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Some of it, less so. But none of it moves just because you decided it should.
This is why real change doesn't start with willpower. It starts with understanding what's actually driving the behaviour in the first place — and that root is energy in movement: emotion.
Here's why emotion matters so much — not just the fact that we feel it, but the fact that emotion controls so much of our life. How we feel about something, consciously or subconsciously, shapes our choices before we've even realized we're choosing.
So the question becomes: what do we actually do with our emotions?
Emotion = Energy in Motion.
See why now, we need to work with our energy — not against it?
Love,
Esther
| 2 | Why you can't change behaviour by "just deciding to" - think about telling your children so...0.0
Yesterday we talked about the difference between personality and behaviour — and how behaviour is shaped by far more than just "which type" you are.
Today, let's talk about why this actually matters.
Most people want to change their behaviour — likely for the better. Some want to get something done. Take the action. Have the courage to finally do it. Manage the stress, the fear, whatever it is that's been holding them back.
You've probably tried. Told yourself "I'll stop doing this." "I need to be better at that." "I need to do this." And yet — it doesn't stick. Or worse, it works for a bit, and then the next thing that happens is you get too overwhelmed, and you can't keep going.
Why?
Because you can't change behaviour without understanding its root cause.
And here's why that root cause matters so much: behaviour is often the exact reason you can't take action, can't stay consistent, or keep stopping yourself from doing the very thing you're trying to do. It's why you say you'll do something — and then don't.
It's why you self-sabotage, even while watching yourself do it in real time.
Here's the part most people never get told: your behavioural patterns aren't just "you" — they're a combination of your energetic root + unconscious or subconscious action and choice.
And that combination doesn't shift just because you tell your brain to change.
Behaviour is ingrained. Some of it, deeply — passed down through lineage, felt through the body (this is the layer connected to your month and year pillars).
[Continue] | 23 |
| 3 | [Conti]
There are 10 different expressions of this — your 10 Gods — but even that's an oversimplification. Because your behaviour isn't just "which of the 10 you are." It's shaped by dynamic interactions within your chart — clashes, punishments, harm, destructions, and missing elements. All of these shift how a personality actually shows up as behaviour.
This is the part of Bazi most people never get to see.
Tomorrow, I'll talk about why understanding this matters — and how it actually affects the outcomes in your life.
Love,
Esther | 148 |
| 4 |  TODAY — Back to Basics: What is Bazi, really?
Let's go back to basics.
Bazi consists of 4 pillars. Together, they read the energies of a human being — not just your personality on the surface, but the full architecture underneath it.
These energies are made up of two things:
• What you've inherited from your lineage
• What you're meant for, karmically
Together, this combination creates your personality — the part of you that explains your strengths, your weaknesses, and answers the "why" behind your tendencies. Why you default to certain patterns. Why certain things always feel harder for you than they seem to for others.
But here's where most people stop — at personality. There's another layer most don't talk about: behaviour.
Behaviour is not personality. Behaviour is how you express your personality.
[Conti] | 150 |
| 5 | Yet, so many people trap themselves by saying, 'I can't change, I'm just quick-tempered.'
No. That's not your identity; that's just your energy expressing itself through a limited, congested channel.
Your personality—your potential and natural tendencies—is entirely different. It is the blueprint of your greatness.
Behaviour is simply the delivery system.
Example, when you see a clash, a punishment, or a harm in your chart—it does NOT mean you are doomed. It does NOT mean your personality is flawed.
A clash does not change who you are.
What it does is, it affect how you express who you are and often It creates turbulence in your internal environment—like stormy weather.
Love,
Esther | 241 |
| 6 |  Many confuses personality with behaviour.
Behaviour is closely connected to how you express yourself, but it is NOT who you are.
Take anger, for example. When you're in a state of rage, emotionally, it produces a behaviour that is aggressive, impatient, and reactive. But that behaviour is not your
personality—it's just the emotion delivering itself through action.
