Seeds of Tarbiyyah 🐣

وَكَيْفَ تَأْخُذُونَهُۥ وَقَدْ أَفْضَىٰ بَعْضُكُمْ إِلَىٰ بَعْضٍۢ وَأَخَذْنَ مِنكُم مِّيثَـٰقًا غَلِيظًۭا And how could you take it back after having enjoyed each other intimately and she has taken from you a firm commitment? — 4:21 Allah, in His divine wisdom established the existence of both male and female. In the intricate weave of society, it is the family that serves as the bedrock, the essential cornerstone of social infrastructure. The wife is the bedrock of the family and the family is the most important establishment in society. Families, as the primary units of society, have significant bearing on the overall societal structure. Therefore, when destructive forces aim to destroy and destabilization a nation they begin by attacking the family unit first. They employ tactics aimed at dismantling the role of women, leading to a disintegration of home life. Women are encouraged to leave their homes, resulting in children being moulded and raised by television and phone screens. This chaos within the family also contributes to a shocking increase in divorce rates. However, to safeguard against such detrimental forces, it is imperative that the foundations of family are firmly rooted in love, respect, and shared responsibilities within the boundaries of the Shari’ah. Relationships must be nurtured with affection, mercy, and patience to create environments of understanding and mutual support. It is through such efforts that families can withstand external pressures, providing society with a robust anchor. Allah gathered between spouses in goodness, joy, and blessings in the marital bond. The foundation of a spouse's connection should be rooted in love and selflessness, enveloped by tenderness, kindness, and comfort for one another. There should be a preference for each other. When each of you prefer the other over yourself you find both spouses rights being fulfilled and satisfied, creating an atmosphere of satisfaction and tranquility. In this mutual sanctuary, spouses find comfort, delight, and rejuvenation. You become each other's source of solace and happiness, seeking solace in the tranquility each provides. Despite worldly hardships or financial constraints, the wealth of love and peace in your relationship makes you feel abundantly rich and content, as though you're the wealthiest individuals on earth. The foundation of a successful marriage involves prioritizing each other over oneself. Patience, sacrifice, generosity, and constant support are key aspects. Irrespective of the circumstances, each partner makes every possible effort to ease the other's burdens. This cooperation contributes to raising healthy children, which is only achievable through effective communication, love, and understanding among spouses. Without love, the family unit cannot thrive, but with it, the family flourishes as they cooperate and forgive each other for shortcomings. Consider this analogy: if it's freezing outside, one would naturally long for a repose, a warm house to seek comfort in. This is similar to a husband who, upon leaving home, anticipates finding comfort and warmth upon his return, which primarily lies in his wife. A lot of men today abuse their wives. They should remember the words of the Messenger: “The believers who show the most perfect Faith are those who have the best behaviour, and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives". The Prophet never hit anyone - servant, slave, child or wife! You cannot harm or humiliate women, they are respectful and honourable. The Prophet is our excellent example, he used to give A’isha رضي الله عنها the meat and he would suck the bones, he would give A’isha the drink and he’d drink from the spot she drank. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “You will be rewarded for whatever you spend for Allah's sake even if it were a morsel which you put in your wife's mouth." Fear Allah regarding your spouse. You have taken them as a trust from Allah.Intercourse has been made lawful among you by the word of Allah. — Shaykh Musa Jibril حفظه الله

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Every child is unique, so never compare them to other children or their own siblings! 🌸 “What is befitting is for the parents not to make comparisons between their children, whether it be with other children or their own siblings, for every child is special and unique. There are some matters in which children prosper in very well where others don’t and other areas where they need support and encouragement. Drawing comparisons is destructive, it is degrading them and damaging their personality.” — Shaykh Musa Jibril (حفظه الله) #SeedsOfTarbiyyah 🐣

The Dreaded Tantrum! ✨ Your children are tiny humans who will come with their own set of wants, needs, and emotions. It’s not always easy for them to regulate their feelings, or properly express them to you. So they need your help and guidance as they learn to process and navigate through their emotions and feelings. They don’t need to be scolded or reprimanded at a time where their feelings are heightened. They are looking for love and respect when they act out. They want you to comfort them! To be there for them, and to pay attention to them! Shaykh Musa Jibril (حفظه الله) gives beautiful advice regarding this matter, he says: “Your children have a right to be respected by the parents, this will help their development to flourish. When your child is misbehaving, yelling, screaming, pulling his/her own hair, they are seeking their own respect from you, they are seeking love and care. These symptoms should be handled by the parent wisely and give the child their respect to boost their self-esteem and so they can learn to honour themselves. Guide and encourage them through positive reinforcements. Always show him respect When the child yells screams pulls hair, hitting etc. He is seeking his own respect and love, there is a lack of respect when you see these symptoms. Anas رضي الله عنه said, I served the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم for ten years and he never said to me, "Uf" (a minor harsh word denoting impatience) and never blamed me by saying, "Why did you do so or why didn't you do so?" He never criticised or blamed Anas!” It can be extremely difficult to keep ones composure when your child is having a tantrum. But remember to take a deep breathe and don’t let your emotions take over. Have patience and mercy on your child! They are just looking for love and want to know that they can count on you to be there for them.

Raising Men! "The state of our Ummah will change for the better when women return to what they were: makers of men [i.e, raising boys to become true men, by the Will of Allah], not a reason for the fitnah of men."

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Life After Hijrah ✈️ One thing I have noticed about children who grew up in a Muslim majority country is their Islamic identity is very evident. It's deeply rooted in their upbringing because of their surroundings. They see Islam in action everywhere they go, and there are less conflicting messages surrounding them that go against the teachings of Islam. Now combine this with a proper and conscious Islamic Tarbiyyah from the parents, bi'ithnillah this will help raise an unstoppable generation! You see it through their words (they are constantly praising Allah and remembering him.) You see it in how they dress. You see them subconsciously following the sunnah and the list can go on. Every Muslim should make the effort to leave the evil lands of the Kuffar, in hopes of protecting their children from the fitnah that is so easily accessible. I will end with a short story and an example of some of the youth of today! A group of neighborhood children were gathered together and instead of playing they decided on their own that one will be the teacher, and the rest will be the students. One of the little girls was reciting Quran and the rest were repeating after her. It was such a beautiful moment seeing the youth and the future generation of our Ummah connecting with the words of Allah. May Allah guide and protect our children and make them revivers! Ameen

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