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See Finish Relationship Syndrome . . You Want to know one reason why most relationships become boring after the first few months of meeting? It is because of one little comfort zone called "see finish". • That point where you get too comfortable with your partner that you loose sight of their natural needs as a human being. • That point where you know them too well that you stop trying to learn new things about them. • That point where you can choose not to be nice, and kind, and humble, and respectful because you already know they'll still love you all the same. It is awesome to get close with your partner to that level where you can completely be yourselves around each other, talk freely, act freely as best of friends. In fact, familiarity paves the way for greater intimacy and love between two people, but do not become too familiar with your man that you forget to acknowledge his headship and accord him his respect as a shepherd over you. Do not become too familiar with your woman that you ignore her feminine side that craves for your attention, affections and care. This is the point where familiarity breeds contempt; when the respect and honour begins to wither. Here are few quick tips to help you deal with familiarity in your relationship; √ Always allow your partner finish before interrupting, especially when the topic of discussion is an important one. Learn how to switch characters, don't do on a serious conversation what you do on a playful one. I'm talking to both parties here, before speaking learn to say "baby can I say something?" Or "Darling can you please listen to my opinion when you're done with yours? It shows respect for your partner, even though the next minute you will start jumping all over each other like two grown babies, but for that moment let your partner know that you haven't lost your respect for them. √ Watch your words and phrases too. Most times the things we say might come out harmful or funny to you, but your partner might think on it later and find it offensive. I have never for a day said "morning" to my best friend Priceless, even as over familiar as we are. It has to be "Good morning Priceless", I don't let our familiarity get in the way of honouring her. For knowledge sake... ° It is Good morning, not morning. ° It is Thanks love, not tnk u. ° It is OK baby, not kkk. ° It is How are you doing, not hw u. ° It is Where are you, not wia re u ° It is Good night, not gnyt. ° It is I'm sorry, not m sowi. Ladies and Gentlemen, your words and phrases are so important, don't let the familiarity take away the natural respect you're supposed to have for each other. We can laugh all day, talk all night, gossip other people as we like, call each other funny stupid names and say our good nights, but in the morning it will be wonderful to get a call or a text from you that says something like "Good morning her Royalty" or "Good morning my lord". ∆ Don't let familiarity rob you of the natural needs of your partner. Say "thank you sir" as much as you say "thanks baby". Say "you are welcome ma" as much as you say "you're welcome darling". Use yes ma, yes sir as occasionally as you can in your communication. These are the simple things that drives our relationship, I hope you will start making the corrections where necessary today. #COACH

*A WOMAN GOES TO PRISON TO VISIT HER HUSBAND WHO HAS JUST BEEN SENTENCED TO FORTY (40) YEARS IN JAIL.................* As soon as she enters the visiting room, she hugs him and exclaims with tears in her eyes: - "Oh! Roger, 40 years, Roger?" And the husband replies: "Well, my love, what are you going to do?" "Oh, Roger...! I spoke to the judge handling your case," "And what did he say, my love?" "He told me that for every time I make love with him, he will reduce your prison sentence by one year..." "What !!! What a miserable bastard and what did you say to that son of a bitch?" "Oh, Roger! We'll talk about it at home, pick up your stuff, let's go… !!!(40years covered already, I have slept with him already)!!! Is this woman to be congratulated or not? Does she love her husband? *THE DEBATE IS open! MARRIAGE OR DIVORCE?*

This is the saddest and also the happiest video you will see today 😭😭😭

Conflicts in marriages are mostly caused by: 📌 Food📌 Sex 📌 Money📌 In-laws And what else? Kindly add yours!

WHEN A PERSON TRULY LOVE YOU, THEY LOOK BEYOND YOUR MISTAKES. ❤️ When a person is truly inlove with you, they look beyond you, when they see you they see love, they appreciate and cherish you, they look beyond your mistakes because they know you're not perfect. There are cases where they would have left you for someone else because of your attitude but they didn't, they had hopes that their love for you is a reason you can become better, they don't see you the way others do, they see the best in you when you don't even see them in yourself. 🧡 A person who truly loves you understands what you're going through, they can tell when you're happy and when you're sad, they know what to do to cheer you up, they understand your mood swings and body languages. They tolerate you, they are patient and enduring. Life becomes beautiful when you finally find someone who loves you, I pray you find one who truly loves you. 💜

Why you may be beautiful but you are still single 😩💔🥺😭 1. Your self-esteem is too hígh You regard yourself way too highly to the point that you don’t think anyone is good enough to be with yóu🥺😭😩💔 2. Some of the top reasons someone may still be single is because: You're too picky and you feel no one is good enough for you. which makes you date people with no chance of réal compatibility 😭😩💔🥺 3. Traumatic Heartbreak💔🥺 After a long intimate relationship, when it culminates in a breakup due to betrayal or parental disapproval, girls find it difficult to open their heart to another intimate relationship, thus opting to remain single.💔🥺😩😭 4. You haven’t moved on from your ex you are still holding on to your past, hence you always want to be single because you aren't ready to open up for another yet.😭💔🥺😩5. You don’t go out much I am so sorry to my fellow introverts for dropping this bomb, but if you want to better your chances of escaping the single life, you’re going to have to go out and meet a bunch of people.💔🥺😩 6. You sometimes look down on yourself, maybe you they won't like you in return you. are afraid of being rejécted💔🥺😩 Please follow ❤💚 NwaGod Danny 7. You’re too independent you don't need anyone around becux you feel like yoh can handle everything yourself💔🥺😩 8. You think that beauty is always everything 💔😭🥺😩 9. You br lacking good character / morals that could attract guys

All successful people we see today or heard of in the past are people who sacrificed their time for something valuable in the future. Your sacrifice must be of same value to you as the measure of success you expect to enjoy in the future. Spend your time wisely on yourself, work, family, service to God and service to others. The value of time you give to such things will determine how your reward will be in the future. Make a conscious sacrifice to achieve an expected end. Sacrifice your time, money, energy for that goal. *What is your sacrifice*???

