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27 Avgust, 2026 dagi oxirgi maālumotlarga koāra kanal barqaror faollikka ega. Oxirgi 30 kunda obunachilar soni -302 ga, soānggi 24 soatda esa -10 ga oāzgardi va umumiy qamrov yuqori darajada qolmoqda.
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| 2 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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23M. hello fam, I'm looking for friends. I freelance and i am UV student. My life feels a bit too strict. I've never had a girlfriend, really hung out with friends, or tried many new things. I'm an introvert, but once we're close, I'm actually pretty funny. All of this makes my life pretty boring. So, to anyone who wants to be friends and connect, let's get together before this summer is finished!
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| 3 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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Hellooo guysā¦
So the thing is Iāve been having this huge urge to have sex. Iām 24M and Iāve never done it before so I guess the curiosity and frustration have been hitting me pretty hard lately while knowing that it maybe an overrated thing.
The problem is whenever I start talking to or connecting with a girl my mind immediately starts sexualizing things and honestly⦠I hate it like i know itās completely natural to want sex but the amount of lust in my head is exhausting me š
I donāt want every connection I have with a girl to automatically turn sexual in my mind. I want to actually get to know someone without my brain going, āš yeah but what if we had sex?ā I genuinely donāt know what to do about it. Has anyone else dealt with this?
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| 4 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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Okay I need to vent because my brain is actually going crazy š
I met this guy and we talked for around 2 months. He works for an airline, so I knew he could be busy. We werenāt texting nonstop, sometimes only a few times a day, but we had 3 or 4 days of really deep conversations and I genuinely felt like we connected. He always asked about me, my life, school, plans, etc. He didnāt talk about himself much unless I asked.
But he doesnāt even have my number and never asked for a photo, even though he has seen me in person twice, so sometimes I question whether he actually likes me or just likes talking to me.
We eventually planned to go on a date. But on the actual day, he didnāt text or confirm anything. Because he had already been inconsistent, I got upset and removed him from Snapchat and Instagram. I wasnāt trying to be dramatic. From my perspective, we had plans and he completely disappeared.
He was upset when he saw I removed him, but later understood why I did it and that I had a reason to be upset. We didnāt talk for about a month.
Then he came back and sent me a Snapchat request. I was curious why he came back, so we talked. He apologized and explained that there had been a serious problem at work involving a lot of money. He wasnāt in a good place and said he knew he should have told me, but before he could explain, he saw that I had removed him.
He told me he knew I was upset, said he had missed me, and asked me to give him another chance. He even asked if I had forgiven him from my heart. I told him I forgave him but I donāt know if I can fully trust him yet, and he said I was right.
Now weāre talking again, but Iām struggling so much š. I know we arenāt in a relationship, so he doesnāt owe me daily texting. His job can be busy and heās not a fast texter anyway. Sometimes I reply within minutes and he takes hours.
BUT I STILL EXPECT HIS MESSAGES. š I keep checking my phone every few minutes to see if he texted and I hate this feeling. Why am I this invested in someone I barely know?
I know I donāt actually know his personality, values, or how he really is yet. Maybe I like him, maybe I like our connection, maybe I like the possibility of what this could become, or maybe I just missed him. I honestly donāt know.
I just donāt want to lose myself over him. I donāt want to chase him or make excuses for him just because I like him. I want to get to know him naturally and judge him by his actions instead of overthinking every message.
But WHY is my brain making this random man the main character of my life when I barely even know him??? šš
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| 5 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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24M here and Iām addicted to the idea of being a cuck
I donāt know what has gotten into me since I got into this relationship, but I have developed this fetish and I canāt seem to stop thinking about it
Is there any way to get over it?
#Adult
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| 6 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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Hey, 21F here! Trying to become fluent in Arabic, and Iāve been binge watching a ton of dramas to pick up the slang and accent.
I would love to connect with Arab friends or fellow learners aged 23ā29 to chat with. Since I'm still learning, Arabic is kinda in intermediate level, so I'm totally down to mix Arabic and English (Levantine/Egyptian/ Mesopotamian/ Khaliji dialects are all great!).
Beyond language practice, I'm really looking for genuine, mature connections. Life gets overwhelming sometimes, and it would be so comforting to have a crew to swap advice with, talk about life, or just share a laugh. We can hype up our favorite shows, analyze the characters, or navigate the unique aspects of Arab family dynamics together.
