወጡ ሰዎች፡፡ ሚዛኑ ይጠበቅ! Dr-Eyob-Mamo-

If you love a man more than God, he'll take you for granted and treat you as a piece of trash. Because he doesn't cherish you, he'll toy with your heart. Be so into God that it'll cost a man to pursue God before he gets your heart. Don't be so cheap that your price can be bought with sharwama, latest iphone or cash. Be like the Proverbs 31 woman whose price is far above rubies. If you love a man more than God, he becomes your idol and God hates idol worshippers. Do you still remember the Ten Commandments? Don't worship him, worship God. Love God with all your heart, soul, strength and mind; not a man, even your husband shouldn't take the place of God. 6. Waiting for a man to engage you before you feel complete This is another mistake ladies make. Let me shock you with this truth: you don't need a man to complete you, a man needs you to complement him. I'm not saying this to promote feminism. That God created the woman for the man doesn't mean the woman's life is a useless thing until she's married. Why should being single bother you when you can get a life now? Pursue your career. Learn a trade. Master your craft. Discover your God-given purpose. Fulfill it. Develop godly and enviable character. Build capacity. Be the best that you can be in what your hands find doing. But don't use your body sinfully. Allow God to make you a wholesome person before a man comes into your life. Don't rush to be engaged to a man when you're still an incomplete half. Be a complete single lady! When God makes you, you'll become the best fit for your man. But if you wait for a man to make you feel complete while important things are left unattended to in your life, you'll be deformed. 7. Depending solely on what MOG says while making marital decisions Men of God are not God, they are to lead you to God. Any MOG that leads you to himself is making himself a god and it's an offense that's punishable under Divine laws. Back to my gist, don't depend solely on what MOG says on who to marry. You can get access to God if you draw closer to Him. See, God hasn't gone on sabbatical leave, draw closer to Him and you'll discover that the only difference between you and MOG is their calling; which you must respect. But when it comes to choosing who to marry, don't wait on what they tell you. Know what God is saying too. If you depend solely on them, you'll be confused but when you hear God first, whatever they say would be a confirmation, a recheck or a neglect. May you never make an irredeemable mistake in life! What other things did you think I omitted? Kindly be generous to drop it below. Fr..fb.com

7 Regrettable Mistakes Ladies Make With Men It's commonly said and I quote, "A wise man learns from his mistakes and from the mistakes of others, but a foolish man doesn't learn from others and the mistakes he made". I love women dearly and I cherish them. Every reasonable man should do this. But my heart bleeds when I see them become recipients of relationship issues in the hands of men. If many of them were wise enough, they'd have learned from others mistakes before they find themselves in one. How I wished I have the power to prevent ladies from making mistakes but I trust this article to equip you if you adhere to the truths in it. Grab a bottle of chilled coke with your popcorn as I take you through these truths and it's my prayers that you won't make these mistakes. Let your Amen sound like thunder! 1. Giving him sex prior to marriage Do you know what sex means to a man? Shhhh! Let me tell you now. An average man wants sex from ladies but a real man needs lovemaking from his wife. Sex to a man is to ease his sexual urge or soften his sexual feelings when it comes. But you, sex to you means bonding. A man can have sex with many ladies and may not feel connected to any but a woman cannot have sex with men and not feel drawn to the one who did it well. Giving a man sex before marriage is like auctioning your body. No matter how rich you are, you can't test drive some cars, you must buy them. If you give a man sex before marriage, it doesn't mean he'll love you or marry you; you've only proven to him that you're cheap to get. Premarital sex is an outright evil. It reduces your worth as a lady. It destroys your body gradually. It's a sin against God and it has more far-reaching consequences. 2. Allowing him to press do-re-mi on your body Two areas of a woman's body that catches a man's attention are the Chelsea (breast) and Arsenal (buttocks). The third one is the face. When a man often presses do-re-mi on your body, he breaks down your wall of self-control until a day comes that he'll freely enter the place. Sebi, you know the place? If he touches you indecently once, take it as a mistake but if it reoccurs, it's intentional. And as such, give him that look that would call him to order but if you laugh sheepishly, he'll keep doing it until your mumu button will be activated for sex one day. 3. Taking "I will marry you" as a visa to marriage Who "I will marry you" epp? A man that has just said "I will marry you" is only making a promise and not a commitment. Action they say, speaks louder than words. Let his actions for marriage speak. Don't be stupefied by his promise. It's cheap to make promises but difficult to fulfill it. Lots of empty promises have made lots of ladies to give their all to a man who's only taking them for a ride. Please learn so that you can avoid stories that touches the heart. 4. Building your life around a man who sees no future in you Why would you do that? Until you're sure that a man is serious, don't take him serious or commit your heart to him. I make no apology for that. It's unwise to build your life around a man that's not taking you serious. Some men are only taking you for fun or using you to while away time because they're still single and searching or not ready for a serious relationship. By their fruits, you shall know them. He won't talk marriage with you. He won't discuss the future with you. He won't incorporate you into his life. All that he's going to talk about is pleasure, sex and fun! Be careful of such men, they're plenty, even inside the church you'd find them. Before you end up as being friendzoned, zone him out of your life. If you don't know how, I can recommend a surveyor for you to help you with that. 5. Loving a man more than God This is the greatest of all mistakes most ladies make. Many of you are so into a man that you have no place in God. You've given your all to him and God has no place in your life. This is foolishness of the highest order!

