DATING
Dating is hard, even difficult than marriage. WHY?!
Because both genders are selfish most especially the feminine gender.
I say this because of the kind of entitlement ladies assume they have. The mindset of "since he asked me out, he should do all the work". Ladies put in little or no work in making a relationship work.
Now, are all ladies like this? Most definitely not. But the ratio of ladies that actually reciprocate 'energy' in relationships out of 10 is only about 2-3. Even when a guy sees them and tries talking to them, the kind of "stupid flexing" they put up is just annoying. The assumption of 'they are too beautiful' to actually behave like sane beings to listen to what the guy has to say is just nonsensical.
Why and I ask again why, do ladies expect guys to put in all the work in a relationship.?
Do ladies realize that they are the carries of any relationship?, As in a relationship working or not depends on them?, Or just because the guy approached them means he should do everything? That's a foul mindset. Personally, the number of ladies contacts I delete in a month is bear ridiculous.
Let's move from dating and take a look at normal male-female friendship. Girls hardly text or call their male friends, guys who actually call and text girls consistently are considered nuisances and simpletons. There are girls that actually take days to reply a guy just to look important or busy. Why?
They play these silly games to look 'expensive' and high class.
Every guy out there wants someone who gives back the same energy they put out.
A girl will like a guy, that same guy will approach and ask her out, then foolishly she starts playing games, because she's been told if she accepts on the first approach, she looks cheap.
What kinda stupid logic is that?
If you're dating someone who prioritize themselves more than you, think again.
That person has nothing good for you.
Am I saying the guys are innocent of stupidity? HELL NO!! Some guys I've encountered are the MOST foolish idiots on planet earth. A guy will get a good lady who's willing to go all out for him, even when he has nothing to offer but that guy will start feeling too important that he will take such a lady for granted.
Some guys are brave. He'll joke with such a lady because he think she's too obsessed to let go him go and rather chase after golddigging bitches that has nothing to offer other than sex. And it becomes extra funny when said golddiggers refuse them sex but he keep chasing after them because in his head, "I'll get her one day". What a delusional asshole!
They day your eye go clear, that's the day you see your foolishness in black and white.
Men, study the girl you're currently dating. If she's ready and willing to stay with you in your hard times, you've find your wife, helper and guardian angel. No questions asked. Do all you can to make her happy, joking with someone like that is one grevious mistake, the day she leaves, your blessings leave with her cos she's your blessings.
Girls, not all the guys you meet has to have money on the get go.
Make sure your man has a solid vision, something that involves a long term plan, something that can secure your future with him.
Is he hardworking, does he have a plan, what is his focus in life etc...all this these are question you should him and yourself on the first date with a guy.
Some of you ladies are so shallow minded that all you think of on the first date is food, his good looks and nonsense sweet words. You never ask the important questions. You prioritize partying, clubing, smoking, etc, these are what you describe as the good life. After you get to your 30s, you expect marriage. Who the fuck will marry a girl who smokes and drinks heavily.?? Ask yourself!!
That's when you'll remember that a decent looking man who actually had a vision asked you out earlier and you refused because according to you, he was 'beneath your class'.