Drop a comment below if youādĀ love to connect, swap stories, talk about favorite show or drama recommendation. Letās connect to chat about life and culture, if only you're genuinely down for mutual support & conversations! šæš¬š¬š
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| 7 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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I wanted an advice on whether to stay friends with my ex boyfriend/ friend. So we have been on and off for the past year and a half. We have tried but it doesnāt work, he was the one that pursued me at first and after 4 or 5 months I started liking him too but ya our last breakup was around march and we kinda decided to stay friends but I still have feelings for him but I think itās more than that since my whole support system, heās my only close friend. I moved to a whole different country so far away from everyone and it has been difficult for me to make friends so I admit i have developed an attachment and just thought even through our arguments and constant breakup we would still be together but after may he completely changed, we didnāt see each other for 2 months after we decide to break up and be friends because he was in another city but he became distant and I became the one chasing him. Itās so fucked up but i literally failed all my exams and everything because I was really struggling with his sudden change, I begged to be with him and sometimes he would say no and sometimes he would agree then we break up because he didnāt want to be in it anymore. Alot of situation happened that showed me he doesnāt give a fuck like the day after we broke up he went on a date lied to me and gaslit me, he would treat me like shit in front of his friends, he left me so many times while I was crying by smth he did like we made out and the next day he was being horrible to me like heās disgusted by me but when I ask him for help some times he would help me and also when I told him what he did to me, he would apologize and say he will try to do better but he doesnāt so i had hope and didnāt want to him. fast forward to now, he was gone for a month for work and he came back. And the friendship was going good but today, at night am feeling so anxious, we are staying in the same place and am seeing that he doesnāt even want to spend time with me, he rather be in another room by himself and now I feel like shit, like am not good enough like am that ugly or am that undesirable after he got to know the real me.the man who desired me and claimed to love me doesnāt want anything to do with me. I have also started getting a lot of trust issues and becoming controlling and jealous which I wasnāt before because I donāt trust him, I donāt want to be a person like that. But ya now my mind is racing that he maybe interested in someone else and that hurts, it would break my heart if itās true but am also hurting a lot now. I donāt know what to do please help ? Heās the only close friend that I have here so am afraid to leave, for context am 23 and heās 24
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| 8 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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I will try to make it clear and short...
I am a uv guy. I am currently in a relationship, but we are stuck on the sexual aspect. She had sex with her ex, but refuses to have sex with me before marriage. She claims it is for religious reasons, but I question why she didn't hold that standard before. What do you think guys?
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| 9 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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Things havenāt been good lately. I dunno if they have even ever been good but this time it hits different. I am 25 y/o and i feel like my dreams are all falling apart. So much has been happening in my life lately i feel like the universe is against me. Everything i do doesnāt seem to work out. Things are really slow for me i am afraid. Afraid i would end up a total failure. Yeah i understand im still young and i still have time and all that but damn this life is stressing me out. Dreams i have, idk if time will make a difference. Not much of a prayer person but sometimes i fall on my knees and cry to God āwhy?? Why you gotta work me out like this? Havenāt my family suffered enough? Just for once could you just let me have whats mine?ā I could use a little win on my side rn for once in my life. A real win that would set in motion great success.
#Friendship #MentalIllness #Family #Adult
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| 10 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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untitled...this is a fragment of mine, tell me yours
Itās complicated more than it seems, it really is and I want to end it now.
End my life
But Iām not planning on dying either I just want to kill myself
Itās the only way FOR ME to live with myself right now
to kill yourself doesnāt necessarily mean to DIE
Itās to kill the illusion of yourself you have created
Everywhere you have beenā¦
Everyone that knew youā¦
That loves youā¦
Despised you...
Is ashamed of you...
All of it... destroy all of itā¦the illusions, cut the single thread of line that ties your soul down from wanting to get out of here
To lose everything...
everything you thought you valueā¦GONE, what are you then mhm?
Are you even yourself without them anymore?
Can you breathe without itā¦
Can you stomach yourself, Tell me?
ME
I donāt think I can live with myself anymore
Not like this
I NEED to leave... I NEED to live⦠I NEED TO DIEā¦.
I NEEDā¦.
