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12.-13. Sep. in Berlin 💖
How to navigate so many bodies, touches, glances, needs, desires, boundaries? Let's workshop a classic among the many fantasies people had for centuries! https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/another-orgy-flinta-edition-20260912 💋
Listen to a podcast about our workshop here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1IF4kdXBgLQp0cM2piKQJH?si=LF_FJQGKRReNMIIbzbtItQ&utm_source=copy-link
| 2 |  +8Our massage retreat in Spain is coming closer - and you?
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/tantra-with-a-pinch-of-salt-for-women-20250921
21.-28. September
And to give you a little insight -> you can listen to two of our participants from last year describe their experiences when following the link 🎧 | 1 366 |
| 3 | +1 We are back with our beloved ORGY! This time for ABC - anybody but cis men (trans men and trans women and enbys are welcome! 💖)
12.-13. SEP in BERLIN
www.luhmendarc.com/events/another-orgy-flinta-edition-20260912
🦑
Read about this workshop in MISSY MAGAZINE, listen about LIEBELEI'S experience in their FUCKET LIST PODCAST , read a TESTIMONIAL by one of our participants or listen to interviews we conducted with even more participants :) | 1 208 |
| 4 | 15. JULY in BERLIN, 20h
You heard of speed dating - but what about speed fucking?
Every 10 minutes we will get into a new constellation to figure out: "what does fucking mean for us in this unique encounter?" I don't mind if you end up cuddling, thumb wrestling, eye gazing, tying, penetrating, acro yogaing, talking, meditating, massaging, singing, 69ing, or ignoring each other... After 10 minutes we rotate and continue... And again...and again... 🎡
All genders and sexual orientations are welcome and possible. The wheel of fortuna will throw you into random constellations. Get surprised what is possible!
Last time was incredible!
Important: bring your own towel/sheet and everything you wish to play with!!
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/speed-fucking-20260715 | 1 411 |
| 5 | “Are they into it? Am I doing it right? Do I look weird? Is that normal? Is that enough? What do I want? What do they want? What if I don't want?..."
Sex is complex - because it's rich! And our questions and problems can be a compass 🧭 Learning to read them might show us a way towards more ease in regards to sex: what it means for us, what we want from it, what we can learn from it and how to have sex (or not have sex) as ourselves - not as the person performing desire.
18.-19. JULY in BERLIN
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/fucking-problems-playful-explorations-20260718
or register via massagewithrebecca@gmail.com | 1 359 |
| 6 |  +1Last 3 spots for trippy haptic somatic inactive vibes - this Thursday night
30.4.26
18.15 - 23.30
Swarm Soothing - collective regeneration, co-regulation, release, rest, recover
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/aswarm-soothing-an-evening-on-communal-rest-and-regeneration-20260430 | 1 308 |
| 7 |  Our latest Berlin workshop just dropped: a weekend over Pfingsten for people in intimate relationships:
MAKE LOVE
22-24 May 2026
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/make-love-20260522
A space where you can be together with your partner and it isn’t about getting it right, but getting curious. Where pleasure isn’t something to optimise, but something to listen for. And where your relationship is honoured for having its own unique dynamic. | 1 405 |
| 8 |  +330.4.26
18.15 - 23.30
Swarm Soothing - collective regeneration, co-regulation, release, rest, recover
Bring things to doodle, bring things to cuddle, bring things to twiddle, bring things to draw. And maybe you'll be so chilled out, you won't use any of them...
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/aswarm-soothing-an-evening-on-communal-rest-and-regeneration-20260430 | 1 343 |
| 9 | a. twapos_1.mp3 | 1 231 |
| 10 | #tantrawithapinchofsalt -> Gerade ein Interview rausgekramt, das ich letztes Jahr mit einer Teilnehmerin bei unserem Retreat in Spanien geführt habe 😻
Wer kommt dieses Jahr mit? https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/tantra-with-a-pinch-of-salt-for-women-20250921 | 1 221 |
| 11 | - scroll down for english -
Liebe Leute!
FreundInnen in Brasilien, die ehemals mit luhmen d’arc zusammengearbeitet haben, engagieren sich für ein Übersetzungsprojekt.
TALES BEYOND MONOGAMY
Die brasilianische Autorin Bárbara Li Sarti, reflektiert in ihrem Buch ethische Nicht-Monogamie anhand realer Lebensberichte von neun Menschen in Brasilien, Menschen unterschiedlichen Alters, Geschlechts und unterschiedlicher sexueller Orientierungen. So stellt sie den vielen konzeptionellen Ansätzen konkrete Beispiele gelebter polyamouröser Vielfalt zur Seite.
Wir freuen uns, wenn Ihr gemeinsam mit uns dieses Projekt unterstützen mögt!
Matís bietet dafür auch ein paar extra luhmen d’arc-Perks für Super-Supporter an:
Die ersten vier Menschen, die 200 € - oder auch mehr - spenden, erhalten bei erfolgreichem Crowdfunding eine Seilbondage-Session. Die Session kann auch verschenkt, kann aber nur in Zürich oder Berlin eingelöst werden. Aber nicht zu lang zögern - first come, first served!
Als Nachweis bitte einen Screenshot der Spende an mail@luhmendarc.com senden. Wenn ihr sicher sein wollt, dass es noch eine Session gibt, schreibt vorab und frag nach.
Das Buch und anderes bekommt man auch schon bei kleineren Spenden.
Also dann!
Herzlichen Dank für eure Unterstützung!
