𝙪𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙡𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙨𝙤𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙚✨

About some of the one brain cell internet feminists and the performative empathy on it. Lately, I watched a story about a Paraguay senator who directed several racist slurs at Mbappé. When she realized that the overwhelming majority of people were condemning her behavior, she suddenly reframed the backlash as gender based violence. That made me stop and ask myself Are we creating our own form of oppression? If someone calls a man illiterate or compares him to a chimpanzee, does that suddenly become acceptable simply because the person saying it is a woman? Accountability shouldn’t disappear just because the roles are reversed. Once I came across a video saying that “men should start life in jail.” Then another saying, “I’ll never go to a baby shower if the newborn is a boy.” 😅 ስትይ? lol. calling yourself a “girl’s girl” while openly resenting innocent children simply because they’re boys? At what point do we stop fighting oppression and slowly become the oppressor we’ve spent generations criticizing? I’ve also seen women being called “birds” simply because they choose to love and support their husbands. Mothers who adore their sons are mocked as “typical boy moms,” as if loving your own child is somehow shameful. Now, ሳይገባኝ አይደለም፣ ሊደገፉ አይደለም በመጀመሪያ ደረጃ ባል ሊሆኑ የማይገባቸው ቤት ቆጥሮ የማይጨርሳቸው አሸን ባለጌዎች፣ ማጋጮች፣ ደብዳቢዎች፣ አጥቂዎች፣ ሴትን አሳንሶ አዪዎች እንዳሉ.. ሳይገባኝ አይደለም፣ ወንድ ልጇን የባል ያህል ያለመስመር የምትወድ፣ ጣልቃ ገብ ቀናተኛ የሆነች እናት እንዳለች፣ በባሏ የምትጠላውን በልጇ ያፀደቀች፣ የሴት ልጇን ጉልበት መዝማዥ ወንድ ልጇን ሸክም አድርጋ አሳዳጊ እንዳለች… ግን ልክ አለው፣ anything with out a balance ገደል እንደሚገባ ቆም ብለን የምናስብበት አፍታ እንድናገኝ ለሁሉም እየተመኘሁ፣ በስመ “ባለጌ ባል” መልካሙን ባሏን የምትወደውን ስም መስጠት ፣ በስመ "mama's boy" ወንድ ልጇን በእናት ደንብ የምትወደውን ማናናቅ የእህትማማችነቱን ጭንቅላት እንዴት ያስገመግመዋል? I remember seeing women with purple profile pictures calling another woman a “pick me” simply because she made a video saying, “ባምቢ can’t be a role model.” But you know who is picked? Bambi. Stupid of you to assume a man will pick a woman with morals, integrity and dignity. Naive of you to think that's not something they think "intimidating" But you know what's more sad? Your internet sisterhood, won't help you either to get you anywhere in life if you are intimidating for them as you are for men. The “performative sympathy” is for people they look down on, for people that knows their history and could use as a weapon whenever they need to. As long as you’re accessible, ስትባልጊ ይደገፍልሻል፤ ስትለምኚ ይታዘንልሻል። You don’t have to “send a nude and be found” to be considered strong. There are countless women living this life raw, struggling every single day, many of them never get opportunities, recognition, or financial support even after asking for help. Yet despite thousands of self proclaimed feminists online, a woman still has to beg just to reach 100,000 followers and finally get a bag. Sometimes I think we’re all hypocrites when it comes to genuine empathy or the so called sisterhood, We often need someone to look down on before we feel compassion. በገዛ ብልግናዋ ከልጅ እስከ ደቂቁ የደገፋት የቆመላት ሴት ከህፃን ልጅ አለባበስ የተፈለሰፈ አጭር ቀሚስ አይሉት ቁምጣ ለብሳ "ይሄን ለብሼ አልወጣም ግን ህፃን ያስመስለኛል" ብላ ስትለጥፍ ህዝቤ in fusion "ስታምሪ” ይላል። Red pill content consume አድርገው የጠገቡ እንደ እዮብ ሀይሌ አይነት creators are always quick to make videos criticizing opinionated, decent women with senses but when someone is openly appealing to pedophilic fantasies, promoting content that can negatively influence young girls, they suddenly have nothing to say. Funny, isn’t it? በጣም በቅርቡ ለብዙዎች ደራሽ፣ አጋዥ የሆነች ሴት የፃፈችዉን ፅሁፍ አንብቤ ልቤ ለሁለት ተክፍሏል። እርዱኝን ያለመደች ለክብሯ ሟች ሴት፣ በስራዋ መከበር መደገፍ ሲኖርባት ወንዶቹም ጨርቋን፣ ሴቶችም ገበናዋን ካልገለጥን እገዛን እምቢ አሉ። ከምንም ከምንም የሚቀፈኝ ደግሞ የአይዞሽ በርቺ አርበኞች ናቸው። ለስሙማ ሀምሳ ሎሚ ገለመሌ ብለን ተርተናል። ግን ሸክሙ የሚታገዘው አይን ያወጣው፣ ገላው የረከሰው ልመና ያልታከተው ነው። ባለጌን የሚያበረታ እህትማማችነት፣ ባል ቀምታ፣ ትዳር አፍርሳ ስንቱን ያስለቀሰች መረንን ወፌ ቆመች ዳዴ የሚያስብል ሶሊዳሪቲ:) ባለጌውን አንገዋሎ የማያወጣ ሙቭመንት መጨረሻው ሊጥለው የሚታገለውን ጨቋኝ መሆን ነው። Against all odds, እንደ ሀይማኖት ተከትዬው ሳይሆን ለራሴ አስፈልጎኝ ከስሙ በፊት ፕሮሰሱን ቀድሜ ያገኘሁት ሙቭመንት ስለሆነ በጉዞው ውስጥ እሳተፋለሁ። This journey is still unfolding, and I understand that we’re nowhere near the finish line.