And what a freeing thought it is, to always know that you can
Thus, thatās what Iām going to do in a couple of days
I AM GOING TO KILL MYSELF
Nobody will know why
And what Iāll become after, only time will tell I suppose
#Melancholy
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| 11 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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23F šø so Lately, Iāve been feeling like I donāt have a new friend can genuinely talk to or connect Looking to make a new friend and build a genuine friendship If youāre also open to getting to know someone having good conversations sharing laughs and creating a real friendshipfeel free to message meIām not looking for anything complicated or forced. Iād just love to meet someone new, get to know each other naturally, and hopefully build a genuine friendship. If youāve been feeling the same way or youāre also looking for a real connection, feel free to message me. š¤
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| 12 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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Sometimes I want to kill everyone around me I mean why do I need to be happy or sad for them idk but people act like it is my business......can't someone live his own life
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| 13 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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Hey guys how are you? I hope youāre all doing well.
The thing is I vented here some time ago and somehow because of that vent I ended up talking to a girl. We started talking and at first, we really seemed to vibe well. I told her that I wanted her to be my partner, and she said something like āOkay letās see where this goes.ā From there we slowly started acting like we were actually together.
There was also a religious difference between us but honestly I didnāt really mind. I was willing to accept her as she is because I liked her for who she was. The bigger issue was the distance. Iām in addis and sheās somewhere else because of her work. I knew her job would keep her busy so I never expected her to be available all the time. We still managed to talk whenever we could even if it wasnāt for very long and I was okay with that.
After some time we planned to finally meet in person. I was actually looking forward to it because despite everything we had built something through our conversations. But as the day got closer something suddenly changed. I honestly donāt know what happened but she blocked me out of nowhere. Just like that we couldnāt meet.
After some time had passed we started talking again but things were never really the same. The connection we had before wasnāt there anymore. Eventually we decided it was probably better for both of us not to keep talking.
But hereās the part Iām struggling with, I still think about her.
I donāt even know why sheās stuck in my head like this. A part of me still wishes I could have her in my life. Sheās the first girl Iāve ever approached and gotten this far with and maybe thatās part of why itās so hard for me to let go. I genuinely liked her. I cared about her. And honestly I think I loved her or at least I still have strong feelings for her.
Sometimes I want to text her. Iāll even think about what I could say but then I stop myself because I donāt want to disturb her or make her uncomfortable. So I just back off. But I miss her...
And right now I honestly donāt know what Iām supposed to do with these feelings. I know we decided not to talk and maybe I should just accept that and move on. But knowing that and actually doing it are two completely different things.
I guess Iām just confused. I donāt know whether I should let her go completely reach out one last time...I really donāt know what to do right now.
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| 14 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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gonna be a bit long. i had to, just humor me for a bit:
i don't even know where to start. i am doing this because i was told confessing actually helps. i am 23 m. i met this girl at a school party at a club. before that, i only knew her just by sight; i always thought she was hot. that day in the club, i was under the influence of alcohol, got this boost of confidence, and said hi. we then vibed, and everything went cool. i even got her number. for the next 2 weeks or so, nothing happened. till one day, i saw her talking to some other dude, and for some reason, felt the urge to call her. i didnāt; i instead texted her. she remembered me. our chat was also a vibe. idk, she was invested in it, so was i. so i asked her if she was willing to hang out in person, and we agreed on a date.
on the due date, i took her out. we ate dinner, we then went to the club, and had fun. nothing really happened, but i enjoyed the night. she also told me she had fun, so it was a win for me.
it was around the end of the school year, so we all went back home. but for over a month, we kept on texting each other. it was like a daily chore, but i actually liked it. why wouldnāt i? this girl was perfect by every metric i regard worthy. she is beautiful, her eyes were mesmerizing. she is funny. she is smart, like very smart.
we then agreed to meet in person; 2nd official date if you will. i had everything planned out. not gonna bore you with the details, but it was really a fun date. we then ended up in the club once again. when it then got really late, we went to a room i booked.