Und hier geht’s zum Projekt:
www.kickstarter.com/projects/395630432/pre-sale-tales-beyond-monogamy
/ / / ENGLISH / / /
Dear all!
Friends in Brazil who previously collaborated with luhmen d’arc are currently working on a translation project.
TALES BEYOND MONOGAMY
In her book, the Brazilian author Bárbara Li Sarti reflects on ethical non-monogamy through real-life accounts from nine people in Brazil - individuals of different ages, genders, and sexual orientations. In this way, she places concrete examples of lived polyamorous diversity alongside the many conceptual and theoretical approaches to the topic.
We would be delighted if you would like to support this project together with us.
Matís is also offering a few extra luhmen d’arc perks for super supporters:
The first four people who donate €200 – or more – will receive a rope bondage session if the crowdfunding campaign is successful. The session may also be given as a gift, but it can only be redeemed in Zurich or Berlin. Don’t hesitate too long – first come, first served.
As proof, please send a screenshot of the donation to mail@luhmendarc.com. If you would like to be sure that a session is still available, feel free to write in advance and ask.
The book and other rewards are also available for smaller donations.
So then - many thanks for your support!
And here is the link to the project:
www.kickstarter.com/projects/395630432/pre-sale-tales-beyond-monogamy | 1 581 |
| 12 |  +53.-5. April in BERLIN
What if "problem" is understood as "answer" - what would then be the question?
Bring your sexual problems (we know we all have them!) and we will turn them into our muses, our homies, our allies, showing us other ways to become intimate. There must be another way!
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/fucking-problems-playful-explorations-flinta-edition-20260403 | 1 638 |
| 13 |  +7Dears,
We just created a new informative brochure about our upcoming summer retreat on tantra massages with a little twist 🤏🧂✨ -> https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5f3f6d8e4e96a669a77fea7e/t/6992e330930a911051ca8afc/1771234096953/TWAPOSfW2026.pdf
Tickets via: https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/tantra-with-a-pinch-of-salt-for-women-20250921 | 1 575 |
| 14 |  Hello!
Beata hier - sind MÜNCHENER da? 🥨✨ Bin vom 20.-22. FEBRUAR in der Stadt und bringe was mit:
Am 20. LESUNG im https://glitchbookstore.de/
Am 21. ein 🎀geheimer🎀 WORKSHOP mit anschließendem Playspace - für EUCH könnte ich trotz geschlossener Gesellschaft aber was klarmachen 😏 Schreibt mir bei Interesse! post@beateabsalon.de
Der Workshop ist von 13-20h, heißt "getting intimate - it's awkward!" und bietet ein vielerlei an Übungen an, um anzubahnen ohne einen auf cool machen zu müssen. Embrace the cringe!
Von 20:00-24:00h ist der Abend frei zum spielen und schlampen 🥰 | 1 342 |
| 15 |  +1Smut = anzügliche, sexuell explizite, aber handlungsfokussierte Literatur, mit starken Charakteren und emotionalen Spannungen.
Und asexual smut??
Let's find out!
FREITAG, 30. JAN in LEIPZIG
14-16:30h
Ein Schreibworkshop bei dem wir versuchen, sexy Sexszenen zu schreiben, die aber ablenken, verklemmt bleiben, auf keinen Höhepunkt zulaufen...
Kostet nix 🙂↕️
Anmeldung: branka@kunstverein-leipzig.org
KV Leipzig
Kolonnadenstraße 6
https://kunstverein-leipzig.org/actions/unerhoert/pleasure-work | 1 678 |
| 16 |  Hallo ihr Lieben!
Jetzt Mittwoch ab 20h mache ich zusammen mit der Sexualmedizinerin Stephanie Kossow einen Themenabend zur Frage: was könnte das Gute an (schl)echtem Sex sein? Und versuchen sexualwissenschaftlich wie kulturhistorisch zu klären, warum das Verdammen der Lust als auch Lustlosigkeit System hat... 🕵️♀️
about_bookshop
Linienstraße 114
10115 Berlin
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/unlust-als-kompass-tickets-1980250745286?aff | 1 140 |
| 17 |  +4Weil Dezember eine so lange Warteliste hatte, widmen wir uns unseren "fucking problems" im April gleich nochmal - in kleinerem Kreis, einen Tag länger und nur für Frauen, Lesben, nichtbinäre, trans, inter, agender Leute Anmeldung via post@beateabsalon.de
Mehr Infos
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/fucking-problems-playful-explorations-flinta-edition-20260403 | 1 507 |
| 18 | Hello! For everybody whose New Year's resolution consists of using less problematic social media outlets - we have just launched a Signal group which encrypts all messages, collects minimal user data and does not log IP addresses or profile information, making it more resistant to surveillance and data breaches.
https://signal.group/#CjQKIAOQjgiFH9xdb18-oy78XbExnm9qnrNagV0Byet2RPRrEhA33no2DQcC_1QjjukA37G6
We will still use this telegram Channel as well to inform about upcoming events.
Wishing you a nourishing and playful 2026 🦦✨ | 1 458 |
| 19 | 07.-08.02.2026 - Berlin
QUALITY TIME
A weekend for people in relation - a workshop designed with thought and care for couples, polycules, friends and lovers wishing to get closer (again)
www.luhmendarc.com/events/quality-time-20260207 | 1 511 |
| 20 |  SAT 20. DEC
Swarm Soothing - an evening of communal rest and regeneration
https://www.luhmendarc.com/events/aswarm-soothing-an-evening-on-communal-rest-and-regeneration-20251129-cbdb6 | 1 397 |
