what goes through a girl’s head

i am the way i am because growing up & still to this day im the daughter that talks back in arguements because i believe that everyone equal respect.

the guilt you get for choosing to be midnight rain when you were fully capable of being the daylight

Not one scar on my heart came from the enemy, they all came from people who said they loved me.

behind a girl who hates her birthday, is a little kid who longs to be surprised, to be welcomed at 12:00 AM, to be showered with gifts and a cake and to eceive a letter expressing how important she is.

Why don't men understand that the real reason we don't want our boyfriends following random girls or liking their pics is because he is letting that girl know he like's what he sees. That's embarrassing as a girlfriend.

if you ever see me in a long lasting relationship just know he got through my phase of, dry texting, my moody behavior, always saying idk, and all the times i pushed him away

we were too different (you were emotionally available,and i have avoidant attachment)

I CANNOT fw people who do NOT understand the PRINCIPLE of things. it's not what you did, it's how you did it, and what makes it worse is knowing if roles were reversed, you'd lose your mind.

loving me feels like holding onto broken glass..no matter how gentle and genuine your love are, you'll still end up bleeding and i'll still be standing there watching you hurt, wishing i could be easier to love but knowing i'm not.

most men want a woman with a big heart. but what they don't understand is, a woman with a big heart comes with big emotions. she's passionate, she cries over small things, she gets really sad and really mad but she will love you like no one else. you can't have someone with a big heart and expect them to have small feelings. so you should have a big understanding too. because her love will not be quiet. it will be loud, it will be full, it will be more than you ever felt before. she will notice the little things. she will remember the words you said. she will see when you are hurting even if you try to hide it. she will care for you without you asking. her heart will hold your pain as if it is her own. but that also means she can get hurt deeply. she can feel worried for no reason. she can overthink every small thing. and she will need your patience. because a big heart will give you the best love, but it will also need the best understanding

Woman's Language !! Yes = No No= Yes Maybe = No We Need =| Want We Need To Talk = You're In Trouble Go Ahead = You Better Not Do What You Want = You'll Pay For This Later I'm Not Upset = OF COURSE, I AM

as my final act of love, i won't reach out to you again, because i finally realized that sometimes love means letting go, even when a part of me still wants to hold on. and because i know that if i keep holding on, the space between us will only grow heavier, filled with what can no longer be. i have learned that love is not always about staying no matter what. sometimes it means walking away quietly, so you can breathe without me, and i can learn to breathe without you. yes, we loved each other in the best way we knew, but sometimes even the best is not enough. so i won't chase after what has already gone. maybe one day our paths will cross again. but until then, i will keep my promise to you and to myself. i will stay quiet. i will stay away. i will keep my distance. because as my final act of love, i won't reach out to you again.

as my final act of love, i won't reach out to you again. because i finally realized that sometimes love means letting go, even when a part of me still wants to hold on. and because i know that if i keep holding on, the space between us will only grow heavier, filled with what can no longer be. i have learned that love is not always about staying no matter what. sometimes it means walking away quietly, so you can breathe without me, and i can learn to breathe without you. yes, we loved each other in the best way we knew, but sometimes even the best is not enough. so i won't chase after what has already gone. maybe one day our paths will cross again. but until then, i will keep my promise to you and to myself. i will stay quiet. i will stay away. i will keep my distance. because as my final act of love, i won't reach out to you again.

no effort means no interest. when someone really cares, you will see it and feel it. they will want to know how your day was. they will want to spend time with you. they will try to make you happy. being busy is never an excuse because if they love you, they will make time. you should never have to beg for effort. when a person loves you, you will not have to ask them to show it. they will make the effort because they want to, not because you told them to. if someone is not showing effort, believe them. it means they are not as interested as you are. you cannot force someone to care. you deserve someone who chooses you, someone who gives the same effort that you give.

It's not overreacting, We all have different sensitivity. If it hurts, it hurts. No explanation needed.

realizing how much disrespect i accepted just because i have a good heart. i thought being kind meant staying quiet, letting things slide, and giving people endless chances. i told myself they didn't mean it, that maybe they were just having a hard time, and that love or friendship meant patience. but deep down, i was hurting. all because i wanted to believe the best in people. i ignored the way they made me feel, because i didn't want to lose them. but now i see it clearly. having a good heart doesn't mean letting others walk all over me. it doesn't mean lowering my worth to keep them comfortable. my kindness should never come at the price of my own peace. i deserve to be respected, and to be treated with the same care i give to others. so from now on, i refuse to settle for anything less than that.

and i think you're brave for finally choosing yourself and letting go of the things which no longer bring peace to your heart

and the truth is that it doesn't matter how well someone loves you, if you don't believe you are worthy of love then you won't be able to fully receive it hazel satija

Always remember, someone's effort is the reflection of their interest in you.

and the truth is that it doesn't matter how well someone loves you, if you don't believe you are worthy of love then you won't be able to fully receive it