(the part after this is what is really bugging me)
i think this is the right time for me to put this out there: i am new to all this. never had a gf, never kissed a girl, never had sex. i was a dude with the triple v cards still intact. i never really put myself out there, except for this one time.
we went to the room; we were both a bit drunk. i initiated a kiss, she kissed me back, we started making out. she started using her tongue (i later discovered it is called a french kiss). i was confused, but acted fine (maybe she noticed). i went to second base, stayed there for a while. and then i asked her if she was ok and if we could do the deed. to my surprise, she said no.
i was in the heat of the moment, so i asked her 2 or 3 more times if we could do it. she said no.
i asked her if it was because this was her first. she said that it was not, and asked me if it was mine. i told her the truth: that it was. she was still on a no, so i just slept.
the next day, since we had little sleep, we both stayed on the bed the whole day. we made out multiple times, but she was still on a no (for sex). i enjoyed the pillow talk; i really enjoyed being physicall with her.
we then went our separate ways. i was falling hard for this girl, and i confessed my feelings that i really liked her, to which she responded by saying she doesn't like me that way. and that her heart is with another man, apparently her ex, or they were still together, idk.
i mean, i don't fucking get it? was me telling her that i am not experienced in bed, and that it was my first, the turn off? or was it me asking for her consent and not going with the heat of the moment?
like, why would she say no? ik she doesn't owe me anything, but it is just confusing.
and here i am weeks later, after no contact, still thinking about her. i only knew her for a very short time for me to say i loved her, but it feels like it. i still feel her lips, her body, her laugh when i close my eyes. my mind canāt go 5 minutes without thinking of her.
and the worst part is, school will start soon, and i will have to see her in person, which i am afraid won't help my case. i am trying so hard not to slide into her dms, but it is damn so hard. she has me on a leash; she doesn't even know it.
so idk, what do you guys make of it all?
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23m
I'm looking to connect with like-minded people who are passionate about what they do, have hobbies, are easy going and want to talk about anything and everything on their mind without no reservation. I've been in this limbo like state for the past few months where I've lost the sense of who I really am, doubting myself, coming to terms with some life lessons and acknowledging some shit I've been living with that I've tried to dodge confronting. Admitting and Saying this out loud kind of feels sacrilegious to the habit I've picked up so far in a weird way. So if you're a person who are creative, enjoy reading, writing, music, art, philosophical thoughts or have any kind of hobby, I'd love to connect and bond with.
#Friendship #MentalIllness #Adult
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| 16 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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I'm 25 right now and i lost my V when i was 21 and ever since then i have been so into bdsm, I'm very dominant during the deed i like taking control and leading the flow. I like being aggressive like i lose myself so easily to it. There were times when i tried to change this about myself because an ex didnt like it. But i couldn't.
Now i wont settle if she isnt willing to submit although it has been so hard to find someone like that but i have found very few over the years.
My question is why is submitting so hard for most ethiopian woman, once they do it iko they always love it gin getting them to it, they always have cold feet because they feel shame.
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| 17 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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You know about the Lindsay Clancy case. Due to the ToS of this channel, here is the vanilla version.
All the evidences point to her doing it, it is an old case. It has been proven she did, she admitted it, her lawyers too. The current court case is them pleading her not being guilty on the grounds of not being of sane mind. Remember, prosecutors do not work without a convincing solid evidence & your lawyers will never plead guilty if there was a sliver of doubt in the prosecution. If we are going to claim it's men failing women, her attorney is a man & her prosecutors are women, chew on that.
Not here to debate. Just trying to state my views towards women who support her. It is basically an extension of the old feminist adage "a crime, however gruesome is not really a crime if a woman did it, it is a background reasoning.".
Women all over the world are making theories for how she could not committed it & stuff. Here are my main points though:
1. There has been a very huge under-expression of sorrow & sympathy for the children. None of those women defending her have even said "how unfortunate". This is actually expected from people who blindly & fearfully conform to a God-forsaken ideology that advocates for abortion up until birth & euthanasia in some countries. The solidarity & conformity to the ideology has far outweighed the value we place on innocent children.
2. There is a vast perception, expression, admission from the many women's mouth that post partum(depression ok, but psychosis to the level of k*ll*ng your children?) psychosis is something very normal, possible & prevalent. It can happen to anybody & Lindsay's version is as probable. I see this as the cornerstone for normalizing a mother harming her children.
3. This might be a symptom of emotional desensitization in women. It's been a week or so since this have been on my mind & I have discussed with women of different ages; mothers & young women. The difference in reactions is just astounding & has further solidified my speculation.
