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چرا حرف مفت آنقدر زیاد است؟ آدم‌هایی که رویکرد شکاکیت‌‌گرایانه دارند امروز در جامعه بسیارند و فرهنگ ما اکنون به‌گونه‌ای شده که همه باید درباره همه چیز اظهار نظر کنیم و اگر درباره چیزی توئیت، هشتک و... نگذاریم گویی از چیزی عقب مانده‌ایم. جامعه افراد را مجبور به اظهارنظر می‌کند و به همین دلیل است که انسان‌ها چون درباره همه چیز صاحب باور و عقاید نیستند مجبور به حرف مفت زدن می‌شوند. حرف مفت خطرناک‌تر از دروغ است چون دروغ تعهدی به صدق دارد اما حرف مفت تعهدی به صدق و کذب ندارد. افراد تسامح بیشتری به حرف مفت دارند و اگر دروغ بشنوند احساس توهین می‌کنند اما نسبت به حرف مفت چنین احساسی ندارند. در حالی که خسارت حرف مفت از دروغ بسیار بیشتر است. http://www.ibna.ir/fa/doc/report/255747/چرا-حرف-مفت-این-قدر-می-فروشد 👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿

Communication

Stand by Me

#sorry #Benz https://t.me/MKClips/93

Respect

Honesty

Idiot

I THINK

ILI- Spring97

Ed Sheeran - Shape Of You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_dK2tDK9grQ 569,826,178 views The club isn’t the best place to find a lover So the bar is where I go Me and my friends at the table doing shots drinking fast and then we talk slow you come over and start up a conversation with just me and trust me I’ll give it a chance now Take my hand stop, put van the man on the jukebox and then we start to dance And now I’m singing like Girl you know I want your love Your love was handmade for somebody like me Come on now follow my lead I may be crazy don’t mind me Say boy let’s not talk too much Grab on my waist and put that body on me Come on now follow my lead Come come on now follow my lead I’m in love with the shape of you We push and pull like a magnet do Although my heart is falling too I’m in love with your body Last night you were in my room And now my bed sheets smell like you Every day discovering something brand new I’m in love with your body Oh I X 4 I’m in love with your body Oh I X 4 I’m in love with your body Oh I X 4 I’m in love with your body Every day discovering something brand new I’m in love with the shape of you One week in we let the story begin We’re going out on our first date You and me are thrifty So go all you can eat Fill up your bag and I fill up a plate We talk for hours and hours about the sweet and the sour And how your family’s doing ok leave and get in a taxi, then kiss in the backseat Tell the driver make the radio play and I'm singing like Girl you know I want your love Your love was handmade for somebody like me Come on now follow my lead I may be crazy, don’t mind me Say boy let’s not talk too much Grab on my waist and put that body on me Come on now follow my lead Come come on now follow my lead I’m in love with the shape of you We push and pull like a magnet do Although my heart is falling too I’m in love with your body Last night you were in my room And now my bed sheets smell like you Every day discovering something brand new Well I’m in love with your body Oh I x 4 I’m in love with your body Oh I x 4 I’m in love with your body Oh I X 4 I’m in love with your body Every day discovering something brand new I’m in love with the shape of you Come on be my baby come on X 8 I’m in love with the shape of you We push and pull like a magnet do Although my heart is falling too I’m in love with your body Last night you were in my room And now my bed sheets smell like you Every day discovering something brand new Well I’m in love with your body Come on be my baby come on X 6 Every day discovering something brand new I’m in love with the shape of you

A 3rd grade child was doing his math homework and he was saying 3+2 son of a bitch is 5.. 4+3 son of bitch is 7, well his mother was near by and over heard his dirty language .. she came in and asked him who taught him such words. He told her that it was his teacher... well being so upset over all this, she went to the teacher the next day and asked her why she would allow her son to say things like that? And the teacher says what? 2+3 sum of which is 5.