Schooling is meaningless unless it is adding value to the life of an individual and the society as a whole. Schooling doesn't constitute education per se. And formal education doesn't automatically make life meaningful unless the individuals put knowledge acquired to practice. Most of our leaders have schooled in the western world so why is everyone of them not bringing the knowledge learnt to impact our society positively?

Keep Your Marriage Simple and Sweet: Learn to be content with what you have. Many couples complicate their marriages by trying to compete or keep up with friends and neighbors. They buy things they do not need with the money they do not have to impress people they do not know. Keep your marriage simple and sweet. Do not pretend to be what you are not. Do not put unnecessary pressures on your marriage, and do not sacrifice your marital happiness just to keep up appearances. Do not buy things you do not need just because your friends have them. Live within your means. Budget together with your spouse. Plan, prioritize, and have the maturity, discipline, and temperance to follow your plans, regardless of what your neighbors and friends are doing. It takes lots of lies, stress, and debt to support a fake lifestyle. Happy marriages are simple, honest, and straightforward - marriages that impress God, not people. "...I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances." (Philippians 4:11)

"If you are in a relationship, open this"🍒💕 A Psychology Thread❤💚 When you love someone & someone loves you, you should never have doubt. You need to trust your partner as how your partner needs to trust you. Remember once you're in a relationship, you hold a person's heart in your hand. You need to always care for it & careful not to break it. No two minds were molded the same. Don’t try to change that person into what YOU think is ideal for your convenience. Let that person grow and love you their way. Don't EVER tolerate any form of abuse in the name of Love. Embrace the good and try to fix the bad in your relationship, No one is perfect. All relationships go through things if you can get through it move past it do so but if you feel you can’t leave peacefully and heal and move on. Unhealthy love is when two people expect each other to solve the other's problems. Healthy love is when two people acknowledge and address their own problems with each other's support. Best thing ever is to be in a relationship where you don't have to worry about anything ,no cheating ,no lying and no secrets Learn to ask and listen , communicate,stop mind- reading ,it won't work Always make time for each other ,if you are busy send short messages ,to inform him or her ,it is very important

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Anonymous post, please. From a friend. How do I make my people understand that, I have to leave my marriage to be at peace?? I have been married for 7yrs now with 2 kids. Financially we are not very stable.I always try to make the best out of everything I do including my marriage but all my efforts prove futile. We both leave and work in a small town and I am someone who respects myself and doesn't make friends aside my customers. My husband has dated a lot of ladies in the town which I only got to know after marriage and till now, he won't mind dating small girls who are in the same area with me. A lot of people know about this and I feel so embarrassed walking through town. I feel ashamed telling people he is my husband and I have treated infections using most of my savings. I don't feel anything for him anymore though I still go about my duties very well I don't attack him but I'm tired and just want to walk away. He is almost 50yrs but we don't have a land talkless of any other thing. We both are government workers and if we put our heads together, we will make something for our kids but it seems his plans are different from mine. I want to leave and plan a better future for my kids. Please, advice me. My brain isn't working well 🥹🥹. NB. I do some small small businesses as well. Please, I didn't know he was a womanizer before I married him though we dated for some Years. I got to know when I moved in with him. I prayed and thought he has changed but he only hide it for a while and resumed again. Aborting pregnancy for SHS students. Sorry for the long post.

Some guys will never take a lady out on a date, all they know is visit me... Visit me, as if they're admitted in the hospital. 😍

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Love is not Feeling I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round. In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with. In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With these characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, no matter how many faces you meet, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life. You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they're married to? You think they don't feel funky at times? You think they don't catch feelings? They do! But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings, and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses. You can fall in love with anyone, it doesn't take anything to fall in love, people fall inlove every day, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love. I have come to realize that We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for the first 6 months of the relationship in many cases. After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility. Relationships cannot be readymade & all sunshine. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence. In the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment. Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones can do that. Everyone wants to fall in love but only a few can stay in love. Love is preached by everyone, but only a few understand what it means. That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions. Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed. The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the fear of God that will give you the grace needed to win in your relationship & marriage. I stand as Counselor Simon Brett👨‍💻 Relationship and Marriage Therapist

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Change sanitary pads Some people try to economize the use of their sanitary pads so during the period they tend to still wear the pad because there is little or no blood. This is soooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

Washing and drying Develop the habit of disinfecting your panties frequently...depending on the number of pants you have. Keep exclusive panties to wear whenever you are menstruating and don't mix those panties with your regular panties. Pay particular attention to those panties when washing. Ensure that the panties are made of cotton and are dried in the sun or well ironed to kill germs.

Use of water closet Some people have the habit of not sitting on the seat of the WC when using it so they end up urinating on the seat. The possibility of picking infection when using it in that condition is high. Don't let your pant be at the thigh level when using the WC especially the public ones as the inner of the pant may rub the surface of the WC. Where the water is not running and people have used but have not flushed and you don't have any choice but to also use it, use enough toilet roll to cover before using the WC to avoid any splashes on the vulva.