[Cont..] | 231 |
| 7 |  Hey everyone,
If your brain🧠 has felt like a browser with too many tabs open lately... this one's for you.
We're hosting a small, intimate healing afternoon designed to calm an overstimulated nervous system — no journalling, no talking, no goal-setting. Just a safe space to rest.🧘♀️
You'll move through:
🌿 Grounding meditation
🌬️ Breathwork
🍵 Tea art ceremony
🎶 Soundbath
✨ Reiki energy healing
🔮 Oracle guidance
Guided by Esther, Cindy & our friend Nat.💕
📅 25th July 2026
⏰ 4PM – 6PM
📍 Ru Yuan, TTDI
💰 RM269
⚠️ Limited to 7 pax only — this will fill up fast
Click here or DM us to reserve your spot 🤍 | 310 |
| 8 |  Hey everyone,
If your brain has felt like a browser with too many tabs open lately... this one's for you.🧠
We're hosting a small, intimate healing afternoon designed to calm an overstimulated nervous system — no journalling, no talking, no goal-setting. Just a safe space to rest.
You'll move through:
🌿 Grounding meditation
🌬️ Breathwork
🍵 Tea art ceremony
🎶 Soundbath
✨ Reiki energy healing
🔮 Oracle guidance
Guided by Esther, Cindy & our friend Nat.💕
📅 25th July 2026
⏰ 3PM – 5PM
📍 Ru Yuan, TTDI
💰 RM269
⚠️ Limited to 7 pax only — this will fill up fast
Click here to reserve your spot 🤍 | 2 |
| 9 | 🌤️ Guilty for being happy — anyone else?
Today I was walking alone in the park. Nothing dramatic, nothing planned. Just sun, slow steps, my own breath.
And somewhere in it, I noticed — I was really happy. Not the loud kind. The quiet kind that just sits in the chest like warmth.
As I walked, I noticed the people around me too. Some carrying invisible weight. Some smiling, but held together. Some not even trying to hide the heaviness.
And then, suddenly, a quiet guilt: "Why am I allowed to feel this good when others can't?"
That question hit deeper than expected. Because I know happiness isn't a limited resource — but something in me still flinched, like I was doing something unfair just by being okay.
But the guilt was never about others. It's a residue of unworthiness — an old belief that says if others are struggling, I shouldn't feel ease.
This is where years of my inner child work helped. A younger part of me once learned that joy could be interrupted, that safety had to be earned. So even now, when life softens, that part doesn't know what to do with it — it reaches for guilt, because guilt feels familiar. And when we don't notice that, we subconsciously find reasons — or even create situations — to make ourselves unhappy again, just to feel "normal."
Today, I didn't try to fix anything. I just let the guilt exist without letting it define me. I let the happiness stay. And I let my inner child know — this isn't me being unaligned. It's just an old emotional gap she's still carrying. Happiness was never something we earn after suffering enough.
So if you ever feel guilty for being okay while others aren't — pause, and connect with it. That feeling is your history speaking. It's how you feel — it's not who you are. It doesn't define you.
You're allowed to feel joy without apology. You're allowed to meet your inner child with presence, even on the days she isn't okay.
Healing isn't a single moment — it's a consistent practice of awareness and observation. 🤍
Love,
Esther | 292 |
| 10 | Here's something to share with you guys here about the upcoming Goat Month.. we are still at the fire season, but starting to decline from the Horse..
☀️🌙 Wu + Wei = Sun & Moon Combination
This coming month = Wei (Goat)
This year = Wu (Horse)
Together = one of Bazi's most spiritual pairings.
🔥 What It Means for Your Body
If Wei is in your chart, this month speaks to you directly.
• More Fire → driven, restless, impulsive. Watch for burnout.
• More Earth → grounded, calm, stuck. Watch for stagnation.
🌊 The Wu Wei Lesson
Not forcing. Not over-pushing. Knowing when to move. Knowing when to be still. Even the sun doesn't fight its descent.
