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yesterday night. I was in My bed starin' at my phone screen as It was rainin' hard n light was off. The rain was hard even you can't hear what a person far away in some meters is sayin. Hmm..some minutes After the stoppin' of the severe rain full of ice drop ---- I heard people screamin' from outside. And all family members went out on hurry. n as the time we r out side -- people were comin' out and Runnin to the direction where the scream for help were comin'. The shout was from the houses Built on the Edge of our village which found on relatively lower slope and which are near to the water canal of the village. The rain i thought as a usual rain was a flood. The rain i was enjoyin' In my bed was a tense of survivin' fo' others. people were runnin' here and there to save people's life And properties. Luckily, There wasn't people's live in danger because the Flood wasn't at it's peak in which the main flood from the uphill hasn't arrived there at that time. On the night --- which light was off n the road is dangerous to walk all the people were runnin' to save the live and properties. Even though the outside were so cold, Even though the water was Gradually increasin', even though the water was so much freezin' ---no one was scared to dive in to the flood --- all people were Divin' in to the water and try to save pople properties. All the people in the village were serried to save the victims property and After 2 and 3 hours of Strugglin' we were able to save most of the properties and with bit lack of luck some were gone. Since the river above the village had filled beyond it's capacity n had started to flow down to the village --- the victims wasn't able to Get back to their home. But it wasn't even an issue --what there was at the moment is a beautiful supportivness from all the villagers. All the villagers were willin' to Take the victims to there home and with in a minutes all the victims were able to find a place to stay. Startin' from my fam takin' a mother and a daughter to our home to stay with us --- as the same way all the victims found a house to spend the night. The main thing i observed yesterday was A Great humanity, a Great supportivness. the greatest Pleasure you can get in life is watchin' other person happy because of You, other person livin' their life to the fullest. There is no enjoyment you get from livin' a luxury life while someone is strugglin to survive. As cole said once "what good is the bread if my niggas is broke? "what good is first class if my niggas can't even sit?" What is money wz out happiness? or hard times wz out the people u love?". So Our beautiness is from supportin' each other and as long as we are livin' together we should lift up each other. When i see the big picture i think that is what we lost as a country now a days---Love n Helpfullness . Beyond every thing humanity is the first thing, we should Start thinkin' a life beyond our selves. Let me just put a mark on this, Don't go far--- i know you can't change the countries condition As a whole by only ur self but we can change it if we work on small things. just start by helpin' ur friends or families by some thing. help them By idea, by showin' them u r there fo' them, Get a big courage to clap for other people's achivement even while u r failin' ---- that's where a base of humanity is built. That's how we can Keep our country n keep movin' as a country. 🖤መልካም አዲስ አመት! 🌼

