ELVIS SIMONS

HAPPY FATHERS’ DAY to every single man out there. As a responsible father, continue being the unmovable rock of happiness and motivation to your family. Continue to be the big umbrella that protects your children from all the insanity the world throws at them. Continue to be the stoic and strong man who never loses hope even in tough times. Your family needs you. As a potential father, continue to respect family values, choose the best woman to make a family with and lastly, never fail your children. God bless us all !!!

Women struggle to understand this or pretend they don’t because they probably enjoy the attention they get from them. They try to find it ridiculous when you as her man tries to talk to her about it.

I don’t understand why some women expect their men to put them above their mothers. They fail to understand how easily replaceable they are and mothers are not. A woman who lacks family values and wasn’t loved during her formative years behaves that way. In fact, If your woman puts you in that spot, to choose between your mother and her, she’s not for you. She will break families and destroy you.

As a young man, no matter what you do, make sure you secure a very good deodorant. Even if it would require you to use your last penny to do that. Body odour can eat away your confidence and have negative effects on your social and professional life. The very moment someone who really respects and admires you smells this odour on your body, that’s it. This respect and admiration is lost. Use an antiperspirant deodorant. Antiperspirant deodorants contain aluminum-based compounds that help to reduce sweating. It also contain antimicrobial agents that can kill the bacteria (Staphylococcus hominis) which normally dwells in the armpit that cause body odour. Don’t be known for body odour.

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Avocado is one food men should love eating. It has great impact on your sexual health. Include it in your diet.

Young man, “I’ll just apologise for peace to reign even when I didn’t do anything wrong” is a sick mentality. “Choose peace over being right” is another loose mindset. You have a big problem if your woman can’t admit and apologise when she’s wrong, and does not see any problem with the things she does wrongly. It’s not about having peace, it’s about your woman having a conscience.

Involving families too much in your marriage can be detrimental. Accepting members from either side of the family to stay with you in your marital home comes with more demerits. They may influence your decisions in the marriage which may affect your spouse, They may break boundaries in your marital home, They usually think they have a say about whatever goes on in your marriage since they live with you, They may create a false impression about your spouse which may break your marriage, They may disrespect your spouse, They may create trouble that would make you choose sides against your spouse, Sensitive and confidential information about your marriage may not be safe with them around, before you know it, all other members of the family are made known. Before you accept a family member to live with you in your marital home, understand the risks involved. Familiarity breads contempt. Family is family no matter what but boundaries are boundaries and must be respected no matter what!

Young man, Understand that the masculine world is very competitive. You’ve got to be strong physically, mentally and financially. That is only how you can survive in such a competitive world. Make more money, workout and stay stoic.

Men, after building acquaintance with her, go straight to the point. Most women that attractive. It shows some good level of confidence. Don’t play around her for more than a month only to get rejected and disappointed. She knows why you approached her, she’s just playing along. When she’s not interested, she’ll probably act nice and wait till you ask her out and reject you. She may act surprised when you do that but truly, she’s not. That’s her playing along. When she’s interested in you too, you get to know it and know how to proceed from there. Lastly, if she rejects your proposal, don’t accept to be a friend.

Woman gets kicked out of the house after DNA test results show he is not the father of their daughter. Now she would rather gaslight you than admit she’s wrong and apologise. She will try to leverage the love you have for the kid to manipulate you. Do that DNA test ASAP!

People say; -sex is the least important thing in marriage, -sex is the easiest accessible thing in marriage, -marriage is not all about sex But sexual incompatibility is enough reason for married couples to call for divorce. Reduced sexual drive towards each other creates frustration enough to end a marriage. How does the least important thing in marriage end up being enough reason to end marriage? Don’t let them lie to you. Sex is important in marriage. Very important. Having a partner who matches your sexual drive, and who is as sexually active as you are is very important and must not be overlooked. I'd always say, know what you're getting into before you proceed. How you choose to do that is up to you.

She has always wanted to smash his friend even before he lost his job, even before she became “the man of the house”. Just 30 days?! Well, you can’t expect much from what is meant to be tossed around the street. No remorse, no morals and no shame. This is what you get from wifing a hoe. Moreover, having weak men as friends will always get you fucked up. I promise you. Mind those you keep as friends. Finally, brothers, stay off married women. Have some dignity!

Life tips to stay healthy and be a better person: 1. Have standards and hold firmly onto them. 2. Know your blood pressure. 3. Let hydration be extremely important to you. 4. Limit your salt intake. 5. Normalise smelling good all the time. 6. Go for the love you think you deserve. 7. Never tolerate disrespect from anyone. 8. Exercise. Work out and stay active. 9. Report any persistent chest pains. 10. Always give a firm handshake and maintain eye contact. 11. Forgive but never forget. 12. Say what you mean and mean what you say. 13. Never have unprotected sex with someone you never wish to have a child with. 14. Wash your towel. 15. Never ignore red flags. They’re called red flags for a reason. 16. Learn to say No to people. 17. Reduce your expectations to not always get disappointed. 18. Always carry cash. 19. Don’t try to impress a woman. Be yourself and take it easy. 20. Have enough sleep. 21. Do not hold back urine. Urinate immediately you feel like it. 22. Never have sex in the dark with someone for the first time. 23. Use floss after brushing your teeth. 24. Just do it. Don’t wait for anyone. 25. Always look at the tiny details. 26. Cut alcohol and energy drinks. 27. Make money no matter what. 28. Reciprocate respect and show gratitude. 29. Learn a skill. 30. Do not self-medicate.

When you’re having a shower in the morning, try to examine your testicles Roll your balls between your fingers to check if you can detect changes like -massive difference in testicular size -sharp pain -varicocele -lumps or swelling -change in colour of the scrotum If you detect such changes, get examined at the hospital to know what the problem may be and get treated. It is possible that it is nothing to be concerned about, but you will not know until you have a medical examination. Making testicular self-examinations a habit can help you detect changes from the onset. Save your balls.

Learn to be calm in anger-triggering situations. Exercise the deep breath techniques to calm your nerves down even before you start to say or do anything. That will help you maintain your composure to act right. This is one of the moments that can render you vulnerable to make lots of regrettable decisions. Learn to control your temper, don’t let it control you.

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-If you have heartburn, normalise sleeping on your left side. -Not having enough sleep can cause frustration, anxiety and loss of energy. -If the solution to your problem is money, leave the problem, find money and come solve it. -Live a healthy lifestyle. Live to the point where drinking alcohol, soda and skipping the gym make you feel terrible.

We’re living to improve and not to impress. GOOD MORNING!

Onion is a nutritious vegetable that protects your heart and improves the other parts of the cardiovascular system. It helps reduce the cholesterol levels in your blood and reduce your risk of getting stroke. Enjoy eating onions and including them in your daily diet.