💰 Financial Opportunities
Don't chase. Align.
• Fire high → act boldly. Launch. Initiate.
• Earth high → consolidate. Wait. Build foundation.
True abundance flows when you stop forcing and start flowing.
Love,
Esther | 290 |
| 11 |  You've done the journaling. The talk therapy. Read the books. You understand your patterns better than most people ever will.
And you still find yourself in the same loop.🫠🫠
_Snapping. Apologising. Overgiving. Lying awake. Repeating._
Here's what nobody tells you — insight alone doesn't change the body. Your nervous system doesn't speak in logic. It speaks in safety. And until your body feels safe, your mind will keep losing the argument.
That's the missing piece. And that's exactly what this evening is designed to give you.
*Inner Peace: Loving Your Inner Child*
A 90-minute in-person experience — breathwork, inner child practice, and sound healing — to help your body finally catch up with everything your mind already knows.
📅 Friday, 17 July 2026
🕗 8.00pm – 9.30pm
📍 Ru Yuan, TTDI
💛 Early Bird: RM 89 · Regular: RM 118
Seats are limited and going — book here:
https://hitpay.link/fndaru?express_checkout=true
We’ll see you 🤍
— Esther & Cindy | 286 |
| 12 | Just wondering, seeing that there’s just so many content and information circulating on bazi , I wonder what else are you guys interested in and looking for …. | 291 |
| 13 | Entering and welcoming the ashes of fire month…
coming July - is yi wei 乙未
Just like all Jia Zi , it speaks the certain manifestation of energy and also lesson
Check out more about Yi Wei month : read here
More to come..
Esther | 291 |
| 14 | [Cont]
By Day Master — here’s what to look out for 👇
🔥 Fire DM : Emotionally heightened, reactive, impulsive spending. Your nervous system is already running hot before anything even happens — sympathetic overdrive, fight mode. You’re likely able to make some decisions today but make sure it’s coming from a non RW angle.
💧 Water DM : Eyes may wide open suddenly. Anxious about money. Excited about things you can’t fully commit to yet. Thinking about things that have no grounding in what’s actually in front of you right now. That’s hypervigilance — your nervous system scanning for threat even when there isn’t one. Notice when the mind starts running scenarios that don’t exist yet.
🪨 Metal DM : Pressure pressure pressure. External expectations, past unresolved things, internal demands — all flooding in at once. Your system is braced, contracted — freeze-fight hybrid, waiting for impact. Slow the breath down. Long exhale. Metal’s remedy is literally the breath — let the chest open.
🌿 Wood DM : Performative ego rising. If your Wood is strong you’ll hold — but if it’s weak, watch for mental burnout disguised as productivity. Still in output mode even when the tank is empty. This is the “keep going even though I’m exhausted” pattern. Stop before the crash, not after.
🌍 Earth DM : Freeze mode. Brain spinning, body not moving. Overthinking, comparing, evaluating — but can’t actually do anything. Classic shutdown response when the system gets overwhelmed. Constipation today isn’t just physical 😅 Ground yourself. Feet on the floor. Warm food. Slow down.
Know that all of these are just symptoms. They also reflect which elements are dominant in your chart.
The root cause?
Ego. Suppressed, unresolved, unmet needs — reacting to the day’s intensity. These aren’t personality flaws. It’s just your body’s natural nervous system doing what it was designed to do under pressure to keep you safe.
It’s just louder today because the energy is louder today.
Three ways to work with it 👇
🌍 Weaken the Fire with Earth — Slow down even if it feels hard. Let yourself digest — physically and emotionally. Digestion digestion
🌬️ Breathe — that’s your Metal remedy. Long exhale.
Bring more oxygen into your system.
🌙 Rest by tonight. Let the system recover. Don’t push the day into the night.
These aren’t fixes. They’re just ways to cool the heat enough so your clarity can come back.