በመተው…. በቀደም ለታ አንዲት የማደንቃት ድምጻዊት ቃለመጠየቅ ሲደረግላት እየሰማሁኝ ነበር። ይህች ምርጥ ኢትዮጵያዊ ድምጻዊት ባለትዳር ነበረችና ጋዜጠኛው የሚከተለውን ጥያቄ ሰነዘረ። “በዚህ ሙያሽ ላይ ባለቤትሽ እርዳታ ያደርጋል? ይደግፍሻል?” “ባለቤቴ ይደግፈኛል……በመተው ይደግፈኛል፤ እራሴን እንድሆን በመተው፤ የስራ ቀጠናዬ ውስጥ ባለመግባት በመተው ይደግፈኛል” ብላ መለሰች። መልሷ ውስጤ በእጅጉ ስለገባ ይህንን አጭር ጽሁፍ እንድሞነጭር መነሻ ሆነኝ። ምናልባት የድምጻዊቷን ማንነት መግለጽ ካለብኝ፤ ድምጻዊት ዘሪቱ ከበደ ናት። እውነትም በተመው ብቻ ብዙ ሰው መርዳት እንችላለን። ሌላ ነገር ማገዝ ቢያቅተን እንኳን በመተው ብቻ ያ ሰው ሙሉ አቅሙን እንዲጠቀም እንፈቅድለታለን። ከዚህ ቀደም በአንደኛው የማነቃቂያ ጽሁፌ ላይ የተጠቀምኩትን አጭር ታሪክ በድጋሜ ላንሳው። በአንድ የክረምት ወቅት፤ ሁለት ህጻናት እየተጓዙ ነበር። እየተጓዙበት የነበረው መሬት በረዶ የሰራ ነበርና በጥንቃቄ መጓዝ ነበረባቸው።ምክንያቱም መሬቱ ቢሰነጠቅ የሚቀበላቸው እጅግ የቀዘቀዘ ውሃ ነበርና። አንድ ሰው ከሰመጠም የሰመጠውን ሰው ለማውጣት እጅግ ከባድ ጉልበት ይጠይቃል። ታዲያ በጉዞዋቸው መካከል በረዶው ይሰነጠቅና አንደኛው ልጅ ይሰምጣል። ሌላኛው ልጅ ጓደኛውን ለማዳን ያንን የተጋገረ በረዶ በሰፊው መፈረካከስ ነበረበት፤ ለዛ ደግሞ ከፍተኛ ጉልበት ይጠይቃል። ሲበዛ የጨነቀው ወጣት፤ ጓደኛውን ለማዳን ይሯሯጥ ጀመረ፤ በአካባቢው  ማንም  ሰው አልነበረምና፤ እየሮጠ ሄዶ ከአንድ በረዶ ካደረቀው ዛፍ ላይ ትልቅ ቅርንጫፍ ይዘነጥልና ያለ የሌለ ጉልበቱን ተጠቅሞ ጓደኛውን ከተቀረቀረበት በረዶ እንደምንም ብሎ ያወጣዋል። ቀጥሎ የሰፈሩ ሰዎች የሆነውን ሲሰሙ ግራ ተጋቡ። ደቃቃው ወጣት በምን አቅሙ ያንን የሚያህል የዛፍ ቅርንጫፍ ገንጥሎ፤ ያንን የበረዶ ክምር ለብቻው ያለ ማንም እርዳታ ደቅድቆ፤ ጓደኛውን እንዴት እንዳወጣው ግራ ገባቸው። ተዓምር ሆኖባቸው በጥያቄ “እንዴት አድርገህ?” እያሉ ያጣዳፉት ጀመር። ይሄኔ ከመካከላቸው አንድ አዛውንት እንዲህ ሲሉ ልጁን ወክለው መልስ ሰጡ። “እኔ እነግራችኋለሁ፤ ይህ ወጣት ለጉልበተኛ ሰው  እንኳን የሚከብደውን ስራ ሊሰራ የቻለው፤ በአካባቢው ማንም “ተው አትችልም” የሚለው ሰው ስላልነበረ ነው፤ ብቻውን ስለሆነ፤ ሌላ ሚስጥር የለውም” አላቸው። አጋዥ ባይኖር እንኳን ተው የሚል አለመኖሩ እራሱን የቻለ ትልቅ እርዳታ ነው። የዘሪቱን የቤተሰብ ሁኔታ አላውቅም። ለእኔ ግን ለጥያቄዋ የሰጠችው መልስ አይን ገላጭ መስሎ ታይቶኛል። እውነተኛ ድግፍንና ፍቅርን ደስ በሚል መልኩ ገልጻዋለች። አጠገባችን ያሉ ሰዎች “በመተው” ብቻ ብዙ እርዳታ ማድረግ እንደሚችሉ፤ እኛም ለሌሎችን “በመተው”ብቻ ብዙ እርዳታ ማድረግ እንደምንችል የሚያስታውስ ድንቅ ንግግር ነበር። የአና ፍራክን ያህል የዋህነት ባይኖረኝም፤ በሰዎች መልካምነት አምናለሁ።  የምንቀርባቸው ሰዎች አውቀው ይጎዱናል ብዬ ማሰቡ ደስታን አይሰጠኝም። ከፍቅር የተነሳ እንቅፋት ሊሆኑ ግን ይችላሉ። እኛም ከፍቅር እና ከቅርበት የተነሳ እንቅፋት ልንሆን እንችላለን። ምክንያቱም ሰው እራሱን እንዲሆን መተው ከባድ ስለሆነ፤ ሰው በራሱ እቅድ እንዲመራ መተዉ ቀላል ስላይደለ። እኛ ሰውን  እንደምንፈልገው መለወጡ ስለሚያስደስተንና ትክክል ስለሚመስለን። ቤተሰብንና ጓደኝነትን የሚያስተሳስረውና ይበልጥ እንዲያብብ ማዳበሪያ የሚሆነው “ነጻነት” ይመስለኛል። ሰው የሚወደውን እንዲሆን “መተው” ትልቅ እገዛ ነው። ሌስ ብራውን የተባለው ጸሃፊ እንዲህ ይላል “ሌሎችን ለመለወጥ አትሞክር፤ እራስን መለወጥ የሙሉ ሰዓት ስራ ነውና”። ሰዎችን እንደሆኑት መቀበል ለእኛ ለሰዎች ከባድ ስራ ነው። ምክንያቱም ሌሎችን ለመወደድና ለመቀበል እኛ እንደንፈልገው እንዲሆኑልን ስለምንፈልግ። ምንም እንኳን  ሰዎች እኛ እንደምንፈልጋቸው እንዲሆኑልን ብንፈልግም፤  ማንም ያለገዛ እራሱ ፈቃድ አይለወጥም። በእኛ ጉትጎታ ያ ሰው ቢለወጥ እንኳን አስመሰለ ወይም ተገደደ ነው እንጂ የሚባለው፤ እራሱን ሆነ ማለት አንችልም። በመተው ውስጥ ግን የሰውን እውነተኛ ማንነትና ባህሪ ማወቅ ይቻለናል…….ከምንም በላይ ግን ለሰዎች እውነተኛ ማንነታቸውን እንዲሆኑ መተው መቻላችን  ለእነሱ ትልቅ እገዛ ነው። ከማገዝ እኩል ትልቁ ድጋፍ መተው ነው ማለት ነው እንግዲህ! Source : ሰው ሁን ከሰውም ሰው ሁን

Quitting social media I remember the first time the idea of quitting social media popped in my mind---it was after watchin Cal newport's Tedx speech in which in the video he Explained why to quit social media, why he quitted using social medias, the secret behind the addictivness of these social medias, & how quitting social media didn't affect his life. Beside his speech he also has written Books Named " Minimisation of the Digital world, Deep work".and so many others which the main center of the Books is to Creating Sustainable life without social media, Increasing life productivity, Being focused & avoiding distractions, living the moments live rather than on social medias. For the few months I was thinking about it But not seriously. I wasn't able to know how much time i was wasting on social media---Like looking For news feed, replying to Messages, watching podcasts, launching my own you tube channel, Reading books online, writing blogs, Giving life Guidance Through Bot--and of course random Stalkings on my crush (well, stupid me🤦‍♂😂). anw on the way to Build some blogs and scrolling over newsfeed---'i didn't notice my brain was becoming addicted to the social medias Like Facebook - Instagram -youtube and soon. The biggest mistake of mine was thinking that i wouldn't be that much addicted Since i Know how to Stop it...But as Simon said once-- "No matter how much ur mind is active or how much u r intellegent are these Social medias are designed to Be addictive and will lead u eventually to be addicted" & he is absolutely correct Because that is the issue i am facing eventually Because even if after giving My self a time of Offline for a week and 2 weeks--when i come back i am still there. So, i started searchin for soulutions and not surprisingly what i found is informations that show Anxiety and depresssion has dramattically increased after inventions of cell phones & social medias. Most people