Traditional Dating Guide

Life’s been busy for me lately. It’s honestly the best stage of life, adapting to marriage and children. My daughter’s first words were “dada.” However I don’t have much time or energy to post/manage this channel (if that wasn’t obvious already), so I’m taking a hiatus for a while. I’ll keep the chat/comments open and check in every now and then. The mods are active, they know what kind of behavior to ban and have some insight to answer questions. If it gets to be chaotic, I’ll close the chat. For the new men with questions, start at the beginning 👇 https://t.me/TradWifeDating/4 And when you’re ready to get serious about finding your wife, get the book 👇 https://a.co/d/4QaxJwy

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Wanted to do a quick post here about emotional reactions. In my line of work, I face rejection a LOT. Not taking it personally is difficult to do on a consistent basis, but it’s crucial for men to understand that’s exactly how men should behave. In business and dating. Getting defensive, reactive, and holding grudges, etc. is an emotional reaction. Shifting to a neutral and logical mindset is the best way to operate in those situations. In business it’s a necessary skill for making, building, and maintaining important relationships that drive growth. In dating it’s how you pass a woman’s tests for insecurity. If you find yourself getting down about rejection, take a moment to address those emotions. Feel it to heal it, and then shift your mindset. A positive reminder when you’re feeling down about rejection: it means you’re in the game, putting yourself out there, and showing up. You won’t find your future wife if you’re not facing rejection.

𝘙𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝘭𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘦𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯’𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘤𝘩. 𝘉𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘝𝘢𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘦’𝘴 𝘋𝘢𝘺 💕

Your addictions (porn, media, video games, eating, alcohol, drugs) are a byproduct of your lifestyle. You look at memes that tell you to overcome these addictions, but all they do is serve as a temporary distraction. The fact is, only 1/20 men are able to simply willpower their way out of addiction. The solution for the other 19 is the need to change how you live. Have you been struggling for years to do nofap? Did you spend all weekend drinking, watching netflix, and playing videogames? Are you still not losing that weight? Your life has to look completely different if you're going to change these things. If you're giving up video games, you have to find a new way to hang out with your friends. If you're giving up porn, you have to stop visiting sites where you casually get exposed to it. To break these routines that are keeping you addicted, your life has to look completely different.

I got a message asking for advice on giving affection - knowing when to give it and not come off as weird, needy, or effeminate. When you’re in the initial stages of courtship, it’s all butterflies and tingles because it’s new. You’re paying attention to her body language for signs to hold her hand, kiss her, etc... She will tell you with her body language - rather loudly - when she’s ready for you to make a move. It’s up to you to go for it. Remember, if you think you can kiss her, you probably could have kissed her 10 minutes ago. Now when you’re in a relationship, engagement, or marriage, and living together it’s a little different. It’s not as fine a line as when you’re initially dating. If you’re doing things right, she’s not going to have her walls up around you. Then it’s just a matter of living and loving each day honestly and with gratitude. That’s the key to keeping the fire burning. Gratitude. If you’re living in gratitude, you’ll have moments every day where you look at her with joy and just want to show her. Genuine affection in the moment is never unwelcome. Little acts like hugging her from behind while she’s doing dishes or cooking, kisses on the back of her neck, letting her know that you appreciate her in your life. Don’t confuse that with the mindset of “I need to kiss/hug her x amount of times per day to keep her happy” - that’s not genuine, and women have a sixth sense for a man’s intentions. It’s all about genuine, honest expressions of joy, gratitude, and love.