4. Up until recently, motherhood was associated with softness & protective instincts. But today marks the day where fathers won't trust mothers with their children anymore & women joke around about "going Lindsay" on the kids.
5. There are a handful women who rallied for this "cause" & many others who posted "same" while holding their children. This has made me question the collective sanity of women in general.
6. Poor kids, when their chances of being assaulted and/or harmed by their fathers was already significant, now we are normalizing thisš
I personally had some tolerance & sometimes even support to this feminism thing, until now more than ever, but no more. I work in a delicate & technical field that involves aggregating data mainly from social media & I can name at least ten gore shit being said within feminist spaces from the top of my head. & that was something I glossed over. I entertained the idea of "moderate feminism". But this is where I draw the line. These unhinged far gone feminists were also once a "moderate feminist". They were once the fun girl that said "I don't know, feminism is not all bad".
I want to make call on men to stop harming women in any way. I always do. But today I also want to call to segregate such women out of society. We should not hurt them or protect them or work with them. Just exclude them out of all aspects of our lives. I will end any friendship or acquaintance that I have with such a person.
I believe we have been give a golden vetting tool. Any woman who empathizes with Lindsay any more than the children has all it takes to do the same.
Feminists, moderate or radical, keep at it, but a suggestion, a recommendation, a warning: your (hypothetical, Schrodinger's cat situation) husband & children don't need you. Speaking of cats, you don't need men, marriage or kids. Just live your life, alone. Stay away & f*ck you.
#Adult
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| 18 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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M(27), So like abit above a year ago me and this girl talked about jokingly starting a live (pay to see thing like OF but live) since she was gorgeous and had a great body, we were a bit drunk and it was said jokingly. About a week later she called me, i can tell she was crying and said that she wants to do it and she wants to earn asap(it was probably money problem but i didnt ask) i didnt agree with her so she told me i wasnt a good friend bc i ddnt help and she hung up the phone. Three days later she called me said sorry and told me she tried it and she couldnt get much views or retention with it, so she again begged and seledbrgn i went with it. I helped her with the marketing and advertising, we talked about what pose is best and where to post(ik very weird and awkward)...anyways in less than a week she had 3000 consistent viewers. She was getting paid well over 4k$ per month, i got only 10 percent(which im genuinely okay with since she was risking the most)...anyway alanzazaw ena after almost a year she has earned 80k overall ena now she feels guilty wants to dipš. Ene demo yehen money kemesh endet bey ledegfat. The roles changed from me not wanting to her not wanting.
So what do you guys think should i convince her to stay at it. Cus ik i can convince her if i want to gn dimo ik the guilty wont leave me.
So loads of money or ?
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| 19 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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I have a boyfriend, and weāve been dating for almost a year and a half. Yesterday, he went through my PC and found messages between me and my exās mom.
For some context, my ex and I broke up in 2024, but before she left the country, his mom made me promise that I would take care of her son. Neither of us ever told her that we had broken up, so I continued talking to her and replying to her messages(we started talking on telegram after she left the country). I even sent her old pictures of him because I wanted her to believe that he was okay and that nothing had happened.
About four months ago, she suddenly stopped talking to me. I assumed she had finally figured out that we had broken up, or that my ex had told her, so I didnāt reach out either.
My fault is that I never told my current boyfriend about this situation because I knew he might react badly or misunderstand it. Now that he has found the messages, he thinks Iāve been cheating on him this whole time.
I completely understand that itās my fault for not being honest with him about the situation, and I can see why the messages look suspicious from his perspective. But I genuinely wasnāt trying to hide an affair or maintain a relationship with my ex. I was simply trying to keep a promise I had made to his mother and avoid hurting her by suddenly disappearing.
He has already blocked me everywhere, so I donāt even have a chance to explain myself.
What do you guys think? Was I completely in the wrong for keeping this from my boyfriend, or is there more to the situation than what it looks like?
#Friendship #Family #Relationship
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| 20 | Hey Unihorse š¦
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so here is the thing , my friends don't want's to watch football so rather than pushing them to watch game with me let me get my boys who are addicted to football already , and i try to watch alone but the vibe is not there like it's betam aza , so in addis is there a place where i can find football addicts like me don't suggest me places where this tiktok guy's organize event and am around 6 kilo so if anyone is around 4,5,6 kilo or like just around there want's to watch let's see together btw am 24 and united fan
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