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studying the relationship between premarital sexual experience and marital sexual satisfaction Liberals have always pushed this myth that religious people, and individuals who refrain from premarital sex end up having unsatisfying sexual lives after marriage. Their reasoning being that since these people don't "gain sexual experience", and don't embrace kinks, and also since in their view religion hates sex, then religious people have awful sex lives. However multiple studies have shown that having more sexual experience before marriage ends decreasing sexual satisfaction after marriage. Source: Willoughby, B. J., Carroll, J. S., Dover, C., & Sullivan, J. T. (2023). The Myth of Sexual Experience: Why Sexually Inexperienced Dating Couples Actually Go On to Have Stronger Marriages . The Wheatley Institute.

Rewired w/ Joe Dispenza Season 1

I am posting this series here because this explains the science behind sigup. How to improve, what that means to your mindset, body, how to meditate, everything.

The way to stop procrastination is to stop doing something and start doing NOTHING Yes you read that correctly When people procrastinate they usually substitute their desired activity for another non productive activity like scrolling, listening to music, playing vidya etc (Note: it doesn’t even have to be a negative activity to be procrastination. Sometimes you’ll workout, or read, or go for a walk, when what you really know you need to do is work. Procrastination is about priority vs non priority) Because of this they never get to feel the full weight of their inaction in the moment because they’re burying it by substituting positive action for time passing action Whenever you feel there’s something you need to do and you just can’t quite bring yourself to do it STOP EVERYTHING YOU’RE DOING Sit down and stare at the f*cking wall or stare off into space. no talking, no moving, no activity. Just you and your inner voice. In a short amount of time you start to feel how much time and life is being wasted, you get sick of hearing your mind tell you what you should be doing. Eventually you get forced into action

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The Samurai Ethic and Modern Japan: Yukio Mishima On Hagakure Translated from The Japanese by Kathryn Sparling (1978)