901
Subscribers
No data24 hours
-17 days
-530 days
Posts Archive
901
5- I think this is common knowledge but if you live in a conservative place, keep a low profile, ik that sometimes you want to tell ur family or people but sometimes it's not safe to do so. Your safety comes first
901
4- stay away from chasers..
When it comes to dating, there are some people (cis) who only date trans people. Mainly because they fetishize them and see them as their assigned gender at birth..so please have some standards when it comes to your dating life and don't immediately trust&fall in love with anyone who will use ur prns and name..you need to know then first and see if they actually support you and see you for who you are or not
901
3-transitioning and what you can do about it.
In case you wanted to transition,there are different types of transitions
A-social transition, you can start by choosing a name, putting your pronouns on social media/asking your friends to refer to you as something..dressing in a certain way, letting your hair grow/cut it..etc etc tucking,wearing a binder, packing...whatever there is to be..you choose what works best for you🤷🏻
B- medical transition, which I assume isn't accessible for you now but I think you know what is it, hormones and surgeries
Important note : you can be trans and simply not transition, it's all about modifying your body and/or your social status inba way that makes YOU feel comfortable
901
2-know your friends.
Trans people (unfortunately) are forced to deal with a lot of transphobics in real life, and we have to just..go along with it..however, try not to be close to transphobic people (it'll hurt later)
As for online friendships, simply cut off everyone who doesn't support you🤷🏻 I used to be okay with my friends accepting me and not doing any effort to actively support me..and let me tell you something, that didn't age well..I kept getting hurt by the people I like and justifying it by being the only trans person they know or "at least they're using my name and prns" so..don't be like that..know your worth. You deserve people who celebrate you and are proud of you, people who talk about you as your gender even when you're not there, people who actually support you. Even if you can't end a friendship over such stuff, least you could do is make it casual friendship..
We deal with a lot of shit irl..we don't have to suck it up online too. You have communities, people who will love and respect your identity, so don't let your friends disrespect you because you love them...if someone likes you really they'll put the effort to be there and support you..otherwise, they're not worth it
901
1- your identity and exploring it in general.
Please don't ever ever rush things or feel like you're obligated to label yourself duo to societal pressure, If the label trans is something you WANT and you feel authentic in, then that's it.
You're whatever you identify as, you don't need to have dysphoria, you don't need to try and "pass" in order to be a certain gender, just be yourself and take things gradually at your own pace..most importantly, do your best to stay safe and don't share this info with someone that might harm you or someone who's not trustworthy/ally
901
However I feel like I need to divide everything and tell u abt things separately because tbh there are a lot of things to talk about
901
HII
sure!!! First of all im so proud of you for figuring things out, it takes a lot of effort and strength to show & acknowledge your true colors and I know that it's a hard thing to do so I'm glad that you came this far! And I'm so thankful that you decided to talk to me about this...I'll try to help as much as I can and if u need anything more u can tell me obviously
901
- الرساله ؛ Hi...
This is personal but may i ask for your advice?i think im trans but i have no idea what to do or what's lying ahead of me...mind guiding me through it?
901
I wish I were a poet so I could control the reversed waterfall of emotions in my chest like a waterbender before it drowns you. If I were a poet, maybe you'd be able to wander around my heart without dying—I planted you a garden, as big and divine as the hanging gardens of Babylon, filled with roses and apple trees. I wish you could have seen their bloom before the wither. Before my foolish heart, pourd all the river on them; "an expression of generosity" it thought, but it was nothing but a shortcut to decay; for a rotting heart doesn't know how to keep things alive.
See, my love, I wish I were an architect, because right after you cross the river, an empty, ruined city awaits you. You'll trip off many times while walking there. And when you finally find a house that you can call your own, its roof will fall on you when you're asleep. I wish I was a marine biologist so I could identify all the river-mutants that keep scaring visitors away. I might domesticate them and bring them to you as pets; in the end, they're not evil nor ugly. They're just victims of my acidic sadness. I wish I was a rock, a colorful one you'd pick up and put in your pocket as a memoir, a reminder that you managed to leave this land safe and sound. I wish I was a butterfly, not for any reason other than the fact that you love butterflies. I wish I was a lot of things for you; a little plastic bag you tear with your teeth; a can of soda you press with your fingers when you're stressed; I wish I was the moonlight you write about and those little dictionaries you use to find a word that rhymes with "love"...I wish I was a lot of things to you, but I'm nothing but the ashes of something that passed; an ex-something; a vivid memory that occurred once in your dream. While I stood helplessly by, the hounds of the land of my heart chased you away. I couldn't do anything for you. I wish. I wish to be something for you. Even if I were just a torn dollar in your coat—one that you can't use or throw away—for it has always been there and your fingertips got used to the soft wrinkled edges of it.
901
Repost from 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙞𝙘
”Jude , after sickness”
“he was sitting bent over on the edge of his bed, leaning his forehead against the wall, his legs and arms crossed and his eyes closed—it was the position he always assumed when he was coming out of an episode and was gathering his physical resources before attempting to stand up again.”
Artist: _mcdxlvii_
