Our Side of the Story

People who join psychology to save themselves. Seriously, the field is nothing but some theories and guidances that could assist you if you ever want to push further into clinical psychology or become a therapist (you know to actually help mentally challenged people) but I’m a hundred percent sure that it doesn’t have the answers to your problems nor does it tell you how to fix yourself.

More random talks birthed from walks to come lol

ተረት ተረት (እኔ ሞትን አልፈራም) I remember ያኔ, the skies were heavy with tomorrow's tears, and I spoke in hymns and felt the world stand still ቀጥ በቃ It was an ugly day ደሞ, a day of epiphany, remembrance, the day I broke my eye's seal ወድጄ ሳይሆን ተገድጄ ወዶ አይኑን የሚገልጥ የለም, I would rather have stayed blind እውነት, ግን እድሜ ለሷ, እድሜ ለወዳጄ በግድ አየሁ I remember, እግዚኦ, She just stood there and watched me drown እንደውም she helped the water reach my lungs too, she even pushed my struggling body down በግድ እንዳይ በገዛ አይኔ What cruelty is this? ደሞ እኮ, as if she would let me up ከልቤ መለመኔ እውነት, እኔ ሞትን አልፈራም, ከስንቱ ልብ ሞቻለሁ, ብርቄም አይደል. When it came to her ግን, እንጃ, ፍርሃት አይሉት ፈራሁ, ልመና አይሉት ለመንኩ እሷ ግን ጭካኔዋ, እንኳን ልትሰማኝ ይቅርና she just stood there, almost nonchalant እንደውም, to watch me suffer እውነት, እኔ ሞትን አልፈራም, የዛን ቀን ግን የነፍስ ነገር ሆኖብኝ, የግዴታ I learnt to breathe underwater. "እባክሽ, እባክሽ ታረቂኝ ተይ አታስጨንቂኝ" አዬ ካሣ ተሰማ...እኔም አንተም በሰው ልብ ላለመሞት ለማኝ ሆነን እንቅር? ኤድያ! Michael

The teacher raised a controversial question and I’m here praying in every language I can speak so I won’t get emotional and say things I’m not supposed to be saying in class. Anyways do you believe feminine role is strictly limited to the kitchen and baby fabrication or there’s more to it?

I have different homes, one is treasured more than the others, The place where friends turned into family. 2010.2014🖤

When are we going to grow out of our social anxiety please? It’s been decades already.

This was a great listen! Also a short and precise answer for everyone asking whether it’s safe to date during your teen years.

There’s something about fellow Christians saying “የአባቴ ልጅ" to you.

መንገድ ላይ ከብዙ ግዜ ቆይታ ያገኛችሁትን ሰው "ውይ! ከሳሽ" "ትንሽ ሰውነት ጨመርሽ ደግሞ ምንድነው ሸንቀጥ በይ እንጂ ጂም ምናምን ለምን አትገቢም?” That typical habesha ግልምጫ for a spice. “መልክሽ ጠቆር አለብኝ በሰላም ነው?" እንደው የህይወት ጥያቄ የለባችሁም? Don’t you have the inflation to worry about? Or some dream chasing? Kids to raise? A debt to pay? የሚባሉ እና የማይባሉ ነገሮች መለየት በጣም ቀላል ሆኖ ሳለ የዳገት ያህል አክብደነው ለምን ራሳችንን ማስተማር እንደሚቸግረን እንጃ:: ወፈሩ? ከሱ? ጠቆሩ? አማረባቸው? ደግ እንኳን ሆነ! Personal questions as such are only reserved for personal people. If you are seeing someone after a long while እንደ ጤነኛ ሰው ጤነኛ ሰላምታ ስጡ "Hi I haven’t seen you in a while, I hope you’re doing okay” ማንን ጎዳ? We all know how hard we’re having it. There’s school to worry about, going to work everyday though you have no motivation to, the people in our lives and the emotions we have to deal with, parents, family drama, the long list of dreams you want to accomplish, facing the truth about yourself and who you really are, the self doubt and all the days you feel inept. Just treat everyone with the same kindness you want to be treated with. “I just want to be left alone today” እንል አይደል? Maybe someone’s having that day too. በተረፈ if people come at you with this immature questions feel free to do whatever you please with their faces, you have my blessing <3

I want this weather all year round.

Go show some love :)