who spend much time on social media are highly open to social media addiction than those who don't. Social media have a big impact on ur mind Because it tries to show u how successful u should be, how rich, how happy u should be & this damages your mind psychologically---which leads to sadness, loose of confidence. Hey, but---Don't get me wrong i am not saying social media is bad at all-- it has useful aspects like getting information easily, being easily connected wz rest of world & so on. What i am saying is----- if you get distracted by it so much,if u spend more hours on ur screens, if u feel endlessly scrolling over news feed, if u compare ur self with others fake highlighted posts, u feel sad on spending too much time on it----then it's time to step back & change things. For me Both---- totally quitting social medias & taking weeks off aren't solutions. Because since most world is connected on social media--& as u r part of generation u should Take it as fun & enjoy it on certain times. The week off isn't good because from my experience---after returning you will be on the same track when u become online. So --- what i suggest you and what i am Going to implement is to quit all kinds of social medias for 2 months. The reason why 2 months is enough is Because human mind averagely need 21 days to make a new habit---since, u have 60 days there is enough time to create a strong habit after 2 (21day) trials which can't be easily changed. I know it sounds like little crazy😄 & scary to do but if u really need the change then u gotta make sacrifices. As the why? is clear then the how? Is clear so_Be Inpired to change it. Last thing i want to say is as i Saw from other people experiences of quitting social medial the Big battle is with Being bored. Boredom will easily attack you because as you used to reley much on phone_you will get more free time & less things to do. So Before you move to quitting social medias Prepare some things to enjoy Like buying Books, or Movies & most importantly a personal goal u should work on. 🕰Friday July 31 🕰 "October 1" "If u have any question u can ask me

Almost a year has passed---since, i Read This true story & it's one of Inpirin' writing fo' teens. There are many stories inside us, to Be told. There are alot of experiences we passed that can inspire others____it's just about courage. It's Just about choosing between Blaming ur self, thinking u have no special desires and Picking ur self__determined to share ur experience. You choose between the two. It is one of a Good blogs I ever read. & i recommend u to read it. One thing i want to say is Just create your path_ follow ur passion. You don't have to be like others, you just have to be ur self. For some people, it is just about being a doctor, for some the goal is to be a Business man, for some people the goal is about Being a leader, for some people the goal is to be a painter, for some it's to be a model... & idk what ur goal is. But you should know___you don't have to be others, you just have to be ur self. you are you, your self. You don't have to follow other footsteps to be successful. Because passion is personal___ we can only get successful when we follow our desires, passions, not our family or our friends Passions. Make sure you arenot living underversion of someoneelse. Most people are trying to Be someone else, someone they saw in a movie, a friend of them who is doing good or trying to be a person our family needs us to be. No, Those who can fly alone can only discover their true potential, Those who follow others like a sheep will never know who they truly are. So, i think in our life what we must find first is our passion, our Goal & then try to work on those passion. Rather, Dreaming and aiming to be someone is harsh____because the road to be them has been already walked, creat ur own road.

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