Disconnect to Connect

How a Bad Mood Affects EMPATHY in Your Brain According to a new study, we're less able to resonate with other people’s pain when we’re feeling down. Jill Suttie- Dec. 2017 Bad moods are no fun; but we all get them from time to time. I sometimes feel down reading the news or forgetting to exercise; others may become moody after a setback at work or a fight with their partner. Now, a new study published in Psychophysiology suggests that bad moods seem to impact the neural underpinnings of empathy, as well, with important implications for our relationships. Past research has shown that our neural wiring allows us to experience what another person is feeling—something called emotional resonance, an important element of empathy. This is why we tend to get scared watching horror movies and feel happy when a loved one expresses joy. To look at how moods might affect emotional resonance, researchers in the new study hooked up 23 students from a Chinese university to an EEG to measure brain activity and had them listen to music or to a broadcast that put them in either a good, bad, or neutral mood. Participants were then shown pictures of people going through painful or neutral experiences—such as getting a hand shut in a door versus seeing a hand closing the same door. Afterwards, they reported how much pain they thought the person in the picture felt and how painful it was for them to see these pictures. Findings revealed that participants in a bad mood showed brain activity linked to lowered emotional resonance with people in pain than participants in a positive or neutral mood. This pattern was mirrored in how they rated their own discomfort at seeing others in pain, suggesting that someone in a bad mood might be less empathic and less motivated to help a person suffering than someone in a good mood. According to the authors of the study, this concurs with previous studies that found people in a bad mood are less able to mirror other people’s actions and facial expressions. In other words, we are less tuned to others when we’re not feeling good. The study extended past research by showing us the neural underpinnings that may be responsible for this effect. On the other hand, participants in a bad mood did not consistently make reduced ratings of another’s pain in the painful scenarios. So, while our bad moods may affect automatic, unconscious empathic processes, they seem to have less impact on cognitively controlled processes—such as imagining how another person might feel. What does this mean for our relationships? Being in a bad mood could impact our orientation toward another’s suffering and our desire to alleviate it. In addition, since bad moods may be contagious, being in a bad mood could put others in a bad mood, which might impact their ability to empathize with us, as well. In just the moment when we could use some support, our ability to connect may be hindered. Of course, bad moods aren’t something most of us can control. And we shouldn’t simply try to wipe them away and fake being happy. But, if we keep in mind that we have the power to shift our moods and maintain some emotional balance, we may be doing ourselves—and those around us—a big favor. https://t.me/MkNotes/517 https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_a_bad_mood_affects_empathy_in_your_brain#

The Paradoxical Commandments, by Dr. Kent M. Keith, 1968, renewed 2001 www.paradoxicalcommandments.com People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway. If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway. If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway. The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway. The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds. Think big anyway. People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs. Fight for a few underdogs anyway. What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway. People really need help but may attack you if you do help them. Help people anyway. Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway. فرامين متناقض مردم اغلب غیر منطقی، بي‌انصاف و خودخواه هستند؛ بهر حال به آنها عشق بورز. اگر كار نيك كني ، مردم تو را متهم به داشتن انگيزه‌هاي پنهان مي‌كنند؛ بهر حال كار نيك كن. اگر موفق شوی، دوستان دروغین و دشمنان واقعی بدست خواهی آورد؛ بهر حال موفق شو. کار نيك امروزت، فردا فراموش می شود؛ بهر حال كار نيك كن. صداقت و صراحت ترا آسيب‌پذير مي‌كند؛ بهر حال صادق و صریح باش. افراد بزرگ با افكاري بزرگ توسط افرادي كوچك با افكاري كوچك از ميان برداشته مي‌شوند؛ بهرحال بزرگ فكر كن مردم طرفدار بازنده‌ها و پيرو برنده‌گان بزرگنند؛ بهرحال براي بازنده ها تلاش كن. چیزی را که برای ساختنش سال ها تلاش کرده ای، ممكن است در یک شب از بين برود؛ بهر حال بساز. مردم واقعاً به كمك نياز دارند، اما اگر به آنها كمك كني ممكن است به تو حمله مي‌كنند؛ بهرحال به مردم كمك كن. اگر بهترین هایت را به دنیا بدهي ممكن است سرخورده شوي؛ بهر حال تو بهترین هایت را به دنیا بده. https://t.me/MkNotes/88

The Problem Is Within https://t.me/MkNotes/515 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