“ሕፃን ተወልዶልናልና"           — ኢሳይያስ 9፥6         አንድ ሕፃን ልጅ በመወለዱ የቤተሰቦቹ ደስታ ነው። ጌታ ኢየሱስ በመወለዱ የዓለሙ ሁሉ ደስታ ነው። ሕፃናት የዋህ ናቸው። ጌታ ኢየሱስ ትሁት ደግሞም የዋህ ነው። መወለዱ ሰዋዊ ማንነቱን ያሳየናል። እጅግ ትሁት በመሆኑ ከምድራዊ እናት ተወለደ።          የተወለደ ልጅ ለቤተሰቡ ደስታ ቢሆንም፣ ለወለዱት አደራ ቢሆንም ህይወቱ ግን የራሱ ናት። የተወለደው የራሱን ህይወት ሊኖር፣ ዓላማውን ሊያሳካ ነው። ጌታ ኢየሱስ የተወለደው እንደማንኛውም ሰው በልቶ ጠጥቶ፣ አድጎ ስራ ይዞ፣ አግብቶ ወልዶ ለመኖር ሳይሆን ስለእኛ ብሎ ለእኛ ተወልዷል። ዓላማው ለራሱ መኖር ሳይሆን ለእኛ መሞት ነበር።         ለእኛ ሲል በዚህች ጎስቋላ ምድር ላይ ሰላሳ ሶስት አመት ኖረ። እንደ ሰው እየተራመደ፣ እንደ ሰው እያሰበ፣ እንደ ሰው እየተናገረ፣ እንደ ሰው እየበላ እየጠጣ፣ እንደ ሰው እየተጠማ እየተራበ፣ እንደ ሰው እየደከመ፣ እንደ ሰው መከራ እየተቀበለ፣ እንደ ሰው ሞተ፣ እንደሰው ተቀበረ።         የሰውን ስጋ ሲለብስ ከዚያን ጊዜ ጀምሮ እኛ ምን እንደሚሰማን፣ በምን ውስጥ እንደምናልፍ ስቃያችንን ያውቃል። ከኃጢአት በቀር ሊኖረን የሚችለው ስሜት ሁሉ ነበረው። “ከኃጢአት በቀር በነገር ሁሉ እንደ እኛ የተፈተነ ነው እንጂ፥ በድካማችን ሊራራልን የማይችል ሊቀ ካህናት የለንም።” — ዕብራውያን 4፥15       ይህ የተወለደው ህፃኑ ኢየሱስ ምድራዊ መኖሪያ ስላልነበረው ዛሬም ለሚፈናቀሉት፣ ቤት አልባ ሆነው በአደባባይ ለተጣሉት መኖሪያ ሊሆናቸው ተወልዶላቸዋል። ይህ ህፃኑ ኢየሱስ ብዙዎች የተውትና ያገለሉት ነበር። ዛሬም ሰው ጀርባ ለሚሰጣቸው ብቸኝነት ለሚሰማቸው ሊረዳቸው ተወልዶላቸዋል። ይህ ኢየሱስ በስጋ ወራቱ የሚወዳቸውን እንደ አልዓዛር አይነቶቹን በሞት አጥቶ አዝኗል አልቅሷል። ወንድማቸውን በሞት ላጡት እህቶቹም ደርሶላቸዋል። ይህ ህፃኑ ኢየሱስ ዛሬም በሞት ልጃቸውን አጥተው በሀዘን ለተኮራመቱ፣ በሞት ወላጆቻቸውን አጥተው ሀዘን ለወረሳቸው መጽናኛ ሊሆን ተወልዶላቸዋል።        በጉድለታችሁ ሁሉ ሙላት ሊሆናችሁ ጌታችን ኢየሱስ ተወልዶላችኋል። እንኳን ደስ አላችሁ። መልካም በዓል ይሁንላችሁ!!                               ✍በአዶኒ

