Toxic Masculinity

What you decide to put your belief in, you give it power If you believe that you cannot do this You won't be able to If you believe that the world is a beautiful place and you deserve everything Guess what will happen? If you believe that all the women are attracted to you and would kill for a chance to sleep w you Guess what will happen? You see the game is simple All you have to do is Put your belief in POSITIVITY instead of NEGATIVITY Thank me later

The most underrated trait for a happy life: decisiveness. Our intuition is that it’s best to keep our options open. But as long as you try to keep every door open, you’ll never be able to walk through the one that matters. You feel like you’re adding more potential to your life, but all you’re doing is guaranteeing your inability to commit to anything. A question I would like you to ask yourself: What doors are you keeping open that you’ll never walk through? What’s stopping you from closing them?

The days where you're feeling extremely low Are the exact days where you should put the extra work in.

The art of not being ready and still doing it anyway will take you farther Than waiting till you're ready and then start doing it

Getting what you want out of life largely boils down to (1) the story you tell yourself and (2) where you direct your attention. What story do you tell yourself about what has happened to you, what you're capable of, and what you hope to achieve? Is the conversation in your head each day empowering and encouraging you, or holding you back? And are you taking control and directing your attention toward what matters or merely letting inertia pull you along? Most things don't matter and most actions won't deliver a result. Focus. Master your internal monologue and master your daily attention. Most tips, tricks, and tactics ultimately come back to these two things

Still can't believe how many men just keep blaming their looks And when I ask them what are you doing to get out of this situation? They say nothing There's no point in complaining if you haven't even tried fixing something I've said a 100 times A good lean physique A good fashion sense A good hygeine is enough to grab a women attention But all they do is keep complaining And tbh I'm actually in debt to these guys for not making a move in improving themselves Because they're reducing the competition and allowing people like me to have to more beautiful women

Nothing teaches faster than feedback from reality. this is why I've been always believed in fuck around and find out method.

You must learn to enjoy life without needing an audience to see that you are enjoying life.

The world belongs to you Do not settle for anything less than you deserve

when counting your loses, failures and as a result feeling like shit don't forget to count some of your wins too might help you

No amount of money can bought a woman who doesn't care about it No matter how tall you are you can't get woman who doesn't care about height No matter how good looking you are you can't get woman who doesn't care about height No matter how jacked you are you can't get woman who doesn't care about height No matter how gentlemen you are you can't get woman who doesn't care about height There are women of every type, some of them only cares about money some of them don't even give a fuck But they all have been responding to the same thing and that is — stronger frame and intense sexually playful vibe which keeps her engaged throughout the conversations it's not always true what they show on their instagram, or what they tell they want in a man, it's always what they respond to So choose your woman wisely. you're getting my point aren't you?

compounding is the key to achieve anything you want it life small efforts overtime will often yield great rewards Let me give you some examples : - you won't build muscle in a single day, but with constant lifting overtime you will achieve it You can't learn a skill in a single day, but with constant practice you will master it The key is to create a bundle of small efforts and it will eventually lead you to your destination

Never miss 2 days in a row that's the start of a new habit

It only needs to make sense to you and if it does do it.

Porn corrupts your soul

"A friend of mine who had a relationship of seven years, so his girl cheated on him and then excuse was that he was not good in bed and had a small dick, while his while her new guy is actually good in bed."

recently a badass in our discussion group put up a very good situation First of all let me confirm it for you closures are nothing but fake lies Why? because the human brain doesn't want to perceive himself as the villain, therefore it creates a story, an excuse to justify the actions this is why women/man usually justify cheating by saying “You weren’t giving me attention.” “He understands me better.” “I was unhappy.” “It just happened.” “You made me do it.” i.e. shifting the blame to the other person These are self-justification narratives so the person doesn’t see themselves as the villain in their own story. (there is no justification of cheating, it's totally a choice) people rarely think logically before doing something wrong because they're moving emotionally and once the action is done which they realise afterwards that it will lead to destruction so they start finding excuses, connecting dots, and start finding every possible reason to not look like a villain (this is called Cognitive Dissonance Reduction in psychology, you can check it out it's a great topic) and believe me when i say this that the reason are nothing but straight BS so the pattern usually follows like this Emotional disconnect / Attraction drop → Opportunity appears → Emotional decision → Physical cheating → Guilt / Fear → Justification story → Blame shifting → Closure conversation (edited version of truth) Justification and Reason for cheating are two different aspects this is the justification part, Later i'll post the reason part too

People don’t always hurt you because they are evil. Sometimes they hurt you because they are confused, immature, selfish, or just not ready.

There is something that I need you guys to understand That is a relationship can be real, beautiful, and still not meant to last And that's totally fine Sometimes people don't come in your life to stay They come to mirror you Show your sides that needs to be worked upon They come to show your weeknes, your insecurity Your faults But also They introduced you to a side of yourself that you never know existed And that is the most beautiful part So as long as you keep your arms open Let people in and let them leave Constantly work upon your flaws You will eventually craft the person you're destined to be.

You were never supposed to have life figured out by 25. “Find your purpose” is bullsh*t. We live in a culture obsessed with discovering your one true purpose—a billion-dollar self-help industry, countless TED talks, and graduation speeches that promise every person a unique, singular calling. Yet surveys show that fewer than one in every three adults can define theirs. Meanwhile, society keeps pushing you to have a passion, a plan, a personal brand… before you’re even old enough to rent a car. And when you don’t find it, the guilt hits: “I must be failing.” This is what I call “purpose anxiety”—that low-grade panic that you’re wasting your life if you can’t summarize it in a sentence that sounds good on a podcast intro. But that’s complete nonsense. Purpose is something you practice, not some sort of buried treasure you stumble across. It doesn’t arrive in some burst of clarity—it accumulates through small, meaningful actions. Through trial, error, and showing up. If you feel like you lack purpose, it’s probably because you’ve been sold the idea that if your purpose doesn’t look grand and polished, it doesn’t count. But when “purpose” gets reduced to “passion,” “job title,” or “grand destiny,” it stops being valuable, and starts becoming unreachable. So take your time. Ignore everyone else. There’s no deadline for becoming who you are

The are Allowed to have preferences Don't let society shape your thinking and perspectives You have the right to decide who you want to let in your world and who don't get any access to you This is your greatest strength Align yourself with right people, right woman, right brotherhood Because In the long run Who you surround yourself with will determine what type of a person you'd going to become