When the noise settles — then you’ll see clearly. That’s when the real decisions get made. 🌿
Okay done.
Enjoy the day,
Esther | 412 |
| 15 |  Good day guys. Today it’s the final Rat x Horse clash day. 🐴🐀
Also a destruction day. And a very strong Rob Wealth (RW) day.
This doesn’t mean it’s in your chart — but it does mean the day’s
energy is running loud. So listen up 👇
With a strong RW day, here’s what gets activated:
Hidden ego. Wanting to win — not because it matters, but because losing feels unbearable. Competing. Projecting your unmet needs onto others without realising it.
Add Fire into the mix — and everything emotional gets turned up.
The missing (and weak) element today Metal.
No Metal = scattered.
Metal is the wealth star — it brings practicality and functionality in nature. Without it, Rob Wealth runs pure shadow. All reaction, no discernment.
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| 16 | Here’s the truth about “finding” fulfilment in life.
Sometimes, what feels like a lack of talent, skill, or success is not actually about capability at all.
It’s about misalignment.
And when we cannot feel fulfilment internally, the instinct is often to do more.
Work harder. Push further. Stay busier. Achieve more.
But if you are moving in the wrong direction, doing more only deepens the exhaustion.
This is something I often observe in BaZi charts with unresolved Si (Snake) qualities or imbalanced Ji Earth qualities.
The symptoms?
• Constantly searching externally for validation or meaning
• Feeling restless even after achieving something
• Overthinking and overdoing
• Becoming trapped in productivity, yet still feeling empty
• Trying to “earn” fulfilment through effort alone
The danger is this:
You may think the answer is more action… when the real answer is awareness, alignment, and honesty with yourself.
Fulfilment is not something you endlessly chase outside of yourself.
It is something that naturally emerges when your actions, energy, and inner truth are aligned.
Doing more is not always growth.
Sometimes, it is avoidance.
If this resonates deeply with you, read here
Esther ❤️ | 357 |
| 17 |  Hey guys, I'm feeling a little bit nerdy and philosophical - as I was reflecting today.
I wasn't too sure about how the community and also my dear followers, students would like to here my very "sage" mode 5 Elements story.
But just so you know - its my PASSION, and hence , over the years, my practice have evolved beyond just using 5 elements to understand the human's mind , talent and behaviour. But also the BODY - ready being , simple ... because its needed to find PEACE within ourselves - which by the way -> what it means by ALIGNING ourselves ...
Not too sure if you guys would like this.. but here's some short snippets of - my brain on ALIGNMENT
Love
Esther. | 374 |
| 18 | Hey guys,
Over the years of working with BaZi and guiding clients through strategy, ideas, and solutions during Period 8, Period 9 has presented me with an entirely different set of problems. We can no longer approach metaphysics the same way we did in Period 8.
While clients are becoming more intellectual each day — with deeper knowledge of BaZi, knowing their chart, saying "I know what to do" — many still fail to actually break through.
This is the Period 9 problem.
We think the mind and ideas are what's lacking. But the truth is, it's the capability to take the action — even though we already know what to do.
With just another BaZi consultation, the clarity might last for a month. Then it's back to normal again. "I know what I should do, but I can't."
Why? You may blame the resources in your chart. You may blame karma. You may blame your soul contract. You may blame your punishment.
But sometimes, intellectualising your way out of a problem is not a solution.
This is the Period 9 issue.
Period 9 is fire. Brain. Resources. Thoughts. Mind.
And what happens when we are too much in our brain?
Esther 🔥 | 474 |
| 19 | Over the past year, dealing with alot more of physical mind and body work due to the years energy - my framework for mind body work have really up its game. Interestingly, there's always a Bazi tie to it. If you're interested to learn more about HOW you would get out of your emotionally blocks check out the post here : read here
I hope this would help you shift your perspective ❤️
Love Esther. | 469 |
| 20 |  Another day, another 4 Horses day.
EC | 507 |