ሰላም እንዴት ናቹ  ሁሉ ሰላም ነው? ስሜን ለጊዜው ላቆይና በህይወቴ የገጠመኝን ነገር ላካፍላችው መጥቻለው እኔን ያጋጠመኝን ነገር ማንንም እንድያጋጥም አልፈልግም እና በመጀመሪያ እኔ በጌታ ነኝ አሁን ላይ የግቢ ተማሪ ነኝ ያለፈው ክረምት ወደ ቤት ለእረፍት በሄድኩበት ማህበራዊ ሚዲያ በጣም ነበር ማበዛው በተለይ #TIKTOK በአጋጣሚ አንድ አህዛብ ተዋወኩ ተመቸኝ እና ማውራት ጀመርኩ ብዙ ጊዜ ማወራው በ #Video call ነበር እያወራን 2 ወር ሆነን ሳላስበው ትኩረቴን አገልግሎቴን ሁሉ እርግፍ አርጌ ተውኩ ማለት ችላለው #Church ውስጥ በዝማሬ ነው ማገለግለው እና እሱ የሚኖረው ሸገር ነው እኔ ያለውት ሀዋሳ ነበር ከዛን ምን ተፈጠረ ሀዋሳ ልምጣ ሲለኝ ና አልኩት ቀጥሎ ምን አለኝ ስመጣ ግን #Sex እናደርጋለን አለኝ እኔ ደሞ አይሆንም ከትዳር በፊት ምንም አይነት ንክኪ አያስፈልግም ብዬ ግግም አልኩ እና እሺ እንቢ ካልሽ "#ሰውነትሽን ሙሉ ማየት ፈልጋለው" አለኝ አኔ አሁንም እንቢ አልኩት ምን ችግር አለው አናድርግ አላልኩም እኮ ማየት ብቻ ነው ምፈልገው ማየት ምን ችግር አለው ብሎ በጣም ብዙ ቀን ጠየቀኝ ከዛ #Videocall ደወለልኝ እና ክላስሽን ቆልፊ አለኝ እኔም ቆለፍኩ ከዛ ልብስሽን አውልቂና አሳይኝ ምንም ሳትፍሪ ብሎኝ አሳየውት ከዛ አንድ ቀን #Church ሄድኩ አንድ አገልጋይ መልእክት አመጣልኝ  አካሄድሽ ጥሩ አይደለም አላማሽን የሚያስጥልሽ ነው ተይ አለኝ ከሌላም አገልጋይ መልእክቱ ተደጋገመብኝ እና ውሳኔ መወሰን እንዳለብኝ ተሰማኝ በእግዚያብሄር ፊት ተፀፅቼ  አልቅሼ ተመለስኩ ደስ አለኝ  ለእሱም ነገርኩት መቀጠል እንደማልችል በጣም እንደተጎዳ ነገረኝ እና እኔ ምንም ማድረግ አልቻልኩም ነበር በቃ ተውኩት አሁን ላይ አስጨናቂ የሆነብኝ ነገር ምንድ ነው👉 ከሱ ጋር በ #Video call ስናወራ record አድረጎብኝ ነበር መሰለኝ እና በሱ እያስፈራራኝ ነው እና አያችው እንቢ ብሎ መተው ምን የህል ዋጋ እንዳለው በየ #Social media ቢሰራጭ የአንድ ሰው ጉዳት ብቻ አይደለም የቤተሰብ፥የጓደኛ፥የጎረቤትም ጭምር ነው አደራ ከኔ ተማሩ ዋጋ ያስከፍላል እና በጌታ ፍቅር ልለምናችው ፀሎት አድርጉልኝ🙏 ከእህታችሁ ብዙ ነገር እንደተማራችሁ ተስፋ አደርጋለው #1 የምታወሩትን የቀረባችሁትን ሰው ምረጡ #2 በጊዜው ለእግዚያብሄር ድምፅ ታዛዥ ሁኑ #3 ከማያምኑ ጋራ በማይመች አካሄድ የተጠመዳችሁ ዛሬውኑ ተመለሱ! እኔም የሚወራ ለእህቶቼ ማስተማሪያ የሚሆን ነገር አለኝ የምትሉ ማውራት ትችላላችሁ🙏 @relationship4christ #share @lebamsetoch